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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation

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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ [Music by Exurb1a]: https://goo.gl/TjP4YN [Animation by Zeino]: https://goo.gl/344LHV We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to. That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation 0:20 Play Reminds Me of 0:54 Ask open-ended questions 1:40 Use revival questions 2:37 Make a complimentary cold read 3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
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NoNam e (2 days ago)
I always want to start a conversation but most of the people ignore me, what dafuccc
FBI (3 days ago)
1:16 when you realize a 3 year old knows more than you
Jake Broe (5 days ago)
I really dislike small talk...
Elena (6 days ago)
I sometimes don't mind some silence after conversation but I get worried if the other person starts to feel uncomfortable or awkward
Mimicoco Cocojr (7 days ago)
. °O ¬|¬ -^- Stick man
Rasmus Engström (10 days ago)
I love that the ”Dog Wrestler Waltz” is the background music of the video. exurb1a is a legend
fiveohnine (10 days ago)
1:37 red headed bald guy, is that a reference to that Louis CK joke?
SuperMalbert (10 days ago)
"Do you like Toranto?" "Yea ehhh? There's bare shorties there styll"
Michael Regis (14 days ago)
My baby sister always asks "why?" for almost everything and it honestly gets annoying at times.
OhhhBirdy (14 days ago)
One tip to guys who like the girl they're talking to but there's always awkward silence: It's not just you that's making it awkward, it's her as well. You BOTH suck at continuing a conversation.
Nigel Taylor (15 days ago)
NightHawk (17 days ago)
Also, it's not all about conversation and talking. Teasing and playfulness are very important as well when it comes to friendly interaction, making new friends and even flirting.
Charlotte W (18 days ago)
What if you have two people that use these strategies?
Raymond Louis Llompart (19 days ago)
Aaaaah!....Awkwardness......one of the most dreadful maladies of the human condition....there are some RARE persons who do not suffer it WITH ANYONE----and that includes ROYALTY!-----but most of us suffer some throughout our lives....in fact, the video will not want to say it, of course, but awkwardness destroys more LIVES than, probably-----CANCER..........Why do we fear each other so much???.......
Mean Yoongilagid (20 days ago)
Nicolas Laborie (20 days ago)
The Why and Louis CK reference ahaha ! Brilliant
Itamar Bushari (21 days ago)
Great video, but the animation is not as good as you just talking......
npVipes (22 days ago)
Kinda weird if I say this to the gaffa
Oh yeah Yeah (22 days ago)
I watched this cause at lunch it’s always so awkward
YoSo BOO! (24 days ago)
1:38 Louis C.K.
_Vexation (24 days ago)
Im glad 2.4 million other people have this problem
i (27 days ago)
How to act like you know what you're doing when you don't
Raymond Louis Llompart (19 days ago)
Well, yes----because, Sir/Madam--------in this world, 99% of the population is........ FAKING IT........we are terrified of each other.......
Jace Ortega (1 month ago)
1:27 Louie ;)
Ezra Boren (1 month ago)
2:42 I wanna see someone say that on a first date
OHTYCH 100 (1 month ago)
Americans shouldn’t talk about Canadian cities like Toronto with an O
Charlie Creak (1 month ago)
2 people watch this video, and just repeat step 5 for ever
f3rfra (1 month ago)
0:29 is that Skiba? 🤯
Tekashi (1 month ago)
Me, talking to a Russian: So what’s your story? Russian: ... which story?
No (1 month ago)
Day 29 and she's still talking to me.... help
WOOOOOOw! That's increíble :D I wanna use 'em. Saludos
Blockenz (1 month ago)
Best video for conversation topic I’ve ever seen
AYESHA SHARMA (1 month ago)
How to become fluent speaker like you? ❤
Jeb Car (1 month ago)
Exurb1a fanboys be like yea i wanna wrestle a dog now
XLT 403 (1 month ago)
Supashya Roy Chowdhury (1 month ago)
This video reminds me of how single i m.
NeonnXD (1 month ago)
Video says it has no views
this helps for when my parents dont believe i have a fear of social interaction
Shifter A (1 month ago)
ImmortalRecon (1 month ago)
Walks into a daycare: "You look like the type that would be great with kids!." "No fucking shit." *Silence*
Raymond Louis Llompart (19 days ago)
Social Class............
