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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation

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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ [Music by Exurb1a]: https://goo.gl/TjP4YN [Animation by Zeino]: https://goo.gl/344LHV We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to. That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation 0:20 Play Reminds Me of 0:54 Ask open-ended questions 1:40 Use revival questions 2:37 Make a complimentary cold read 3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
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Ella Jae (4 days ago)
I bet he would be good at talking
Ari Okubo (4 days ago)
Toranto? really?
John Doe (7 days ago)
When I run out of things to say, I run out of the room.
Melody Illiterate (7 days ago)
Toranto?
dan138zig (7 days ago)
"so what's your story" is not a good question
Gigi Reisner (7 days ago)
eyy you played my boy Exurb1a!
DocZero (10 days ago)
-Any exciting plans? -Nm u? -Nm Literally the worst question you could ever ask especially to someone who has a boring life, like me
applejuice (13 days ago)
I've lost my social skills,never thought i would be here,now i have nothing to talk about,like communicating is natural wtf is wrong with me?i used to be outgoing and now I'm awkward,whenever someone mentions the word shy i get embarassed,i want to change people keep labelling me as shy and my parents keep telling me to stop being shy argh i want to be social again
The Joker (13 days ago)
You know what? Im AMAZING at small talk and I always hold and start amazing conversations but the people that I talk to don’t want to get into deeper conversation but want to have an empty conversation so Why should I try to hold a conversation with them and act like I care about their boring lives when they should start a conversation with ME for once
Jerey Fergerbuger (13 days ago)
That's true if your trying to have a conversation with someone should see from you prospective and have a conversation with you
Dan Jefferies (13 days ago)
Probably the best conversation video I've ever watched
peter grafkind (14 days ago)
How to spoken
Think About It (22 days ago)
I found out that exub1a is supplying the music.
Think About It (22 days ago)
*exurb1a
HanoWorldVsMe (23 days ago)
Personally, there's nothing i hate more than being asked "whats your story?" Or "what are your exciting plans for the future?". I would not want to talk to that person because if they dont know me I'd take these question as very nosy and dont like talking about future because idk what they are.
Wandesi (27 days ago)
What's a toranto
Elquin Hernandez (27 days ago)
Nice tips!!
Just'in Case (1 month ago)
How does anyone not see how this was made by CoC, Zenio and Exurb1a?!?! They're all fuckin fantastic.
Yasmin Al Sharif (1 month ago)
its Toronto, not Toranto
gdoggcasey (1 month ago)
Toranto
poppy rose (1 month ago)
1) ______ reminds me of 2) Use open questions 3) Why? 4) Revival questions? (e.g. tell me your story) 5) Flip the conversation to them
Dan Dan (1 month ago)
Never speak
G K (1 month ago)
Hey, so do you like bread? 🍞
Evan Pyne (1 month ago)
Toranto? Who tf made that mistake?
Manuel Legarde (1 month ago)
Almost 2 Million Subscribers Lettzz gooo
Russell Jimmies (1 month ago)
Enter the gym.... Receptionist "have a good workout" me "thanks yo..you too..."
Ethan Nelson (1 month ago)
Toranto
Novanova (1 month ago)
Damn i have hit a new bottom again... how to talk to people.. my extroverted little brother can talk for hours and he doesnt think anything
Tony Robledo (1 month ago)
I have such a hard time asking open ended questions
Andrej Nikolov (1 month ago)
"So... uh... Do you like oxygen?"
Jason Stathehem (1 month ago)
How do you guys all know eachother? "Work"
Mikayla Edelstein (2 months ago)
I would want to hit someone that said "you look like the type that would be great with kids" to me. That's not a compliment. I hate children.
Goarmynate (2 months ago)
toranto lmao
Zappy Living (2 months ago)
Im a quiet and boring person .Really great tips. Questions: they say that people get attracted to a person who they are like. How do you become that seemingly person who you talk to.. a husband, or a lover, a friend.Thanks.
Ryan x (1 month ago)
Zappy Living I have anxiety when it comes to talking to people in person 😂 I can text ok but if it’s a face to face thing my heart rate is high
Kyle Serrecchia (2 months ago)
why?
bonfanti (2 months ago)
You see that grass over there? It reminds me of the grass at my house
Mobaba Moba (2 months ago)
Did he ever apologize for "Toranto"?
Norseman (2 months ago)
Toranto
Abhiram Prasad (2 months ago)
Toronto*
Shayne Croake (2 months ago)
Anyone else get the Louis CK reference at 1:34?
Mike B (2 months ago)
Shout out to Louis CK in the "why" section.
Neko (2 months ago)
The format of this video kinda reminds me of the videos from Crash Course haha and your voice sounds like the Green brothers too
daniel linfen (2 months ago)
"Toranto"
Sophia Robinson (2 months ago)
Toronto*** not fucking toranto😂
Clarence (2 months ago)
When people are talking about things you are not interested?
Erjan Kadir (2 months ago)
I dont know if its on purpose but seeing your spelling of Toronto gave me high blood pressure
Test Sattawat (2 months ago)
Sub thai please. Thank you so much.
LonelyPianist (3 months ago)
3:04 _Sudden change of voice tonality_
StrawberryNinja Nibbles (3 months ago)
Would not recommend #4...
