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3 Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You

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Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like You Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nWBHVU We all want people to like us. And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science. Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV. And it’s largely due to the types of jokes that she makes. Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her. Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day. 1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes 2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen 3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people 5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with 5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert
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Damian Eisold (1 day ago)
3 Things Alienated Poking Fun Amy didn’t go to college though she’s successful (did not change identity) Ego Boosters -Comment on how successful they are. “So selfish.” Silly Surprise Proposterous -Love to have fun start in a playful mood.(ritual) (expressive) (actual games into conversations) 4 emotions to hit in order to make a good first expression
Damian Eisold (1 day ago)
My Girlfriend Slapped me and shouted, “What’s Wrong with you!” -great video😂😂😂
fifthof (1 day ago)
What is so funny about her first "joke"? Don't get it.
Davide Domingos (1 day ago)
ellen isnt funny
Steve D (2 days ago)
If you don't know who Malala Yousafzai is... you should not be out on your own. Btw, if you need this humor explaining in such detail you might not be very savvy.
Declan O'Cuidighthigh (3 days ago)
Weird because I actually hate Ellen, and I don’t care about the opinion of anyone who actually likes her.
Natalja Petrova (4 days ago)
.... !!
Davis Johnson (4 days ago)
okay but why can't I make people laugh
claditte qisthidarari (5 days ago)
You know, in my head math is my weeknes.. And then i watch this, you can tell me i'm wrong
mkr10001 (5 days ago)
Nah she's a bellend
HugsOverDrugs (6 days ago)
GOD DAMN MAGNETS KEEP FALLING OFF MY FRIDGE.
Kenaz Wilder (6 days ago)
Don’t forget her alter ego, Jane Lynch
George Joseph (7 days ago)
Ellen is the only female comedian I find funny. Recently I found she's a lesbian so, even she's got some of those male instincts. 😬
Izureru (7 days ago)
I just talk about porn and hentai and then people will like me
Emily Rodriguez (7 days ago)
tbh, I never liked ellen. She seemed kinda fake to me but idrk..
e tato (7 days ago)
That Liza joke tho
fa2eX ‘ (8 days ago)
am I the only one who doesn't like Ellen?
6Man666666 (8 days ago)
Hahaha I can’t stand Ellen D. Lol
unDerWorldreamer (9 days ago)
there's an extroverts-dominated world for you. trust me playfulness is the #1 stress in an introvert's life
Hunter Terrell (9 days ago)
I had the point made to me once that every joke is at someone's expense, even if it's everyone, or just themselves.
swarnak Ray (10 days ago)
I do not think that she is funny. Not at all...
Jechew (10 days ago)
I got a Scott jack ad with the title “How to be instantly magnetic” woow
Arvind R (11 days ago)
Comedy is a coping mechanism for tragedy.
Lou Pulkkinen (12 days ago)
I enjoyed the jokes! Pls send me the video!
Diablo Mozzarella (15 days ago)
but i hate ellen..
ember13dp (16 days ago)
The tip about making a joke about something that the person won’t be insecure about is very helpful.
Shabir Shekh (16 days ago)
first my friends used to laugh at my jokes but I apply this video in my real life now no one laugh at my jokes why am I here for just suffering God give all mentality my jokes isn't that bad watch me " you know why cow aren't drink milks ? think it , think again naa you aren't too much thinking just go into deep OK I'll tell you because she producing by herself " no not funny sorry I'm just joking God I won't try again
Shabir Shekh (16 days ago)
if this man is comedian I laugh at he's only one thing " stupidity " do you know brow how gravity works ? haha gotcha you never went to school
Shabir Shekh (16 days ago)
I'm here for learned a lesson and I learnt Don't click on that video who say's " hey do you want be a comedian "
Chris cck (18 days ago)
I disagree with her politics and and some of her other social beliefs but I still admire her. I dont think it's about her humor, it is more of her demeanor, she is friendly. I think if we knew each other we can still get along, she doesnt seem to judge and looks for what is really important in relationships.
Tiffany Welsh (18 days ago)
thx for tips. Please stop saying "rRule of Thumb:" its referring to legally hitting women with a belt smaller than the length of a man's thumb. ;/
argumentumadbaculum (19 days ago)
Don't do the mentos, you can die of aspiration
Ser Darby Coombs (23 days ago)
Saw the thumbnail. Though Ellen was one of the jokes
Homed (24 days ago)
But I hate Ellen
David Elliott (25 days ago)
Wait, people like Ellen?
