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Happened to me so many times with various men, I have lost count. Every time I would blame myself that I scared them away or that I looked too desperate or that I am not attractive enough for them to actually date me or that I am an idiot who misread friendly gestures or whatever. And every time it was revealed later on they had a girlfriend all along. I'm just glad I'm not the one to blame. It is too harsh when the only way you know how to deal with rejection is blame yourself.
This is happening now. He always liked me and flirts with me to no end emotionally and teases the fact that I'm the "one". I was hesitant for about two months but he was persistent so I finally gave him my number...he never called. No big deal oh well his loss we still work together,one day he said didnt call cause he lost his phone. Ive Given him my number again weeks passed and still no call I asked why keep flirting with with no intentions he said in the sincerest way possible to mankind that hes so sorry he has a lot thing happening with relatives and had to pick up another job and he have no sleep anymore which gives him less ability to communicate to everyone, I felt bad and said okay and he said hes off on a Tuesday let's go out. Tuesday come and goes and here we are again. We have been good friends prior to any attentions to date,but after this it's hard for me to have any respect for him even as a friend, nevermind a significant other. I'm starting to think he had no interest at all in dating me,and from the grapevines I heard he just got into a new relationship. So I'm questioning Was him not calling was his subtle rejection. I let him pass my guarded walls for him to reject me and find someone else instead. It's just wrong to lead someone on like this and I never been rejected like this so I dont know how to act like we're still the best of friends if he couldn't be upfront and say that he was no longer interested
Wow. This is the BEST explanation I have EVER heard, and I’m not even exaggerating. I’m experiencing this exact scenario.
It sucks, but damn I dodged a bullet and refuse to be manipulated again. (I have a child with a narcissistic disordered man)
I am content with being single indefinitely, or maybe become a lesbian❤️
Thank you dear!!
I'm really confused. Sometimes I hear my crush talk about me with his friends, but then he's too scared to talk to me for some reason, but he isn't afraid to say ”hey beautiful” to me but I'm not sure if he meant me maybe maybe not and then I just get confused. And I heard he has a sister. Well I assume that they are related because they look a bit similar. His sister is in my history and his sister gives me this look like she knows something which is strange... I don't know what this means at all... He tries to say hi to me sometimes but I'm kind of scared to say hi back to him. Before the bell in school, I would start leaving early, and then a few days later he does the same too what does it all mean?
I really need your advice, I work with my crush and he’s the one who flirted with me first. At work he calls my name and we have a good conversation and whenever my shift is over earlier than his, he stretches his arm out so that I hug him. I text him if we could play online together and he agrees but he never played with me or messaged back. I’m confused, does anyone have tips for me?
What should we do then in this situation? Is it right to just keep him as a distant friend? I told him I don’t wanna get too close like before and that he needs to respect my limits currently. And he agreed to that. And we although he tries speaking to me but I don’t always reply and we are not as close. But is that right? Or should I just cut him lose? Because he is currently posting many pics with girls he told me he didn’t even like and he is flirting and commenting to them. As if that would get me jealous or something.
I'm with a guy I adore. He says he likes a lot of space...the lone wolf. We get close on weekends, then he is cold as ice through the week. It's been like 2 months of dating. Can a guy who enjoys control & space (from everyone) even fall in love?
Ugh. I hate when guys do this and they shouldn't. To them yes, flirting with a girl is fun and makes them feel good, but to a girl it's misleading and unfair. And in my experience it's not just brief flirtation as he passes by in the hallway, it's pretty heavy come-ons. And then you find out they have a GF. Been there a million times
I'm going through this right now. I have a crush on this guy that I work close with... and he flirts with me all the time and always tries to make me laugh. He texts me when we're at work and he comes and visits me at my job.. we talk for a little bit then he's rushed to leave... I don't know if I have too much power when I flirt with him? He just seems like he doesn't initiate anything else after the workplace flirting... it drives me insane. I guess I just have to get over him.
There is literally no other excuse for this behavior, you completely nailed it on the head. It is all about manipulating a person. I tried to believe it was more innocent than that, it wasn't. The person is insecure and wants control again.
Jarhonda Gamble me too! Well, I've decided that I was going to ignore him the next time he messages me. One day he'll send me ultra sweet and flirty messages. Then, when i reciprocated a couple days later, he didn't respond. I don't want to get caught up in his game and give him all the power. I think I'll try giving him a dose of his own medicine. I was afraid that if I did that, we would lose contact altogether. Like, what if he could care less and I was just a pass time, and he doesn't care if I don't respond to him. But, that just has to be a chance I'm willing to take. If he's. or the one, he's not the one. And if I don't hear from him after that, I'll get over it and meet someone else.
