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Tee x (27 days ago)
Because men are mad! Lool
Dove Cinder (28 days ago)
I'm really confused. Sometimes I hear my crush talk about me with his friends, but then he's too scared to talk to me for some reason, but he isn't afraid to say ”hey beautiful” to me but I'm not sure if he meant me maybe maybe not and then I just get confused. And I heard he has a sister. Well I assume that they are related because they look a bit similar. His sister is in my history and his sister gives me this look like she knows something which is strange... I don't know what this means at all... He tries to say hi to me sometimes but I'm kind of scared to say hi back to him. Before the bell in school, I would start leaving early, and then a few days later he does the same too what does it all mean?
punisher white (1 month ago)
that's correct i do this . you even explain my actions without me knowing mann. lol
I really need your advice, I work with my crush and he’s the one who flirted with me first. At work he calls my name and we have a good conversation and whenever my shift is over earlier than his, he stretches his arm out so that I hug him. I text him if we could play online together and he agrees but he never played with me or messaged back. I’m confused, does anyone have tips for me?
Ins98 (1 month ago)
Very true. I’m a girl, and I have done this before (I know it’s wrong)
Deqa Abdi (2 months ago)
After 12 months of flirting I doubt it he is dealing with something or someone in his life.
Happy2bFree (5 months ago)
Either he's married or has a girlfriend. He is a jerk who just likes to flirt for ego purposes! #Truth
Lindsey Hebert (6 months ago)
I am dealing with this pain
Nice2347 (7 months ago)
Why not do a unisex video on this? Girls do this shit too.
Being Shweta (7 months ago)
Hat's off to your level of understanding. Thanks.
Chioma Philomena (9 months ago)
Guys are selfish....he flirts with me but I can't flirt with him? Sorry, but that's NOT okay. It hurts, if you don't know that.
Nouran Zakaria (1 year ago)
What should we do then in this situation? Is it right to just keep him as a distant friend? I told him I don’t wanna get too close like before and that he needs to respect my limits currently. And he agreed to that. And we although he tries speaking to me but I don’t always reply and we are not as close. But is that right? Or should I just cut him lose? Because he is currently posting many pics with girls he told me he didn’t even like and he is flirting and commenting to them. As if that would get me jealous or something.
nani (1 year ago)
Yeah it's really irritating..i don't know what to do
Andrea Potter (1 year ago)
I hate men.
Deqa Abdi (2 months ago)
Be in relationships is so streeful.
Grand Old Soul (2 months ago)
translation. she loves men
Life of Jazmin (3 months ago)
Haley Mohamed (5 months ago)
Andrea Potter lol
[diamond] (5 months ago)
Andrea Potter I’m pretty sure that they hate you too.
Madam Blue (1 year ago)
I'm with a guy I adore. He says he likes a lot of space...the lone wolf. We get close on weekends, then he is cold as ice through the week. It's been like 2 months of dating. Can a guy who enjoys control & space (from everyone) even fall in love?
Madam Blue (1 year ago)
So how can we react to cause a shift, help him be at peace, & fall in love.
Laurette148 (1 month ago)
Madam Blue wondering the same .
the end (1 year ago)
fantastic channel, thanks man, keep up the great work! so good to see someone talk sense, to the point and in such short videos!
pooja suresh (1 year ago)
This is so true omggggg
kristin lee (1 year ago)
Ugh. I hate when guys do this and they shouldn't. To them yes, flirting with a girl is fun and makes them feel good, but to a girl it's misleading and unfair. And in my experience it's not just brief flirtation as he passes by in the hallway, it's pretty heavy come-ons. And then you find out they have a GF. Been there a million times
The Great One (5 months ago)
kristin lee now you know how is guys feel with woman who are big flirts.
Tess Chen (1 year ago)
Are there any solutions to this?
Ms.L (1 year ago)
Omg! I can relate
So that means he likes me Does that mean I have a chance with him
Well he flirts back
Allyn (1 year ago)
Okay. This is happening to me. So, should I just ignore the next time he messages me? Give him a taste of his own medicine. Idk. Turn the tables a little bit?
Katrina Arbis (1 year ago)
I'm going through this right now. I have a crush on this guy that I work close with... and he flirts with me all the time and always tries to make me laugh. He texts me when we're at work and he comes and visits me at my job.. we talk for a little bit then he's rushed to leave... I don't know if I have too much power when I flirt with him? He just seems like he doesn't initiate anything else after the workplace flirting... it drives me insane. I guess I just have to get over him.
The Crab & The Fish (1 year ago)
Men are so stupid
Hmea (1 year ago)
The Crab & The Fish ikr lmao
Tori7022 (1 year ago)
There is literally no other excuse for this behavior, you completely nailed it on the head. It is all about manipulating a person. I tried to believe it was more innocent than that, it wasn't. The person is insecure and wants control again.