Sakku (3 months ago)
Mm
Sakku (3 months ago)
Mm
Marcus Valentine (3 months ago)
+1 like for Recep list
Project DAE (3 months ago)
BLINK 182
Nightcore_ hypnosis (3 months ago)
Gotta act being normal for my bf until I trap him heheh
Gachamooni (3 months ago)
The fact that it’s 2018 and we’re supposed to be progressing in conversing and we’re watching tutorials of how to actually start a conversation is really depressing. wow.
Yohan Oakhan (3 months ago)
2:55 Missed leg day
Pixe Fairy Tale (3 months ago)
Playing that reminds me of has helped me a lot. Now I have a lot to say
Balu kapitány (3 months ago)
Why is the Dog Wrestler Waltz playing in the background? I can't focus :D
Dani Clas (3 months ago)
Did anyone get the Louis C.K. reference in the "Why?" part? Haha
care. oh. line (3 months ago)
Why? Me answering: yes.
Justin De Souza (3 months ago)
Chanel is great man 👌🏻
Charice isfun (3 months ago)
I. Am. Ready.
Sean Hardy (3 months ago)
exurbia music! omg!
Brave Cb (3 months ago)
golden
》Tilly 《 (3 months ago)
First date small talk: 'Hey, you look like a person who would be great with kids!'
wiseirbis (3 months ago)
Music by Exurb1a! I guessed it right!
Gabriel Guzman (4 months ago)
First tip is still confusing to me
Renna Trammell (4 months ago)
Hello who think convo are easy or hard my opinion its a little hard by the way im using my mom account haha
Marcus C (4 months ago)
Toranto doesn't exist.
king from hollow kingdom (4 months ago)
my problem is now that i always ask people "hey watcha been up to" or "hey you got anything planned" and i usually get "eh, nothing"
Edison Palicdon (4 months ago)
1:40 i laughed at the guys eyebrows
Amy Burke (4 months ago)
Thank you so much!
Tru G (4 months ago)
Great job I love all the info you crammed in while also kept it short & to the point!!👏
Wanda Dee (4 months ago)
Even listening to this is hard for me to be able to think about things to say uhhh when did conversating with people get so hard .
FloralxxFading (4 months ago)
Well I don't have to worry about running out of things to say because he usually always carries on the conversation ❤
Melissa (4 months ago)
Anyone wanna be introvert buddies?
kenten77 (4 months ago)
How do you like Toronto Its good.
Morgan Morgan (4 months ago)
Why is that three year old talking with louis ck?
Kapitan Ryba (4 months ago)
It's scary, I have a date tommorrow, and I was just thinking about googling tips for the akward silence. I had this video in my recommended videos...
Rrishi Mishra (4 months ago)
2:48 , kids never skip leg days :p p.s. great video as always Charlie
Jonny Olesonn (4 months ago)
I can now survive in the real world, thank you good sir
Matthew Baysa (4 months ago)
What if the other person keeps killing the conversation
zoyoo (4 months ago)
Hahaha you are totaly the presentable "i can show my mom version" of the RSD guys Its the same content - although you earned probs to always get to point and giving more value per time 👌
Mr Offensington (4 months ago)
I was going to write a comment, but I can't think of anything to say...
Arend Breukelaar (4 months ago)
Omg, the waltz of the dog wrestler!
Nick Eh 31 (4 months ago)
That looks like Richard Branson
Im Simply Sasuke (5 months ago)
This is so irrelavant. Im anti-social and ill most likely die alone.
Carly Diep (5 months ago)
My whole 7th grade was like this because I was new I really hope it can be better for be in 8th grade...
Tyler Durden (5 months ago)
"Toranto"
Random Guy (5 months ago)
Am I hearing the "Dog Westler" by my turtle friend or Im going crazy
Rachel510126 (5 months ago)
At the end, I love how you have a recap slide, so helpful!
Vtron (5 months ago)
I prefer deep talk over small talk any day, it is easier to prolong and has a lot of debate, and has a lot of meaning
iLoveEritrea (4 months ago)
Vtron deep talk is where I struggle because I find I don't know enough about a topic to get into a debate. And when I do know enough about a topic, my social anxiety kicks in and I can't defend my position. I draw blanks and then I admit defeat and just agree with their point and then the conversation changes to another topic. Do you understand what I mean? Most conversations people have are small talk about the latest act on americas got talent or the football game. Thank god for that or I would have no hope at all.
Elliot Chan (5 months ago)
I wish I can just be comfortably quiet with people. Sometimes, I don't want to have conversation, but feel inclined to. I think that quote in pulp fiction sums it up: “‎That's when you know you've found somebody really special. When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute and comfortably share silence.”
Meiyoou (5 months ago)
youre talking about it like i could even start a converstion :'))
Nicholas Irons (5 months ago)
Brush, did anyone else notice that he spelled Toronto like "toranto"!!!!
Nikki Harper (5 months ago)
Me to my crush *silence* “SO how do you LikE ToraNtO???”
Tony Lopez (5 months ago)
@1:35 Noticed that Louie ck reference of his joke.
Jovan D (5 months ago)
Dat liuie ck refrence at 1:45 perfect
Ethan Luu (6 months ago)
ToRaNTo
PanDe Bread (6 months ago)
ZUCC
Troy Mason (6 months ago)
Toranto!!! The amount of disrespect is paramount
Sammy (6 months ago)
i found this in my watch later playlist and i have no memory of adding it lmao

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