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Ten Days Without Texting - Does It Mean That He's Not Interested?

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JoJo hanna (1 month ago)
And what about 7 days? :D
Gokuvsnaruto22 (2 months ago)
This can be wrong. I've waited 10 days to text a girl I like.
Redfather (3 months ago)
If you ain't trying fuck then forget about it
tiffany mirror (5 months ago)
Lol after 10 days I disappear
Tamara Rowland (5 months ago)
Feeling really down right now because the man I thought I was on track to have a future with ghosted on me for 10 days. I never thought he would do this to me and I feel stupid.
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
@Tamara Rowland ..block his a**!
Tamara Rowland (4 months ago)
Vibe no, it’s been 8 weeks now and not a single word from him. He still views my Snapchat stories from time to time which is kinda strange.
Vibe (4 months ago)
Tamara Rowland did he ever hit you hit up?
Chyna Barnes (6 months ago)
Lol...he said quite low...that's me I am on the bottom of his and I don't care neither anymore i.have three kids to focus on
L G (7 months ago)
He has nothing to say or doesn't feel like texting happens to me all the time. I'm moody...hang in there while finding a replacement lol
George Hoffman (8 months ago)
What if a guys parents, grandparents, siblings, or pets passed away what if he just had surgery. I don't think 10 days without texting doesn't mean he is not interested. If that's how you word it
shygwaps (9 months ago)
mines 6 days still waiting if it's gonna reach 10its fine I let him go and move on I will always treasure the past moments
Sauron Ikov (9 months ago)
Ok, ill stop texting this girl for 10 days so she stops texting me.. jeez shes so annoying
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
If you feel that way about her, you never should have let it get this far.
Darline B (10 months ago)
I do this to my friends sometimes. I'm out of the house from 7am and I return home after 10pm (full time job plus school). If i have a text from a friend and I'm busy or really tired I usually respond a few days later when I have the time to talk. My friends know my busy schedule and I know theirs so we don't get in our feelings about it. I think the longest I took to reply was about a week tbh. But everytime I text back late I apologize. 🤷🏾
meyaw Abdulaziz (11 months ago)
or she scared him away and he decided not to engage anymore...because she revealed so much of her self that is not desirable and he didnt even mention
Lizzy Green (11 months ago)
It could also mean that he's shy and doesn't know how to start conversation
amanda smith (1 year ago)
Move on
Alfonso Pallan (1 year ago)
It’s been 84 years...
Sofia (9 months ago)
Alfonso Pallan 💀💀💀😂😂😂 omg
glory (1 year ago)
This one is the obvious!✅
Sunethra (1 year ago)
Ironic I'm back here two years later different guy. So over it and I'm also over it.
Doomer (8 months ago)
Same :/
barbara wright (1 year ago)
He's uninterested
Harpal Kaur (1 year ago)
He hasn't phoned me in 7 days he said his phone's smashed but he has my number he could call from a phonebox.before that a whole week no call..maybe his got a new phone with a new number or lied and changed his number I don't know what to think I want closure but how can I tell him don't Wana go there where he works n make a scene but his got my bags as I use to stay over three nights a week.. but I'm happier now I'm with a great man who is honest and loves me I am so happy the way he adores me is really cute my ex I was with him jus over 3 months but he started pulling back on 2nd April twice.. then pulled forward x4 telling me he loves me more for the last three days and he was showing more interests in what I did and he was more caring be got me food n drink made my fags helped me tie my laces as I'm heavily pregnant he did that twice 😓 the first day we met on the date. And two days before I seen him for the last time.im scared of I go there he might have another girl there or he might n nasty with his words what u think ?? Leave end don't ask get my stuff..or confront him and ask why he messed with me? He broke my heart took me two weeks no food ..no sleep..jus cried but his not worth my TEARS ..I love all your videos ur amazing can u help me I'm a Capricorn I'm 35 he is 30 and a cancer of that helps omg I wasted my time,money, energy on a PRICK like him plz help 😔😢🙃😕xx
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
I've been ghosted by someone I thought I was going to marry and in some respects, my situation was worse than yours. I understand the pain, the tears and questions, needing closure and everything else. Please take my advice and put plenty of distance between yourself and him. Let it go! Let him keep the bags. Count as a loss monetarily but a gain in your emotional health. Pls tlk to a counselor about your situation. If this isn't an option for you, get a chair and sit it in front of you. Make sure no one else is there. Pretend like your ex is sitting in that chair. Tell him everything that you want to say to him. At the end, even if you don't feel it or mean it, tell him you forgive him and you release him. Wash your face or take a shower or a nap or whatever makes you feel better but love yourself. I wish you good success. P.S. I had to do this chair technique with my ex husband and he was a psycho. I have been fine ever since!
