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How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson

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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2mHvxck Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson https://goo.gl/DLouoh Jordan Peterson recently expertly handled a debate during an interview with BBC's Channel 4 news (The video was called: Jordan Peterson debate on the gender pay gap, campus protests and postmodernism). And JBP did it without being a bull or being aggressive. So how do we get respect without being a bully? Well, we often think that getting respect and being aggressive go hand in hand. Because unfortunately, it’s often the bully that gets the most respect in the schoolyard and even in the workplace. But Jordan Peterson is an exemplar of a different way to generate massive amount of respect. So in this video we’re going to explore 3 main things he does that force people to respect you WITHOUT being a bully. Now, we focused a lot on respect in this video but that's actually just one out of four emotions that are going to create an amazing first impression on anyone cross-culturally. Now, if you're curious with the other three emotions that you want to create in that person are to make an amazing first impression, I made a video on that that breaks down what those four emotions are so that you can start using them today to consistently make killer first impressions. 0:30 Jordan Peterson calls it "pacing your reality" 4:50 Jordan Peterson tells stories effectively 6:54 Jordan Peterson uses archetypal stories Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
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Charisma on Command (10 months ago)
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Stellar Creations (11 days ago)
Are you Canadian?
George (13 days ago)
+Leah Davidson because they are all being used by the left wing to kill free speech and democracy. Also BLM, antifa
pixwana (24 days ago)
+Abdus Samad lol
Margaret Bergman (1 month ago)
Charisma on Command Very interesting
JR Murphy (2 months ago)
So you promote this violent nutter Peterson for the notifications!!!!  ewwww- you incite hatred, misogyny, sexual abuse and persecution of disabled women and children - you kill people and its all for the money - you have the same idol as Peterson - money and power ewwwww
Sunny Zona (4 hours ago)
Can't make a good case for atheists, over 2500 Bible prophecies over 2000 proven true by SCIENCE,MATH, HISTORY.
Thomas Pick (6 hours ago)
Those two women talking about the fascists were both beautiful young women. Where can I meet them?
Rarirama (18 hours ago)
4:14 aw man, I felt bad for them tbh
Anthony Bernabei (1 day ago)
He doesn’t actually believe in God because you cannot , logically, have faith in God when you doubt he exist. For example: can you love your wife but also entertain she may not exist? No.
Axe God (1 day ago)
As a battle rapper I do not approve of this message. lmao
fressfisch (1 day ago)
and remember: respect. is. everything.
Shawn Buxton (1 day ago)
You assume everyone has the same level of intelligence. In the case of the girls seeing imaginary nazis...they DON'T. Ergo I don't waste time arguing or trying to persuade mentally handicapped people.
3rd Planet (1 day ago)
Akiraspin (2 days ago)
His patience is infectious.
Josua dos Reis (3 days ago)
Jordan exemplifies many characteristics of prairie Canadian men. Strong, confident, and smart but not needing validation. A lot like Brett Wilson. Good man!
Ozzie Garcia (3 days ago)
SmiteKite (4 days ago)
Wow, an explainer video on JP ... being spoon fed is part of the downfall
Aleka Dela Cruz (5 days ago)
For me bullies dont get respect, the victims dont respect them they are scared that if they contradict the bully they will get beaten up, sooo I dont think that is respect
Militant Dr. Dolittle (6 days ago)
JP didn‘t change my views....yet. He doesn’t have to because he speaks the truth!
onetoaster 19 (7 days ago)
2:21 peperson?
Soloman1001 (8 days ago)
Depends where you are? Most respect in the world sadly with weak people especially is earned through fear.
Grumbel Bumbel (8 days ago)
Guys, he's a psychologist. He put years and years into understanding human behavior. He takes your point and modulates it to see a different approach. ANY good psychotherapist uses the same technique.
Asa Yagami (8 days ago)
you should make a video on Bill Oreilly and how to be a good presenter
The world is supposed to be unsafe. What fun would it be otherwise? Navigating a dangerous world is something even modern robots can do. Are you less than a robot?
ron sylvia (8 days ago)
be pragmatic in every argument, jordan master manipulator
/Doc/ (9 days ago)
Haven't seen that motivational poster in a long while.
