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TinyDerp (14 days ago)
YouTube, why are you giving tips on love, -you know I failed already-
Evelyne Ernest (18 days ago)
AMEN 🙏🏿 THANK YOU 😊 THANKS SO VERY MUCH BE BLESSED
Margaret Mccafferty (1 month ago)
I always watch your videos and I have subscribed I just wish my guy was a bit clearer
Christina Simonton (1 month ago)
He told me he was hurt a few months ago iam just a friend he said he doesn't have that kinda conversation we had he dont talk to just anyone hmmm what do u think ? I think he might be interested in me but not sure
Capricris (2 months ago)
Happy New Year ☺
KCJUCUTAN 15 (3 months ago)
There are times i feel like he likes me why do i feel that way when im 110% sure he doesnt?
Megan Chloe Sullivan (5 months ago)
Honestly dating logic has been here for me more than my mom lmao
BC VC (6 months ago)
it's all written in the stars... you can't control who will end up with who. It doesn't matter what you look like or what interests you have. when two people are meant to be together they will be together. it will click.
Britanie Williams (5 months ago)
BC VC You're absolutely right
BC VC (6 months ago)
it's all written in the stars... you can't control who will end up with who. It doesn't matter what you look like or what interests you have. when two people are meant to be together they will be together. it will click.
YOMOMOMAMA (2 months ago)
I feel like god the planets make it harder for me, emotional attraction is deadly
Angie Rae76 (6 months ago)
There was a guy that I had what I guess you'd call a "FWB's" type of relationship with for about 18 months. In the BEGINNING it wasn't what I'd call "HOT-N-HEAVY" or anything like THAT....but there were times where we'd hangout, hook-up, Netflix and chill, WHATEVER you wanna call it...sometimes 2 or 3 times in a week....but that was probably just for the first 3 or 4 weeks and it averaged more around 2 times a week than 3. Anyway, his ON AGAIN/OFF AGAIN baby mama with whom he had a VERY TUMULTUOUS relationship with ended up finding out about us and unfortunately the kicker is that she was somewhat of an "OLD" friend of mine so to speak. Well, I DID feel a little bad for her after she had found out....not because we had once had a "SPECIAL" friendship so to speak....but because I had JUST been cheated on MYSELF only 6 months earlier by my husband of almost 17 yrs and I just KNEW how much it HURT. But the simple fact of the matter was....SHE had been out running all over town with a DIFFERENT GUY anyway and had told me a billion times before that she wanted NOTHING to do with her baby daddy. So when he sent me a friend request on Facebook one night....I couldn't help but ACCEPT it and just say "Hey, how's it going?" because I'd be LYING if I said I WASN'T attracted to him because I MOST DEFINITELY WAS. And don't get me wrong.....I am NOT the "HOMEWRECKING" HUSSY type some might think I SOUND like.....it's just that the so called "FRIENDSHIP" between HER and I had ENDED so many months PRIOR due to her stealing money from me and then HE came along and I just felt like we SERIOUSLY clicked with one another and he was just SO MUCH like ME in SO MANY WAYS. Although he IS 11 yrs YOUNGER than I am.....I've been told a lot that I don't LOOK like I'm 42 and DEFINITELY don't ACT like I AM.....Lol. Anyway....it DIDN'T TAKE LONG to figure out that after so many months of him and I hanging out and being INTIMATE with one another.....I began developing DEEPER feelings for HIM to where I just didn't WANT to be seen as a "BOOTY CALL" or "BENCH WARMER" for him while he sat around and WAITED on his BM to come around and leave ALL of her "SIDE DUDES" because it EVENTUALLY came out that he WAS still MADLY IN LOVE WITH HER and had MOST LIKELY just been USING ME as a means of making HER jealous. Eventually she did find out but I never did find out the truth as to whether he admitted it or she actually figured it out on and on HER OWN. Needless to say..... I spent about 12 months of my life trying to figure out how to get him to fall in love with me and put her to the back of his mind to no avail. What's even MORE interesting is that just 2 months ago I had fronted him $60 to help him out between his paydays and he told me he'd pay me back 2 paydays later and that came and went....so I tried contacting him NUMEROUS times via text messages and NEVER heard a SINGLE THING from him so I began to get a little worried because he'd never done that to me.....NOT when he had OWED