Jarhonda Gamble (1 year ago)
My current situation..he has pulled back so I decided to fall back too. Now there's no communication between us
Cobra SS (3 months ago)
+Happy2bFree Never too old. I'm 52 and I get young men in their 20's. I played their games and now they are hooked. I just walk away Everytime. Young boys don't do anything for me. Just an ego boost
Happy2bFree (5 months ago)
Right,me too! Too old for fames!
Allyn (1 year ago)
Jarhonda Gamble me too! Well, I've decided that I was going to ignore him the next time he messages me. One day he'll send me ultra sweet and flirty messages. Then, when i reciprocated a couple days later, he didn't respond. I don't want to get caught up in his game and give him all the power. I think I'll try giving him a dose of his own medicine. I was afraid that if I did that, we would lose contact altogether. Like, what if he could care less and I was just a pass time, and he doesn't care if I don't respond to him. But, that just has to be a chance I'm willing to take. If he's. or the one, he's not the one. And if I don't hear from him after that, I'll get over it and meet someone else.
Vanessa Carbajal (1 year ago)
thank you again ! your logic is so true !
Shtangarang (1 year ago)
I've come to realize this is 100% me. Natural flirt with women, but when things seem real I back out. The only somewhat difference in the video would be the reason behind it. I choose to be a flirt for fun, but I refuse to get serious because all i can ever think about is the mental state of mind my ex-girl put me through for months. So many girls I've led on and backed out of for this particular reason.
Sarah s (1 year ago)
Shtangarang I got my crush's number without his permission (he put his phone number on social media for fans and sponsors to contact him since he is an actor/model). I tried to contact him by a phone call but i didn't want to seem to be eager to talk to him or a stalker, so i acted like his number was saved by someone in my phone under no name and that is why i called him to know to whom belongs the number ! He replied and denied that the phone number belongs to him ! He gave me a false name (maybe he thought it's a trap or someone is trying to troll him) but when i said my real name he acted like he doesn't know me even though i'm the sister of his brother's wife and he shared a dance with me( not even his friend who came with him) at their wedding in front of everyone ! When i was calling i heard some people (probably his friends) talking to him maybe he ignored me because he didn't want to get teased or me to heard something ? Maybe he thought that some girl is trying to talk to him using my name ? He is a celebrity and girls are fighting over him in social media and real life. Maybe he felt that it is going real and this is why he also pulled away ?
Reality B.S (1 year ago)
and he freks out.
6980MulhollandDrive (1 year ago)
"Control" is the key word here. "Manipulation" is the other. Don't let anybody treat you like this people!
Mb S (1 year ago)
this is what my 'he' is doing these days.
Mb S (1 year ago)
please tell how to react! your vids have helped me a lot dealing with my crush lately! per your vids he seems to be a player!
Mb S (1 year ago)
how to react to this sort of a person, this horror movie stuff is going on in my life at work..
Ricardo Martinez (1 year ago)
it is cool couse your stuff that i listen to it works around my crush
SpacecowboiKilu (1 year ago)
This is kind of how I feel with someone I'm seeing now We're getting closer but I don't think he necessarily WANTS a relationship with me. However I am ready for one and would like to keep moving forward. I think he's just in a place in his life where he doesn't want to jump into anything serious, he probably didn't expect us to hit it off so well after our first date. I also think he wants to see what else is out there..Idk if his all that attracted to me tbh : ( I'm not really his type based on looking at his exs..it sucks but what can you do. I can only move on and expand my horizons.
d3blh01 (1 year ago)
Love your videos.
TheEvolvedegg (1 year ago)
U r the realest relationship expert I hv seen on u tube...the shit is so real I been watching these videos one after the other n now i feel like Im talking to a very wise friend about my feelings n well thank u wise friend!
G Zta (1 year ago)
thank you so much you just answered the question that's been lingering for awhile
A.Tanyale (1 year ago)
I think you just decribed what happened to me. for months a guy has acted interested, flirted, showed concern, hugged me every time he saw me. Then last week announces that he has a girlfriend! He looked at me and told me a few months ago that he was single. I was trying to be patient and not pressure him.
Killuminatisx blupp (2 years ago)
What are some of the signs of a guy being affraid of being in a relationship but he likes you?
Sarah s (1 year ago)
Killuminatisx blupp This video is all aboht what you wanna know.
Glad Harris (2 years ago)
That's true because I met him five years ago though I call him from time to time since there were no balance though I went on with my life thought I'll check it though he had conversation however we've seen one another the day we met though he seem to be a gentleman at the same time comments on how I should take his number because he this or that though he like the way I'm fitting them jeans though I should get involved into something he's interest go on about how I can do that..woo
aimi anetor (2 years ago)
im going through something identical to this. there is a guy i care for who flirts, shows interest, gets close, we have very intimate and deep conversations about our lives. we cuddle each other at nights, he treats me like someone he is romantically interested in. we share kisses, then when i let him know how i feel, he says he only wants to be my friend. i dont understand. i tried to get a consultation but the link doesnt work.