Zbriu (9 days ago)
Now YouTube is forcing a 2:23 minute crap AD before the video? More than 2 minutes forced ADs? Is this a choice of the content creator or is it YT? AFter like a minute i got a 6 minute forced AD? I'm out of here
Jerry Lynch (9 days ago)
He is not religious.
Ros Pillai (10 days ago)
Found this useful until the bit about the Soviet Union where it becomes clear Peterson does not practice what he preaches. His views on the Soviet Union and especially Stalin are outdated and pure US propaganda!
Manasi Kashyap (10 days ago)
Great analysis & video! I’m curious- did you have to license the footage since you didn’t create it yourself?
Supreme Reader (10 days ago)
Why do 2,000 people dislike this?!
Seth Boehm (10 days ago)
"about as effective as a motivational poster" Im gonna start saying that from now on
Seth Boehm (10 days ago)
peterson is my hero
Eli Elfassy (12 days ago)
Great !!!!
swiffty1 (12 days ago)
Call me evil but I love it when people don't change their minds, especially when everyone knows the person being stubborn will ultimately drag themselves into destruction. For example you tell someone if they keep waking in the same direction as they currently are in they will fall down a hole. It doesn't matter how you say it, one should not be soo full of pride that they disregard your statement because of how you made it.
A R (12 days ago)
Charisma on command: presents great methods using examples YouTube viewers: argues over examples😑
Ruben Jimenez (12 days ago)
Jordan Pepperson 😂
typeOhh (12 days ago)
Wait...who's Jordan peperson?:) 02:20
Noob Artist600 (12 days ago)
Thank you for calling out the OWNEDtards. Bud bridges not walls
casa JB (13 days ago)
Good goy detected.
4boyscouts (14 days ago)
Do David Rubin video's usually have the cat from fairy tail in the lower left corner?
Michael Clay (14 days ago)
Clickbait title, I'd rather get my wisdom from the horses mouth, Unless of course, this was endorsed by the man himself.
Michael Clay (14 days ago)
Still a good video though.
Racist Grandpa (14 days ago)
"and his most viewed video till this date" Oh boi! Nobody saw the Cathey Newman massacre coming
Shylah (15 days ago)
>peterson the dude is a joke, word salad
Callum James (15 days ago)
Seth Pellerin (15 days ago)
Its funny. Idubbz does the 2nd one lol
Giorgi Zhvania (15 days ago)
"if you make others feel stupid it doesn't actually change their mind" That's where I have to disagree, I feel like if you don't go overboard in terms of deliberately making people feel stupid, they could actually develop the awareness towards their lack of information in the argumentation, so next time they will not use the same line to go against something, but will go in more specific details, like I don't believe those two girls actually tried to say the same thing again after they got emotional.
simosc2 (16 days ago)
thank you...I want to watch more of Dr Peterson...I have a lot to learn from him
Raw and Uncensored (16 days ago)
In my 1st debate, in college, in the lunch room, I ended up hooking up with the girl I argued with. I don't believe I am a good debater, lol.
KaiserSoze679 (16 days ago)
HA! You would be hard pressed to find a WORSE example of this outside of the current United States government. Not only is this man not respectable, but he's SUCH a bully he became famous solely for pissing and moaning when the Canadian government passed a more or less impotent law taking one bullying method (that barely even applied to him) off the table. He actually does the VAST MAJORITY of the things you claim he "wins respect without doing" on a regular basis. If you haven't seen him get emotional and talk over people, or go out of his way to make people feel dumb, then you should really see more of what he does before you comment about it, cause I've seen it time and time again. Watch literally ANY TIME he's spoken to someone from the LGBT community, and see how respectable he looks then. But hey, congrats on finding a few minutes of footage where he's not (obviously) being an asshole. Oh and "once he's completely reversed your initial position"? Show me one time he's ever done that to an honest person, cause I sure as hell haven't seen it. Jordan Peterson is garbage masquerading as an academic, and if that's the kind of person YOU respect.... then I, in turn, can't respect you.