ME MONEY anyway. Well, almost 3 weeks from the day I fronted him the money....an officer called me asking me questions claiming that he was investigating an incident that involved HIM, his baby mama and her new boyfriend/fiance. Well, he was ALREADY on probation for having stabbed 2 dudes in 2011 in what he claimed was SELF DEFENSE and ALSO wasn't SUPPOSED to be ANYWHERE NEAR his baby mama either. I immediately just figured he had already been arrested and was in jail. The officer didn't tell me one way or the other whether HE WAS in jail or NOT....so I basically just had to ask around. Well, THAT SAME NIGHT I just so happened to be watching the news and all of a sudden I see a picture come up on the screen of HIS apartment building and the news anchor talking about some LOVE TRIANGLE that had resulted in one man being badly injured and was in CRITICAL CONDITION at a local hospital and that THE SUSPECT who LIVED in the apartment had been involved in a 6 hr standoff with police and the SWAT team before they FINALLY entered his residence and brought him out. Yup...my JAW literally just dropped to the ground as I just COULDN'T BELIEVE what I was even SEEING or HEARING. Then the REALITY of it all REALLY sank in when I saw a clip of a couple SWAT officers walking him down the sidewalk in cuffs. I just wanted to CRY!!!! Actually, I DID CRY because I had just watched the man I'd FALLEN IN LOVE WITH over a period of 17 MONTHS possibly take his LAST WALK down a sidewalk as a FREE MAN as they're saying officers supposedly recovered ENOUGH evidence from inside his apartment to possibly charge him with 1st degree attempted murder. I mean SERIOUSLY!?!?!?! I KNEW he was a little off his rocker when it came to how he felt about his baby mama....but supposedly he HATED the fact that she DIDN'T WANT HIM ANYMORE.....so HE was WILLING to TRY and take both HER and her new boyfriend's LIVES and ended up attacking her boyfriend with ACID by dumping it over his head when he got approached by him as he'd made a THREATENING STATEMENT to BOTH OF THEM by telling them he was going to kill them and then said "I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS". It's SO SAD though because he had SO MUCH POTENTIAL and had 2 beautiful baby girls that love him dearly who may very likely NEVER see him again OUTSIDE of a JAIL or PRISON. Sorry for the LONG story....but I just wanted to tell it I guess because I tried to get THAT DUDE to LOVE ME vs. his crazy ex baby mama....but then was able to see just WHAT it LOOKS LIKE when HE SUPPOSEDLY DOES LOVE a WOMAN.....he LOVES them so much that he's WILLING to murder them if HE can't have them 😫
Traci C (7 months ago)
Excellent advice .
Lindsey Hebert (7 months ago)
I can’t believe I have feelings for him I don’t know if this means I like him so much more than he likes me I feel like w haven’t seen each other for a while he gave a waist hug I didn’t know what that means
angel johnson (7 months ago)
Smart guy
M.s. Dickerson-Jones (7 months ago)
Capricorn man takes forever. 🙄
I just like Memes (1 month ago)
Loll and Sagittarius man takes forever to tell mee even if he falls fast lol
Carly Tiffany (4 months ago)
Marsha Dickerson-Jones 😂😂😂🤣 Ikr!!
Adela peaches (8 months ago)
If he tell you he wants a baby because he tell me all is future plans what he likes n so on does he want her in his life since he asking for a baby.
Xinobxx Xinox (3 months ago)
No..he just don't like condoms. Don't get excited about that😂😂
mo1 (8 months ago)
What if its the girl that shares the information?
Lauren W. (9 months ago)
What’s the difference between a guy who wants to be your friend vs a guy who is using you (not sexually) because he’s lonely?
Xinobxx Xinox (3 months ago)
If he' so-called "using" you, why are still hanging around? duh
Donna Just Being Real (9 months ago)
Absolutely true!! 👍🌸🌸
Holographic Multiverse (9 months ago)
Trust? Judge? What? Run! You’re being groomed. You’re becoming his Nanny. Relationships are dead. Give it up, people.
Queen Isaac (9 months ago)
Thanks for the advice!
Shaila S. Duran (10 months ago)
I caught him staring at me no smile at all so I tell my bestfriend about it she said he likes you because she and a boy keeps looking at each other then start talking more on other days then started to give in a date and then I am like what the heck he doesn't Because I got over him because I had a crush on him
Lina Palfort (10 months ago)
But what if he feels comfortable and trusts me but still does not start to give me signs else likes me?