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
@Pricklepie ..please tell me you didn't try to shame her because if you did, you are the one who should be ashamed.
Pricklepie (10 months ago)
Take back ur shit with your new man and go back to your new man house. U should be ashame being pregnant and not knowing the dad. Say goodbye to him cos he is acting back to get some nookie but don't give him. Seriously u have a new man now!
COD Gameplay (1 year ago)
😂😂😂😂😂
Rona Bell (1 year ago)
ouch!
shaimaa Hegazy (1 year ago)
What if I asked him to postpone our communication some how till I see him ( coz he is in another country , and I just know him from facebook, ) so I asked to decrease our communication , but u know what I missed him so much I think he got upset from my request specially I limited & restricted his profile on fb which cause him to be angry
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
Sounds like you have some reservations about him. Don't ignore your gut instinct/intuitions or red flags. If he's in another country to have decreased your communication and imposed other restrictions, doesn't sound like you two will ever visit to meet in person.
Christian Credentials (1 year ago)
Wait wait.. what if u text her and she don't freaken respond, and u need to hold out to show that you have real balls. See women have problems, they want u to text, then ignore you, then get worried when your man enough to let DAYS go by without checking up on them.
Queen hilowle (1 year ago)
He didn't text me about weak my heart is broken 🤔😑😓
alewim (1 year ago)
Love the short to the point to the outcome video! Keep up the style
Dominic Rasmussen (1 year ago)
or we think the girl is not interested and back off
Tamara Rowland (5 months ago)
Dominic Rasmussen lets be real. Men are supposed to pursue women, not the other way round. I’m not saying you should always be the one texting her but surely after 10 days you could take the initiative to text her? Most likely she would be waiting for you.
Zero Slope (1 year ago)
I'm in this situation
Megu X (1 year ago)
I once stopped texting him and he suddenly texted me first, but soon we started to not talk for a week
Eli Pollo (1 year ago)
Wee were talkinng onnthe phone n texting .. I havent texted in a month i think i was getting overwhelmes should i text her ???? Help !!
otuzuul77 (2 years ago)
Havn't heard from him for 5 weeks(((9
Danielle Dixon (10 months ago)
otuzuul77 😲 Girl, he dead. And even if he's not actually dead, he should be dead to you.
Arkacia Money (2 years ago)
he doesn't text first but sends me hearts & if I don't text first he won't text me but then I'll text & he responds in less then a minute?? I am soooo confused, can someone plz give me advice
Repent and Believe (1 year ago)
Arkacia Money it's because he didn't want to come off as clingy. He didn't want to be the only one initiating conversation to show if you liked him or not
Jerome ASF (2 years ago)
I'm sorry to say but this is very inaccurate. There this girl who likes me and I haven't been texting for 10 days bc my phone number isn't working
Mcarran mcarran123 (3 months ago)
No
ffi1001 (1 year ago)
Jerome ASF then facebook message her. In this day with social media there are no excuses.
. (2 years ago)
For all the other videos about problems similar to texting etc you have the most sincere upfront answers and it shows its coming from your heart truly i enjoy watching your vids but it's disappointing that its All short! Lol
Dmitrii Zholud (2 years ago)
I stopped texting the girl I really felt in love with because she did not show the same level of interest in me as I did in her. 4 days later she texted me and invited for a lunch. I accepted because I really missed her, but then called off - I did not want lunch with her. I asked if she wants to meet in the evening but she said she does not know when she finishes work and that she might see her friends then - I though fuck it I don't want to be a second choice. She is too proud to text me second time, or she doesn't care. In any case I won't text even though it is really painful and I think about her a lot.
nunya bizniss (4 months ago)
@Taejah Simone get the fuck out of here..
