How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.
That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation
0:20 Play Reminds Me of
0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk
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Aaaaah!....Awkwardness......one of the most dreadful maladies of the human condition....there are some RARE persons who do not suffer it WITH ANYONE----and that includes ROYALTY!-----but most of us suffer some throughout our lives....in fact, the video will not want to say it, of course, but awkwardness destroys more LIVES than, probably-----CANCER..........Why do we fear each other so much???.......
1. that reminds me of...
2. ask open ended questions (how do you like it? i’m curious to know more about it)(why did you decide)
3. use revival questions (how do you guys all know eachother?)(what’s your story)(any exciting plans)
4. complimentary cold read
5. flip the script
I just realized how ridiculous it is that we dont know what to talk about, what happened to us? Look at out Parents and Grandparents....they can talk forever to anyone......we need to fix the underlying problems to be able to communicate to other human beings in a genuine and authentic way. Has someone a contribution to my statements?
Dude, I put the principles from Charisma on Command to the test yesterday. I went to a concert by myself to see if I could strike up a conversation with strangers. It worked. I asked a guy in line which band he had come to see which got me invited to hang out with his group of friends. His girlfriend was one of the acts and we got along famously. I was dancing by myself slightly away from the crowd which caught the attention of another couple who I had a great conversation with and they invited me to hang out the following evening. A CoC video a day keeps my best self shining.
Wow we have become so disconnected that we srsly have to watch a yt video of how to talk to a person.. i spent way too much time on the instagram and tictok.. ( my instagram @hewo_lifeee and my tictok @hewo_lifeee )
I've lost my social skills,never thought i would be here,now i have nothing to talk about,like communicating is natural wtf is wrong with me?i used to be outgoing and now I'm awkward,whenever someone mentions the word shy i get embarassed,i want to change people keep labelling me as shy and my parents keep telling me to stop being shy argh i want to be social again
You know what? Im AMAZING at small talk and I always hold and start amazing conversations but the people that I talk to don’t want to get into deeper conversation but want to have an empty conversation so
Why should I try to hold a conversation with them and act like I care about their boring lives when they should start a conversation with ME for once
Personally, there's nothing i hate more than being asked "whats your story?" Or "what are your exciting plans for the future?". I would not want to talk to that person because if they dont know me I'd take these question as very nosy and dont like talking about future because idk what they are.