Mr. BuildyLocks (1 month ago)
Just be comfortable. You will naturally flow along to find things to talk about.
sheev spin (1 month ago)
*toronto 1:12
Lv 369 Mafia boss (1 month ago)
I wanted to start a conversation so I said "I am hungry".....while eating
Adrian James (1 month ago)
You know, I'm just gonna practice this on my friends then strangers.
Prince Hans (1 month ago)
I was sitting next to my crush and I asked her "When's you're parent gonna pick you up from school?" I don't know if that's a weird question or not
Prince Hans (1 month ago)
+Adrian James I think she actually likes me tho
Adrian James (1 month ago)
+Prince Hans I think she might've been fine with it. I did the same thing with a girl and she seem fine with it.
Prince Hans (1 month ago)
+Adrian James yap
Adrian James (1 month ago)
Did you just straight up ask her?
Or talk about how awkward you find the silence and maybe you can get a conversation going
Raymond Louis Llompart (19 days ago)
Wonderful----but careful....that can plunge into a "catatonia" (loosely speaking....)
Aadam Hasni (1 month ago)
As a Canadian, it hurts me that they can't spell Toronto
Raymond Louis Llompart (19 days ago)
Imagine how HURT the poor FRENCH continually are...What gives you the idea that we must KNOW how to exactly grasp the idiosyncrasies of a country's language nuances?!
Jorge De La Torre (1 month ago)
I feel like an npc on this video
Jade (1 month ago)
I think it would be funny if, “Why do you like Toronto?” “Yes”
Grace G. (6 days ago)
+Elephant R u from another planet? lol
Elephant (15 days ago)
+XLT 403 who cares canada doesnt exist
Waffle Human (1 month ago)
XLT 403 (1 month ago)
Strangeweather you spelled it wrong its Toranto 😂😂😂😂
AfterEightShave (1 month ago)
Honestly, if someone asked me „what’s your story?“, I’d be weirded out/pissed off. What a weird question to ask someone.
goshaman 2202 (1 month ago)
2:48 don’t skip leg days
Sleepibot (1 month ago)
I said,”Why are you interested in art?” *They said,”I don’t know.”* 😰
Raymond Louis Llompart (19 days ago)
Well, "Is it the color?"; "Is it the line?"; "Is it the historical data of the artist?" (say: Van Gogh); "Is it the period?"......almost endless.......
Simone Regina (1 month ago)
Is this animated by The Infographics Show?
Malaïka Tshiteya (1 month ago)
Reminds me of nothing...
Cereal Killer (1 month ago)
The girl at 2:50 skipped leg day way too much
Christine Iversen (1 month ago)
thank you, very cool
A Owens (1 month ago)
1. that reminds me of... 2. ask open ended questions (how do you like it? i’m curious to know more about it)(why did you decide) 3. use revival questions (how do you guys all know eachother?)(what’s your story)(any exciting plans) 4. complimentary cold read 5. flip the script
. (2 months ago)
ErtyHD (2 months ago)
I got an panic attack just thinking about the senario in the start
Matt Mihalic (2 months ago)
You spelt Toronto wrong
Tuxedo (2 months ago)
I just realized how ridiculous it is that we dont know what to talk about, what happened to us? Look at out Parents and Grandparents....they can talk forever to anyone......we need to fix the underlying problems to be able to communicate to other human beings in a genuine and authentic way. Has someone a contribution to my statements?
Tide (2 months ago)
this guy at my job always try to talk to me and he tries to make conversation.. but idk i just cant keep the convo going bc he's so hot and i get nervous and shy
Wietse De Geyter (2 months ago)
Good practical tips, but I believe all these things need to follow out of having the right mindset; make a video about that!
Gabriel Preda (2 months ago)
I’m a really big introvert, so I’m watching all these video’s to up my charisma
Dude, I put the principles from Charisma on Command to the test yesterday. I went to a concert by myself to see if I could strike up a conversation with strangers. It worked. I asked a guy in line which band he had come to see which got me invited to hang out with his group of friends. His girlfriend was one of the acts and we got along famously. I was dancing by myself slightly away from the crowd which caught the attention of another couple who I had a great conversation with and they invited me to hang out the following evening. A CoC video a day keeps my best self shining.