I just like Memes (1 month ago)
Lina Palfort bcus hes scared of rejection my crush guy friend is the same way he so shy and scared to tell me how he feels but ik he really cares about me, its best for u to try to open up to him like try flirting with him showing him that ur attracted to him will make him more comfortable
Lina Palfort (9 months ago)
I really don't know what to do... we're like best friends and are talking for about 4 hours a day on videocam and he's always there for me but why does he not give me any singn?
Beta (10 months ago)
One day I let her on the bus before I did she smiled at me and then it started yeah that's it a smile
Bella Xoxo (11 months ago)
What does that mean if he say “ I like you” ? Thkxx guys
Andreja medved-petri (11 months ago)
Hay i just love all you videos thank you so much !! Xxxooo
Faeries_Xylia 923 (11 months ago)
Love is a feeling. What makes a guy fall for a girl is bc he feels something differen't for her, a connection with her that he doesn't feel with any other girl which will make her stand out from the other girls to him same vice versa with girls falling for a guy.
Faeries_Xylia 923 (3 months ago)
smh love is a feeling, you feel a certain way for them. Well that’s just my opinion, love is a feeling and a commitment is a choice. Why do you think people say they “have feelings” for a certain person when liking them? Bc that person is making them feel a certain way that they don’t feel anywhere else.
smh (3 months ago)
I wouldn't agree on the "Love is a feeling" part but I agree with everything else.
A. BLAY (1 year ago)
Thanks for your video.
Gracy Jones (1 year ago)
Thanks for making these videos. I am a dating dud and need all the help I can get.
Optimistic Orcas (1 year ago)
I noticed he was kinda sad and asked if he wanted to talk about it and words just started flooding out of his mouth
Low Remedy (1 year ago)
yeah i had a chick hit me in the heart a few nights back we slept together same night but the chemistry was crazy connected but now she's ignoring my messages and i'm getting annoyed with it
Katerina Berhami (1 year ago)
what if he tells you he got laid a month ago, you dont react- not cause you dont care but obviously it hurts but you refuse to be controlling one or the one to innitiate some sort of label by caring and then you tell him youve been speaking to someone he retaliates by being mean and jealous????
Verie Geslani (1 year ago)
I like the way you advice.very clear.thank u
directionaaa lol (1 year ago)
but my problem is, I've never actually talked to the guy...
Mrs. KN (1 year ago)
OMG...I think several guys have feelings for me after watching this video. Or they just love telling me their personal business.
blackcurrantpop (1 year ago)
I 💕all your. vids. You're to the point and it makes sense.
Selin Bilgin (1 year ago)
Love this. Thank you.
Lewis Fearon (1 year ago)
I would give anything not to be shy or have social anxiety. I just want one gf and to kiss her and have sex just at least once! Is that too much to ask for?
Ceeren Yangs (10 months ago)
Lol not all girls want to get physical on the first date all we want is emotional happiness
Umm ye..that's a big turn off for girls. Not all girls want sex on the first date <~<
Kahlee Alvarez (1 year ago)
what does it mean if he stands up for u
[diamond] (7 months ago)
Kahlee Alvarez He likes you
okay kate (1 year ago)
Your words are gold, I've been just watching your videos for about 15 min and what you say is just so true! I'm definitely subscribing!
bayan ibrahim (1 year ago)
this is so true my best friend started developing feelings for me because of how comfortable he feels around me he talks to me about anyyything .. we do not judge each other and we're always there for each other .. that made me think of him as more than just a friend .. looks are important but they're not everything you guys trust me
Lala Johnson (1 year ago)
Thank you!
caren sun (1 year ago)
helppppp !!! I have this guy who I work with everytime Im around his friends and other people smile and look at me what does that mean ???
Jonathan Akerele (1 year ago)
Guess this is what happened to me in 2005 when I told a pretty girl named Amanda I had known since high school and was crushing on hard in college about my upbringing and how I was born with lots of physical problems that required surgeries to get me to function like a healthy person free of extensive physical assistance like breathing machines (although the doctors initially suggested an abortion since I guess they didn't want my mom to go through the frustration of raising a low-quality or less than ideally healthy baby). As soon as the word "abort" left my mouth, Amy's whole face drooped with sadness and she sighed with pity. After that, every time I saw her instead of just smiling and waving all happy when she saw me she shifted between that and frowning worriedly (almost like she were getting ready to cry) I guess out of deep concern for me. I guess that bit of backstory was enough of a cannonball to really get her emotionally hooked on me in terms of wanting to help me or check up on me from time to time. Due to introversion and an abusive upbringing, I'm more comfortable alone than with others and find any kind of direct attention whether positive (compassion) or negative (aggression) to be extremely invasive.