Taejah Simone (1 year ago)
Dmitrii Zholud You are weak, and not in your masculine. She is better off finding someone that will pursue her. Never forget that the woman is the prize.
Katypie (2 years ago)
thanks for this needed to hear this from a guys point of view, your vids are like a tonic to me. It hurts but your honesty is refreshing Peace to you x
wasabiimenace (2 years ago)
speaking the TRUTH
NK Cassiopeia (2 years ago)
I totally agree with you, but I've learned that you can't say that EVERY guy is not interested if he does this. Some guys are unexperienced. Other guys are afraid to come over as clingy. Some of them play games. And others are afraid to move too fast. But yes I agree, if a guy likes you enough, he WILL make it obvious.
Paradox (2 years ago)
what about when he's going out of town and does not tell you when he will be back (long distance relationship) x,x lack of consideration and the already feeling of isolation increases
JE ENN (2 years ago)
And if its a guy ive dated 12 times 4 months? =(
Cool Chicka Vlogs (2 years ago)
I wouldn't settle for a guy who doesn't know how to communicate. Cuz when you're in a relationship, contact communication is pertinent.
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
@Kyesha Carter ...exactly!
Kyesha Carter (1 year ago)
Repent and Believe i love a guy who cares, fuck being "desperate"
Repent and Believe (1 year ago)
Cool Chicka Coupons He doesn't want to come off as desperate if he does
Con C (2 years ago)
Damn the same situation exactly happened to me. A guy I'm interested in had stopped texting me for 10 days. And then, on the 11th day, he texted me back with "how are you~?" I guess I'm not important to him at all. I'm more like a pastime activity to him lolll
Tamara Rowland (5 months ago)
Con C this is exactly what I’m going through now. Makes me sad to know I’m such low priority to someone I thought I would have a future with.
tori lynn (2 years ago)
I think my heart just broke
Tequilla McCray (10 months ago)
Are you ok?
kem KuLa (10 months ago)
tori lynn same😔
Harpal Kaur (1 year ago)
Tori y is ur heart broken xxx
suchavalleygirl84 (1 year ago)
Mine, too :...(
Star Whitlow (1 year ago)
tori lynn mine just broke too.. o well I want text or call him again.. I want answer his text either
Ace Report (3 years ago)
I'd say no. I'll make a girl wait forever, even, if I like her. The reason I do this is because it makes them wonder. I had an awesome date with a girl once who had a party line for a phone. I thought I had the wrong number because the person who answered the phone told me I had the wrong number. I put the number in my drawer and forgot about it for a couple of weeks or more before trying again. When I called back the second time she answered and wanted to see me immediately. I went to see her and she was already in love with me. She told me that she couldn't figure out why she fell so hard for me but I think it had something to do with not contacting her. After I realized that this would work I started doing it on purpose.
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
Ace Report..if you or any guy, pulled that BS with me, you would find yourself by yourself.
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
@L J ..exactly right!
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
@lady o ..you're exactly right!
Krystina (5 months ago)
Childish af. That happens to me once I wonder. But after that, piss off.
L J (11 months ago)
safier321 Yeah. It’s a great way to lose a good woman.
Arcade X (3 years ago)
Personally I don't want to come off as clingy. I want to give her space so I don't text her for a few days.
Faye (4 months ago)
@Derrick Tyson he asked me something then I replied in it after maybe 30 minutes and he haven't replied to my last text for almost 5 days now. I'm tired of initiating texts. In our 2 months of messaging each other, I feel like I'm the guy and always the one who chases him. It sucks and I just want to find someone who has the same amount of interest as I put in. I don't know if he'll be back again after a week showing so much interest again then ghost me or vanish for another 5 long days. I'm living my life well tho. I even composed and recorded an original song after being ghosted haha.
Tamara Rowland (5 months ago)
Arcade X well there’s a big difference between a few days and 10 whole days.