Chuck H (25 days ago)
There is nothing you can do to make me like you ever!
Venom ' (26 days ago)
Ellen Rome Cheese
the animator (26 days ago)
Ellen generes oh god.
Stacie Green (27 days ago)
Joseph Gordon Levitt... LMFAO!!!!😂😂😂 Even the peacocks in my neighborhood are laughing right now. LITERALLY!!!!
Rosalie DeGregory (27 days ago)
Ellen is boring.
Esmeraldito Prishka (27 days ago)
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Archisha Dasgupta (29 days ago)
Who doesn't know who Malala is?
Mikaela Romance (29 days ago)
lol swedish people dont talk like that, im offended.
Mikaela Romance (25 days ago)
@Xavier Carbonneau oh yeah that guy. didnt think of him - but still we dont talk like that, lol, unless its a brutal accent.
Xavier Carbonneau (25 days ago)
Its the swedish chef from the muppets man
Vinny B (1 month ago)
Most people like Donald Trump. Did you know that?
Emily Norris (1 month ago)
Great video! Very enlightening
MissConduct 1 (1 month ago)
Can you do a video about repairing broken relationships with co-workers, family, friends? How can a person get back to being more likable if they’ve made mistakes in the past? Said something in confidence that a person they’ve trusted by mistake has repeated or perhaps that someone has repeated something they’ve said out of context. Thanks for all you do I get a lot out of your videos.
Alex (1 month ago)
Making a joke at the other person's expense works sometimes if you self depreciate before or after the punchline.
Anon ium (1 month ago)
Is she funny though? Personally I cannot stand her.
Shenzy Brosee (1 month ago)
I like the silly segment to this. I wasn't expecting that.
AaR7_clan (1 month ago)
Is Ellen a girl or a boy?
John Smith (1 month ago)
Her jokes aren’t really that funny
Zoltán Erik Miglécz (1 hour ago)
@{Delete this} And you should have put "I think" in the beginning of your sentence.
{Delete this} (5 days ago)
You should have added "to me" at the end of that. Since the majority would say otherwise.
Sam Abbott (1 month ago)
thank you for this advice, i know dance in to work every morning whilst trying to catch a mint in my mouth
Ahmad Alarcon (1 month ago)
Smiling puppet
MrSasyB (1 month ago)
I'm either self deprecating or making people the butt of the joke.
Blu Gabe (1 month ago)
Are you related to Henry Cavill?
Colliode (1 month ago)
Romantic relationships breakdown? I'm thinking interactions good and bad... Unless you've already done something like this :)
Stewart Daniels (1 month ago)
The Liza joke was the funniest though
shooshed Gamer (1 month ago)
Everyone in my friend group overdoes self deprecating jokes, now I just don’t make them anymore.
Leon Jiang (1 month ago)
So this is how I make human... I mean people to like me!
Jaimi Cottrill (1 month ago)
Most Aussie humour is self deprecating already. We like to poke fun at ourselves, and others, but all in good fun.
Mιss Crαzy (1 month ago)
I have a really likable personality. Someone you'd like to kick out, I mean
Jonatan Petersson (5 days ago)
The worst thing about self-deprecated homour is when you joke about everyone hating you and everyone agrees with the joke...
Meme Ord (20 days ago)
Mιss Crαzy ya your comment is correct as I already hate you unironically
Nafisa Miah (1 month ago)
Why am I even here?!? I have homework 😐😂
Ray Schiel (1 month ago)
joke
Uber Virsacii (1 month ago)
But i already do self deprecating jokes
Jack Mac619 (1 month ago)
So you want to know the most effective pick up line of all time
Zoltán Erik Miglécz (1 hour ago)
No
diamond enchanter (1 month ago)
This is just explaining jokes
Devon K (1 month ago)
Your videos are always always bring insights far beyond what most of these self help gurus are bringing to the conversation. You're always fresh and innovative. Very impressed.
Belegar Ironhammer (1 month ago)
everybody knows this. you are portraying it like it was some scientific abstract. you are rationalizing your lack of social experience here and it's just an entire cringe fest.
Maya Agbata (1 month ago)
Watching this made me positive and I've never even watched Ellen's show
Ash Trix (1 month ago)
I actually find Ellen quite snarky and egotistical. I think she'd be a nightmare in real life.