Pirate Eilish (2 months ago)
Don’t have social anxiety and be an introvert
Grayson Stuart (2 months ago)
Ampwich (2 months ago)
What if the other person is also awkward or doesnt seem to be enthusiastic about conversation?
Midget & Co. (2 months ago)
That 'consultant' is clearly Louis C K
Offended Gender (2 months ago)
When I flipped the switch to her, she said "So?...". Like wtf is the question "So?"
applejuice (2 months ago)
is this bad,I tell the person to keep the conversation going cos I'm awkward oof
Emily Walsh (2 months ago)
"toranto"😷 it's "toronto"
Trillz (2 months ago)
89,000th like :)
Generic S (2 months ago)
I wish I could maintain a normal conversation I normally say hi ask a question then I’m stumped
Sunshine Dancer (2 months ago)
I hate when people repeat what I say. It's annoying to have a 2-minute conversation drag for 15 minutes.
Jerry Fitness (2 months ago)
2:48 Why is the girl holding the bar so up (Almost above her head) while squatting? That’s how you injure your rotator cuff. I thought she was doing military presses.
JUST Info (2 months ago)
how to make animated video like urs??
*_Scarlett_* (2 months ago)
Wow we have become so disconnected that we srsly have to watch a yt video of how to talk to a person.. i spent way too much time on the instagram and tictok.. ( my instagram @hewo_lifeee and my tictok @hewo_lifeee )
Notan (2 months ago)
The dog wrestler waltz
Barry eeland (3 months ago)
help me i dont know what the do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! fuck
megpie135 (3 months ago)
Toronto... not 'Toranto'...
DenviousMars (3 months ago)
I wonder how is it like to talk to an introvert when ur an introvert urself lol.
Judgement (3 months ago)
Louis CK 1:32
royalblue stars (3 months ago)
This is an amazing video
Charisma on Command (3 months ago)
~ Glad you're liking it!
Anna Machova (3 months ago)
Great graphic design! Thanks for ideas :)
Charisma on Command (3 months ago)
~ Glad you're digging it!
Ella Jae (3 months ago)
I bet he would be good at talking
Ari Okubo (3 months ago)
Toranto? really?
John Doe (3 months ago)
When I run out of things to say, I run out of the room.
Melody Illiterate (3 months ago)
dan138zig (3 months ago)
"so what's your story" is not a good question
Gigi Reisner (3 months ago)
eyy you played my boy Exurb1a!
DocZero (3 months ago)
-Any exciting plans? -Nm u? -Nm Literally the worst question you could ever ask especially to someone who has a boring life, like me
applejuice (3 months ago)
I've lost my social skills,never thought i would be here,now i have nothing to talk about,like communicating is natural wtf is wrong with me?i used to be outgoing and now I'm awkward,whenever someone mentions the word shy i get embarassed,i want to change people keep labelling me as shy and my parents keep telling me to stop being shy argh i want to be social again
The Joker (3 months ago)
You know what? Im AMAZING at small talk and I always hold and start amazing conversations but the people that I talk to don’t want to get into deeper conversation but want to have an empty conversation so Why should I try to hold a conversation with them and act like I care about their boring lives when they should start a conversation with ME for once
Jerey Fergerbuger (3 months ago)
That's true if your trying to have a conversation with someone should see from you prospective and have a conversation with you
Dan Jefferies (3 months ago)
Probably the best conversation video I've ever watched
Think About It (4 months ago)
I found out that exub1a is supplying the music.
Think About It (4 months ago)
HanoWorldVsMe (4 months ago)
Personally, there's nothing i hate more than being asked "whats your story?" Or "what are your exciting plans for the future?". I would not want to talk to that person because if they dont know me I'd take these question as very nosy and dont like talking about future because idk what they are.
Wandesi (4 months ago)
What's a toranto
Elquin Hernandez (4 months ago)
Nice tips!!
Just'in Case (4 months ago)
How does anyone not see how this was made by CoC, Zenio and Exurb1a?!?! They're all fuckin fantastic.
Yasmin Al Sharif (4 months ago)
its Toronto, not Toranto

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