Mehrzad Akbari (16 days ago)
2:25... Jordan Pepperson. 🤣
Michael Telman (17 days ago)
I hate his voice
Ago Lol (17 days ago)
2:23 Anybody else hear “Jordan Peperson” lol
Ian Prado (17 days ago)
2:22 Dr. Jordan Pepperson
that one guy 500 (18 days ago)
The only video of petersons i have watched is the one you show at the end. He had one thing he said that demmanded me to give him respect instantly. It was something along the lines of " Don't supress the opposition if you believe they are wrong, allow them to speak so you, as well as others, know why they are wrong."
Evan Cary (18 days ago)
TheEmmaHouli (19 days ago)
oh Daddy!!!!
Vigorous V (19 days ago)
"Jordon Pepperson" 2:20
Runnymede Revolution (19 days ago)
Hint: it helps not to be Cathy Newman!
pateastwood (20 days ago)
A lot of it are in “how to win friends and influence people”
Randall Sawyer (20 days ago)
Jordan Pepperson.... LMFAO (2:22)
Craig Merkey (20 days ago)
in life it helps me remember what the motivation is... unfortunately the 24 hour news cycle has a lot of air time to sell... that one propaganda channel masquerading as news profits 2 billion dollars a year... with those numbers who would change !
Doug Bower (20 days ago)
At least 3 influences I pick up watching Jordan Peterson: 1) Jung, 2) Milton Erickson, 3) and Rogers, might be willing to add Maslow and pushed might be willing to add Ellis and what I consider a cousin stance cognitive behavior. All in all though it is poise as he engages others in tough dialogue most of us mere mortals would collapse under because of our subjectivity.
Wiktor Zakrzewski (21 days ago)
2:21 "Interestingly Jordan Pepperson" ? :)
Never gonna buy your did
h (21 days ago)
my dad taught me that the ultimate reason that people argue is because they don't understand the point the other side/person is trying to make, and how they want to take away something from that other side. sounds obvious, i know, but it shows how any argument can be way more persuasive and compelling if both or one side is able to sympathize and help understand with the other, while still trying to being a new consideration to the table.
X Gen (22 days ago)
I'm awesome at getting people to hate me :) That way I know the probability of people speaking to me remains low. Just the way I likes it.
Justin (22 days ago)
One word to describe Mr. Jordan Peterson: Genius
Ian Lee (22 days ago)
Jordan Peterson is a pseudophilosopher. He has quite a following though.
Ian Lee (15 days ago)
+Tallon Powell Dang you got me. Good job.
Tallon Powell (15 days ago)
And you are a pseudo-intellectual
crabtrap (23 days ago)
the main thing you missed about Peterson,he has courage of conviction in his eyes and heart; the kind of look that say a Bar bully would know "ya i can beat the piss out of this egghead, but he's not going to make it easy". i'm just saying that JP will take his lumps for his beliefs, and probably give some too.
XPassiveWolf44X -.- (23 days ago)
Lol I saw that little Easter egg for Steven Crowder
Emanuel Brown (23 days ago)
I understand your point but it feels a bit over the top to analyze everything and put it into a box on to explain how someone talks. I think people have ways to do things but you make it seem more complex than what it actually is on this video.
Lavender Violet (23 days ago)
feeling tremendous overwhelming guilt, over ancient memories I just can't shake.
ISayEssays (23 days ago)
I've noticed a humerous little quagmire... at around 2:20 the narrator says "Jordan peppers in," and some commenters (using the bad faith fallacy) just assumed the narrator said "Jordan Pepperson" despite that interpretation making no grammatical sense within the context of the sentence.
thesalanian (24 days ago)
Funny how everyone who dislikes Jordan Peterson just accuses him of being fake. Hardly seen a more real person in public discourse.
Radio Jet (14 hours ago)
You don't get out much, do you?
heavyrules669 (24 days ago)
The two girls who crying were pathetic, just two entitled persons expecting everyone to agree with their imagination.