Jenny Brock (1 month ago)
It makes me laugh that Americans need videos to explain sarcastic humour, whereas British people literally come out of the womb cracking self-deprecating jokes
Jenny Brock (1 month ago)
@Condone Thank you, I do. And millions of other sarcy bastards ;P
Condone (1 month ago)
Speak for yourself... The only reason I am here is because I don't feel like I fit into my own British culture aha
Brian Arbenz (1 month ago)
Ellen is at her core a secure person. That's why her humor is appropriate and pleasing, not annoying. In her personal life, she is kind and caring, and lives for basic pleasure, not excess, or trendy status symbols. (Hello, Paula Poundstone and Madonna, among others, you could learn from Ellen's ways.)
33,3 Anders (1 month ago)
plus most would die to have jlo touch them sick or well
AsellusPrimus (1 month ago)
Personally I don't like Ellen because I sense something dark about her, like the positivity is on the surface but she rarely gets to the truth of things when she talks to guests. She has broad appeal because she doesn't fully engage her guests like real people and risk saying anything uncomfortable or controversial. Let me say that I watch her standup specials and love her in other projects (like as the voice of Dory) but it's interesting to me to use Ellen as an example of how to be likable. You're probably not wrong but it only makes sense if you like her.
Ouch poor Liza Minnelli 😭😭😭
Nicky Dare (1 month ago)
I absolutely love Ellen!! hope to meet her in person one day ... soon!!! xo
Virtuous Villain (1 month ago)
Drugs are a high risk high reward thing. The best jokes are when you make a joke about the person and they still laugh. Self deprecating jokes are bad for your attractiveness as a man. You should only have like a 10% inclusion of them.
BIOHAZARD (1 month ago)
ELLEN IS NOT FUNNY AT ALL... END OF STORY.
I always joke about myself
tripjet999 (1 month ago)
A train wreck of a show, though.
Chaz Walker (1 month ago)
You could also try: *Hey, you don't sweat much for a fat piece*
Chaz Walker (1 month ago)
Or: I only have eyes for you 😀 *BUT YOU SHOULD SEE WHAT I'VE GOT FOR YOUR SISTER* 😎
Goody (1 month ago)
To answer the question at 7:15... the answer is money.
Samuel Faict (1 month ago)
Usually, the more funny people are in public, the more depressed they really are in private life.
Matheus Abreu Costa (1 month ago)
ELLEN DEGENERES < XUXA MENEGHEL
Lance White (1 month ago)
Ellen's fan base is largely suffocatingly boring housewives. She's not funny. She just fills the airwaves with noise.
nunya biznez (1 month ago)
I use self deprecating jokes at work all the time but nobody there is smart enough to get them.
Zoltán Erik Miglécz (1 hour ago)
If the majority of the recieving end doesn't get the joke, they are most likely right. It just means you aren't that funny. Maybe they understand the jokes but don't find them funny.
Moomoo Army (1 month ago)
I can't stand Ellen, I never have; she seems very fake to me.
Fuad Hasan Manian (1 month ago)
Your guys don’t know kapil sharma from india 😂
Mangos Peaches (1 month ago)
I don’t like Ellen that much
Bill Morrow (1 month ago)
BRILLIANT . . . I'm involved in a Bible ministry, come from a large extended family, have a background in marketing/customer service and love motivational speakers, so I eat this stuff up.
Madiha Turshin (1 month ago)
So what are these 4 emotions.....? (Definitely wasn't interested to drop my email address)
Isaac Lassi (1 month ago)
I hate Ellen. She is not that likable >:(
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BenTheBot (1 month ago)
Swallow a magnet.
Erica hightower (1 month ago)
I don’t want to get introuble again, I got semi fussed at for being playful with an “adult” . Not once but twice! Two times I got intruble for being playful with my mother, it wasn’t a crazy or disrespectful joke, it was just a joke...😕
CroatanWolf (1 month ago)
Me trying to be likeable: "Want some gum?" Them: "How'd you get into my house?"
Georg Popov (4 days ago)
You: "Chimney, DAAAAHHH"
allen legaspi (5 days ago)
Me trying to be funny:
Paul Middleton (1 month ago)
Now thats funny...ty
tripjet999 (1 month ago)
"I" and "they"...
No name (1 month ago)
Basically put yourself down and make other people feel great about themselves.
DAVIDInitiative (1 month ago)
She insults no one on her show, insults only herself in her jokes, and treats the people around her off the show like garbage. She’s not a good person. Ask anyone that works in the industry.
synon9m (1 month ago)
No. Shes not likeable
Rehoboth Farm (1 month ago)
Where was Ellen raised as a boy?
fishy (1 month ago)
Owo

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