Derrick Tyson (10 months ago)
Mario Guerrero: Ah, well, I definitely understand the pain! I know how it is, haha! Been there, MANY TIMES, so I can identify. The great thing is, though, you'll look back and realize that it may have been a blessing in disguise... especially when you start a relationship with someone else that is even BETTER than before, and you can take what you've learned from past experiences and better incorporate them into your current situations forthcoming. It happens to the best of us! Time definitely heals all wounds, but it definitely sucks when it originally happens, because the pain is real, and it's real awful, haha. It gets better! You'll find someone else and you'll realize that all things were meant to be... Shine on!
Mario Guerrero (10 months ago)
@Derrick Tyson yeah I have fallen a bit Into depression not going to lie.. it really hurts lol but that's life. thank you
Derrick Tyson (10 months ago)
Mario Guerrero: Thank you, sir! I understand how you feel, because it's one of those things where you're like, "Why didn't I know all of this information before it all came apart?!" But, you know what? There's a reason for everything, and often you cannot understand something and 'why' it all happened the way that it did until months have passed, and then it all becomes more clear. The great thing is that there are many other prospects out there. I hope you find peace soon, if you're still hurting about a current situation!
Patricia Smith (3 years ago)
Wow, you're totally right. I have someone that isn't trying really. I know I am not in the forefront of his mind, he doesn't think about me. 1) he won't answer my calls, emails, and text messages, I get ignored 2) They are asking for space all the time. He doesn't reach out to me first. 3) Definitely less affection. I am usually the one to initiate. Also only nice to me when we are about to have sex 4) avoiding commitment conversations, big time. Doesn't want to solidify anything. 5) doesn't say I love you much and I usually have to say it first. Am I a fool to stay in this relationship? We have been doing this for 5.5 years and I am starting to wonder if I am just a fool.
cedufc (6 months ago)
This behavior is exactly why u stay around😂 and he knows it
Pianist Prodigy (1 year ago)
Patricia Smith seem only using u for sex, best to just move on find someone appreciate your you & be priority in your life.
X Plane Media (3 years ago)
Patrica. im 15 years old so what im about to say prob means nothing but ill help you to the best of my knowledge. Ive had people do that to me. ( not the sex part ) but he definetly for what it seems isnt really interested...or is just using you for sex. again..dont take me 100% serious cause im only 15 but if he doesnt respond and shit then yea..hes lost interest. im sorry
Leah Silverman (3 years ago)
What if I live in Boston and he lives in New york. close, but still far.
Teonna Dorsey (3 years ago)
Doesn't apply to shy guys. Not every man is onto text.
Ashley Smith (1 month ago)
No excuses!
Tamara Rowland (5 months ago)
Teonna Dorsey then he could call?? Even briefly.
Sunethra (3 years ago)
I needed to hear this.
Deb O. (3 years ago)
What should I do if a guy I'm just getting to know all of a sudden just disappears and stops texting for a month? Then after running into him he wants to start communicating again as if nothing ever happened? Should I give him a second chance or just kick him to the curb?
Chyna Barnes (6 months ago)
I would say curbside...
Jennifer Mendez (7 months ago)
Deb O. What do you think?
Davis Angel (1 year ago)
Nope
ffi1001 (1 year ago)
Deb O. Ignore
ice444 (3 years ago)
If he goes 10 days without texting then move on.   If he hasn't seen you in 2 weeks move on. Find someone who will make you a priority.
aleialaw (3 years ago)
I can't even believe this is a question.
Lethal Injection (1 year ago)
aleialaw Right its so funny because its stupid
Vona Talks (3 years ago)
HAHAHAHA HAHAHAHA YOU MAKE ME LAUGH CAUS I BE LIKE IN MY FEELINGS AND YOU TELL ME STRAIGHT UP
Veryyyy Right !!:))
BUPBÊ INC (4 years ago)
great videos
Baby S (4 years ago)
what if it's a guy you were almost in a relationship with
Vanessa Linares (5 months ago)
He's married to his career .