Know Thanks (24 days ago)
how ironic because no one worth their salt respects Jordan Peterson
Luke Frohling (24 days ago)
I wouldnt have the patience of Mr. Peterson. All SJW's and Libtards just annoy me with their blatant stupidity, basement-dwelling echo chamber opinions, and sheep-like media-directed anger. Stupidity annoys me too much
Dn Pr (24 days ago)
The witch in hansel and gretel who fattens up the kids and eats them O_O
pixwana (24 days ago)
Peterson was not trying to win a debate during his lectures that you sited.. in some of the the appearances that he made on talk shows he was but your point was already lost for the fact that it was not intentional
Fish Abuser (24 days ago)
"Build your opponent a golden bridge to retreat across"
Richard Willette (24 days ago)
I got no respect for Peterson Such a douche
Yaya Boom (25 days ago)
For a second i thought you called him Jordan Pepperson.
Greyareas27 (25 days ago)
"How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully"? PLEASE send Trump a free copy of the lecture!!!
Szkotu Szkocki (25 days ago)
He is a bully Plain and simple
Ryan Smith (25 days ago)
Excellent analysis.
Charisma on Command (19 days ago)
~ Glad you liked the breakdown!
awill6192 (25 days ago)
This is such a great video. At first it’s like “well duh.” But that’s just how easy the content creator made it to follow. Very good break down!
Shamiah Bafadhal (25 days ago)
If you think about it, it’s actually a simple concept: Jordan Peterson respects people, and they respect him in return. If you respect people, you wouldn’t put them down in argument or ever ignore their feelings and views, no matter how intelligent or superior you may think you are, but listen and talk to them respectfully. It’s easy to fall into the trap of feeling good because you feel like you’re so much ‘better’. Humility is a virtue too.
Juan Duque (25 days ago)
Great video. Thanks for posting.
Charisma on Command (19 days ago)
~ Our pleasure!
Neurotic Sos (26 days ago)
such a shame that most young pretty girls are total cucked libtard sjws. But I still don't like to see them cry
lovemagicandroad (26 days ago)
Very good video, thanks!!!
Charisma on Command (19 days ago)
~ Glad you liked the video! Thanks for watching. :-)
Conner Stern (26 days ago)
hats off your a smart dude
Noah Olson (26 days ago)
I want to see Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson have a conversation
volusiasorange (26 days ago)
A viscous statement. It's like molasses
Grammar Jew (27 days ago)
A always laugh when I see a vid named something like "Peterson destroys" when hes... not. Hes presenting a case, usually fairly well. Sometimes not that well. Usually rather civil and progressive as far as debate like conversations go. Fair a field from the smackdown rants we often see. Really undermines the hard work he puts in.
Oscar Moreno (27 days ago)
Just kill some ballas
Mer Mayed (27 days ago)
2:22 “Jordan Pepperson-.” Me : wait what *rewinds* COC: “Jordan peppers in many instances..” Me: did he mean for that to be an accidental joke or
Leonardo Villa (27 days ago)
I thought it was Mark Ruffalo in the thumbnail.
iiixi (27 days ago)
Good job, sir.
Charisma on Command (21 days ago)
~ Appreciate it!
bcarp3 (27 days ago)
So glad I saw this. All I need to do is ditch the nice guy hiding within me cause I’ve always been like this. I must not be as respected as I’d like due to not being very alpha
Vinther Angel (28 days ago)
Kind of pisses me off if people become more aware of this tactic. You have no idea how ego-boosting it is to assert dominance over a hothead like this. At least it will make humanity more efficient.
Sam Robinson (28 days ago)
Put simply, people like him because he's not an asshole. What makes him so great at what he does though is that he understands the importance of routinely validating his opponents and encouraging them to speak. This gives him total control of the emotional factor of the discussion. I feel like I've learned a lot from him.
Hwah96 (28 days ago)
a nice observation, thanks
Charisma on Command (21 days ago)
~ Glad you're liking it!
Mihaela Dima (28 days ago)
The thing is, once you understand his strategies, Jordan Peterson is not that impressive anymore and the chances of him convincing you of anything fall dramatically. It's because you start understanding that his points of view are not more valid, but that he is a better manipulator.
Conrad S (27 days ago)
While your point has merit, I would argue his strategies are not as nefarious as you imply. He's not vying for power or to control others. He simply has information about how to live life that is valuable and he is able to pass that on with highly effective rhetoric. No matter what you hear you still have to make an internal decision on accepting that information.
Rohan Jarande (28 days ago)
"I decided to wall off all the good things I saw in him, in order to put my attention back into not listening to him".

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