Kasza Blanka (1 month ago)
aimi anetor I had the exact same situation. Send him to space. Its fake. Don’t settle for less. It took me 3 years to get to this point where I can pass all the hurt he caused. Its not worth it.
blackbeauty doll (1 year ago)
aimi anetor tell him friends don't cuddle.
kristin lee (1 year ago)
Carissa Carrafa (2 years ago)
aimi anetor I had the same thing happen to me
Mama Funk Groove Junky (2 years ago)
I like you the way you come across
Lyndsey N (2 years ago)
spot on! for real. I mean. its so true.
lanaisthere (2 years ago)
Everything you talk about is so TRUE. This guy in my class flirts with me all the time but when I flirt too he kind of backs out, and recently I discovered he's still in love with his ex girlfriend.
Rooftopdreams (1 year ago)
That is so true :P
6980MulhollandDrive (1 year ago)
Rooftopdreams And some headache as well xD
Rooftopdreams (1 year ago)
Good that he backs out, save u some heartache!
angie Wehrle (2 years ago)
Spot on !!!! Your awesome. Such great insight and knowledge, mans perspective is a plus !! When I don't respond to his texts. He bombards me .. Now I will just block him.
Melsain Bebe (2 years ago)
I'm dealing this kind of situation right now.he flirt with me before.I've met him last Dec.and until now we are dealing this kind of stuffs we had sex already.but we don't have any relationship because he's married but he told me I'm special to him.we are not dating only the two of us..should be with my friends..but I really love this guy.what should I do I need him to miss me..I'm just the one initiating contacts
Saoirse Sheridan (2 years ago)
good deep stuff thanks for the wisdom cheers!
Martha White (2 years ago)
This is what I am currently dealing with, and it's hard. I like him but the withdrawal is upsetting and so I am going to step back. Just the way it is and I need to protect myself. Thanks for making these videos, they are really great.
Rooftopdreams (1 year ago)
and u can open ur path to the right person to come in! <3
Sara Liu (2 years ago)
Can you tell me and you still into him or have you moved on since?
Reina DeCorazones (2 years ago)
Lmaoooo this is so true oh my goodness. I only watched this video because this is exactly what I've been doing and I wanted to know your theory on the psychology behind it and man you were dead on. Wow.
Patricia Owens (3 years ago)
I think that is it...sounds right. We will be just really good friends. And that is ok.
Dhumma Vati (3 years ago)
Thanks for the insight. This has definitely happened to me. I now realize it was mainly because he was married (unavailable) yet also doing some work for me (felt he had to stay on my good side) -- not a good combination. And I liked his attention, so I encouraged it. (Nothing blatantly naughty happened or was said.) We were both getting positive attention, but at a potentially VERY high cost because I'm married too (though heading for divorce & he didn't know that at the time). That's all a quite unstable mix that could blow up the chemistry lab. I wanted to nicely let him go/not renew his contract & told him why. We both agreed that we shouldn't deal with each other, but my spouse insisted on dealing with him. I no longer did. Once the guy's work was up & he'd been paid 6 months later, I spoke on phone with him at length. We had feelings for each other, but he said he didn't think it was a good idea for us to have contact with each other. I agreed & we've not spoken since. That was about 2 months ago. I intend to keep things that way, & I've since moved far away. My point? Sometimes things are WAY more complicated behind the scenes than the woman knows & in the long run he's doing her a favor by pulling back.
Veronica Alise (3 years ago)
Thanks very helpful!
Sunethra (3 years ago)
This is exactly what is happening. And I have been giving this guy time (as he has so many things on his plate with his mother (health)/career peak/immigrating to new country) and so now I have just been talking less as its been 6 months and I don't want to indulge my heart..being cautious (plus I have been busy). He does care but maybe once he settles he will know exactly what he wants. He still talks to me but I am kinda trying to make him work for me. If he really wants me, then he should reciprocate back..if not then guess time to move on. 
Dhumma Vati (3 years ago)
Any time. As I said, "Been there." 
Sunethra (3 years ago)
Thank you for the support.
Sunethra (3 years ago)
Ya true :(....I really like him. But nothing I can do. He acts like he likes me but he isn't making a decision. I can't wait forever. I have been struggling almost a year. He knows how I feel exactly.
Dhumma Vati (3 years ago)
+Sun K That's the spirit! As Maya Angelou said: "Never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them."
Sunethra (3 years ago)
Yes I have recently let go of my thoughts to conquer him. His loss not mine. If he wants me he should call and make more of an effort.
BUPBÊ INC (4 years ago)
thank you, youtube uncle
music lover (10 months ago)
Angie Doss (4 years ago)
Yes!! You nailed it again! I just love you!
JE ENN (4 years ago)
what can i do about it??? is there anyway so he won't freak out? 
DatingLogic (4 years ago)
Try to get him to hang out with you doing something you know he loves. 

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