Xervy Zerv (6 months ago)
Thanks for sharing your story. It touched me ❤️ I wish you love and peace in your life. We have no control over how we got here - We are here!
Nessa Va (1 year ago)
Jonathan Akerele You have a lot of self awareness. You deserve happiness, peace and the joy of intimacy with a partner so i hope you use that profound awareness to work towards healing and shedding that traumatic childhood.
Nigel Fromage (1 year ago)
love your videos!!!! great advice and straight to the point!!! keep it up
Nora Peace (1 year ago)
What if your boyfriend stops telling you stuff close to his heart? Has he lost feelings for you?
He just dont want to sound like a pussy anymore. Talking about feelings and stuff.. That is not a masculine thing to do.
Mrs. S (7 months ago)
Nora Peace probably. Most likely
Lawstidentity (7 months ago)
Nora Peace probably
Nina Brown (1 year ago)
Thanks for the video )
The DBZ Collector (1 year ago)
if you tell a girl you like her but she don't like you like that will just telling her make her start thinking about you subconsciously and eventually fall for you?
nofy bn (7 months ago)
There's this guy. He hasn't told me so I don't know if he does or not. For me, I wasn't interested at first. Things changed.
Anna-Maria Hjorth (10 months ago)
I usually fall for people when they show an interest in me, actually. I think it depends on how you do it. Just flat out saying "hey, I like you" is pretty daunting and a big turn-off, because it requires you to go either "I like you too!" or "sorry, I don't feel the same way". There's no space and no time to think about how you even feel about it all. However, flirting a bit or saying stuff that makes her go "wait a minute... is he attracted to me?" will give her the space she needs to develop potential feelings. Tell her you like her outfit, that she's pretty with her hair up, that she has an amazing laugh, that she's so intelligent and you're wowed by that... Idk stuff like that, it'll spark an interest for sure. And if not, then you know she's not the one! Never go for people who won't go for you, you deserve someone who loves you like you love them, and if they don't, they don't deserve you.
Victoria Islands (11 months ago)
depends. She may like you once you walk away. That happened to me once. 9/10 if a lady doesn't like the guy enough, she won't be affected either way. bottom line, live your life and meet new people. don't wait for her- don't.
CharlotteRiemm 1 (1 year ago)
I found out a guy liked me I never that I liked him but I started to like him my friends said that we were a couple but we were to sacred to Amit it
Childish Sadbino (1 year ago)
It's possible but I seriously doubt it would happen
Ivy Chan (1 year ago)
love this video!
Lily Georgia (1 year ago)
How can you get a player to commit to you when you are already in love with him but he is back with his ex girlfriend who broke his heart ?
Jackie F (1 year ago)
lol ik this was like a year ago but if ur ever in the situation again or if ur still in the same one, girl you deserve so much better. You are wonderfully and beautifully made for someone who's gonna pursue you. And clearly a guy who is going with a girl who's already hurt him in the past has some sort of emotional damage, and you want someone that knows who they are and is strong mentally so they can give a whole love and relationship. So you can try to talk to him but it most likely won't make a difference bc ppl don't easily change like that. You should hope and pray that he gets better for his sake, but for yours please move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea that are much more deserving of ur time and effort than him.
Tiera Belle (1 year ago)
Lily Georgia work on yourself girl, i was feeling the same way back in the days, you are insecure and dont love yourself. The moment you do, you wont be attracted to these type of guys.
Black Shade XL (1 year ago)
And that right there is women's problem. Stop trying to make a player commit to you. What's so special about you in his mind? Don't try and change someone, cause you will fail most of the time.
Sunethra (1 year ago)
Lily Georgia Maybe talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If it doesn't change or go in wrong direction and just leave him be. He will come back if he wants to be close again.
BlackOreoCookie (1 year ago)
Lily Georgia why do you want a player?
music.saves. us. (1 year ago)
p.s - massive appreciation for the dedication to the channel & daily uploads. much appreciated & really helpful!
music.saves. us. (1 year ago)
great great video, man. always got a point to prove
aschokoala (1 year ago)
great video as always! new topic idea: that can you do then all men you are in contact with fell in love?

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