I've come to realize this is 100% me. Natural flirt with women, but when things seem real I back out. The only somewhat difference in the video would be the reason behind it. I choose to be a flirt for fun, but I refuse to get serious because all i can ever think about is the mental state of mind my ex-girl put me through for months. So many girls I've led on and backed out of for this particular reason.
I got my crush's number without his permission (he put his phone number on social media for fans and sponsors to contact him since he is an actor/model). I tried to contact him by a phone call but i didn't want to seem to be eager to talk to him or a stalker, so i acted like his number was saved by someone in my phone under no name and that is why i called him to know to whom belongs the number ! He replied and denied that the phone number belongs to him ! He gave me a false name (maybe he thought it's a trap or someone is trying to troll him) but when i said my real name he acted like he doesn't know me even though i'm the sister of his brother's wife and he shared a dance with me( not even his friend who came with him) at their wedding in front of everyone ! When i was calling i heard some people (probably his friends) talking to him maybe he ignored me because he didn't want to get teased or me to heard something ? Maybe he thought that some girl is trying to talk to him using my name ?
He is a celebrity and girls are fighting over him in social media and real life.
Maybe he felt that it is going real and this is why he also pulled away ?
This is kind of how I feel with someone I'm seeing now We're getting closer but I don't think he necessarily WANTS a relationship with me. However I am ready for one and would like to keep moving forward. I think he's just in a place in his life where he doesn't want to jump into anything serious, he probably didn't expect us to hit it off so well after our first date. I also think he wants to see what else is out there..Idk if his all that attracted to me tbh : ( I'm not really his type based on looking at his exs..it sucks but what can you do. I can only move on and expand my horizons.
U r the realest relationship expert I hv seen on u tube...the shit is so real I been watching these videos one after the other n now i feel like Im talking to a very wise friend about my feelings n well thank u wise friend!
I think you just decribed what happened to me. for months a guy has acted interested, flirted, showed concern, hugged me every time he saw me. Then last week announces that he has a girlfriend! He looked at me and told me a few months ago that he was single. I was trying to be patient and not pressure him.
That's true because I met him five years ago though I call him from time to time since there were no balance though I went on with my life thought I'll check it though he had conversation however we've seen one another the day we met though he seem to be a gentleman at the same time comments on how I should take his number because he this or that though he like the way I'm fitting them jeans though I should get involved into something he's interest go on about how I can do that..woo
im going through something identical to this. there is a guy i care for who flirts, shows interest, gets close, we have very intimate and deep conversations about our lives. we cuddle each other at nights, he treats me like someone he is romantically interested in. we share kisses, then when i let him know how i feel, he says he only wants to be my friend. i dont understand. i tried to get a consultation but the link doesnt work.
I'm dealing this kind of situation right now.he flirt with me before.I've met him last Dec.and until now we are dealing this kind of stuffs we had sex already.but we don't have any relationship because he's married but he told me I'm special to him.we are not dating only the two of us..should be with my friends..but I really love this guy.what should I do I need him to miss me..I'm just the one initiating contacts
This is what I am currently dealing with, and it's hard. I like him but the withdrawal is upsetting and so I am going to step back. Just the way it is and I need to protect myself. Thanks for making these videos, they are really great.
Thanks for the insight. This has definitely happened to me. I now realize it was mainly because he was married (unavailable) yet also doing some work for me (felt he had to stay on my good side) -- not a good combination. And I liked his attention, so I encouraged it. (Nothing blatantly naughty happened or was said.) We were both getting positive attention, but at a potentially VERY high cost because I'm married too (though heading for divorce & he didn't know that at the time). That's all a quite unstable mix that could blow up the chemistry lab. I wanted to nicely let him go/not renew his contract & told him why. We both agreed that we shouldn't deal with each other, but my spouse insisted on dealing with him. I no longer did. Once the guy's work was up & he'd been paid 6 months later, I spoke on phone with him at length. We had feelings for each other, but he said he didn't think it was a good idea for us to have contact with each other. I agreed & we've not spoken since. That was about 2 months ago. I intend to keep things that way, & I've since moved far away. My point? Sometimes things are WAY more complicated behind the scenes than the woman knows & in the long run he's doing her a favor by pulling back.
This is exactly what is happening. And I have been giving this guy time (as he has so many things on his plate with his mother (health)/career peak/immigrating to new country) and so now I have just been talking less as its been 6 months and I don't want to indulge my heart..being cautious (plus I have been busy). He does care but maybe once he settles he will know exactly what he wants. He still talks to me but I am kinda trying to make him work for me. If he really wants me, then he should reciprocate back..if not then guess time to move on.