Home Spa Allure (4 years ago)
My observations of men have taught me one thing, when a guy is really interested in you,  he'll prefer to call you than to text you, he'll make a move towards you no matter how tired he is!  Men in general, are natural go getters and they'll pursue a girl they really want. Texts are nice once you're in a solid relationship with a guy but, if it starts out that way, it usually isn't a good sign. There are good men out there who sincerely want a relationship and want to get to know someone.  Look for a man who makes the time to talk to you over the phone AND who spends time with you in person.
Ashley Davis (2 years ago)
Home Spa Allure this helped..
Home Spa Allure (2 years ago)
My pleasure :)
Hipstas Tonic (2 years ago)
Home Spa Allure thankyou you really helped me out
jackierooniie (4 years ago)
does this apply if I have a person on skype/long-distance/online friendship? He's always "online" even when he isn't... He video calls me mostly and rather that then skype messaging. He's older than me with a full time job so I try to be understanding about time... He mostly videocalls me between 5pm - 11pm
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
jackieroo. .he shouldn't be online even when he isn't. If it shows him online, most likely he is unless maybe it's FB and he's using the internet for something or maybe something like WhatsApp and it shows him online and he really isn't. I know it has been three years since you commented here but I sure hope you haven't been sending him money. Another thing, even if he is working a full-time job, there should be some flexibility in his schedule. He should be able to call you at different times.
ishidacoolp (4 years ago)
I made this mistake with the first girl I was in love with.   I was trying not to text her too much and needy/desperate with her time.  But, ending up the texting/contacting her enough.  How ironic!  Definitely learned from that blunder.  I was such an idiot.
JE ENN (4 years ago)
Why is this happening. How can I hihten his interest for me so that he text me every other day ???
Suga Love (4 years ago)
If dude can't be bothered to answer my text the same day.... #byefelicia . It means you rly aren't making an effort so why the hell should I? Everyone has 5 minutes to at least say a hello or be courteous and make contact. On to the next! Why waste your time?
DatingLogic (4 years ago)
Sophival101, It would be a good idea to change the topic if it is coming to an end before it actually comes to an end. This way, you don't get that awkward moment of silence or a lull in communication which will make you even more uneasy. At this point, you can text him about a new topic. It could be something that someone said that caught your attention recently or something someone did and you want to get his reaction or opinion. If you still can't come up with something, you can use your environment to help you. If you are at home, you could start texting him about what he does to keep himself from getting bored when he is at home. If you are with friends, you could text him about what his friends are like and then try to relate to him by drawing parallels with your own friends who happen to be with you at that very moment. There is so much you can do to keep the conversation going. You just need to avoid being so nervous about running out of things to text each other about and allow yourself to flow from topic to topic.
Jaineisha Penny (4 months ago)
My ex crush rejected my friend request on Facebook and he blocked me on messenger after I added him but he didn't block me on Facebook what is that mean?
MICAH MARIE (3 years ago)
+DatingLogic If he hasn't texted me back in a day in a half and the last time we talked he was sick and had pink eye. Does it mean he's not interested in me?
alexia nelson (3 years ago)
What if he text you for 3 or 4 days, but won't talk to you for 4days? It's like a pattern
Average Kicks (4 years ago)
How do I ask her out what words should I say to asks her to be my girlfriend without being weird or confusing of what I want
Lynda Peoples (3 months ago)
@DatingLogic ..nice to see you actually commented to one of your viewers/fans. ..seems like you so seldom to that. Mostly, we comment to one another. I know you can't read all of the comments or reply to each person but a little more interaction would be refreshing. For the most part, you produce great videos. I like the fact that you don't candy coat things and the videos are concise with interesting subject matter. With that being said, I would love it if you made a video telling why the same guy in a LDR with a woman he says he loves keeps ghosting her.
DatingLogic (4 years ago)
@Mr. Whistler Watch this video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCMDEyI__K4
Sophival101 (4 years ago)
Good video! But I do have a question because I'm stumped. Sometimes I just can't reply. Just the conversation is not going anywhere but I don't want to end it by replying. The Sparks and ideas about the topic just came to an end. What do you think you be the best way to try and keep it going? Thank you :)

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