How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.
That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation
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0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk
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I've lost my social skills,never thought i would be here,now i have nothing to talk about,like communicating is natural wtf is wrong with me?i used to be outgoing and now I'm awkward,whenever someone mentions the word shy i get embarassed,i want to change people keep labelling me as shy and my parents keep telling me to stop being shy argh i want to be social again
You know what? Im AMAZING at small talk and I always hold and start amazing conversations but the people that I talk to don’t want to get into deeper conversation but want to have an empty conversation so
Why should I try to hold a conversation with them and act like I care about their boring lives when they should start a conversation with ME for once
Personally, there's nothing i hate more than being asked "whats your story?" Or "what are your exciting plans for the future?". I would not want to talk to that person because if they dont know me I'd take these question as very nosy and dont like talking about future because idk what they are.
Im a quiet and boring person .Really great tips. Questions: they say that people get attracted to a person who they are like. How do you become that seemingly person who you talk to.. a husband, or a lover, a friend.Thanks.
Vtron deep talk is where I struggle because I find I don't know enough about a topic to get into a debate. And when I do know enough about a topic, my social anxiety kicks in and I can't defend my position. I draw blanks and then I admit defeat and just agree with their point and then the conversation changes to another topic. Do you understand what I mean? Most conversations people have are small talk about the latest act on americas got talent or the football game. Thank god for that or I would have no hope at all.
I wish I can just be comfortably quiet with people. Sometimes, I don't want to have conversation, but feel inclined to. I think that quote in pulp fiction sums it up: “That's when you know you've found somebody really special. When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute and comfortably share silence.”