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How To Know If You're Just A Side Chick Or He Is Really Into You? - gloriaa0214

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Isabel Gil (11 days ago)
I’m def a side chick lmaoooo
Tiffany Watt (1 month ago)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months and he just started a new job and met a couple of people at his job and now he's talking to this girl at work and he has act different just a little and then I found out he deleted a lot of my pictures my Facebook he said the reason why he deleted them is he was mad at me because I told him he didn't love me regardless I feel like you should have never deleted my pictures and I feel like this girl doesn't know nothing about me he's like she's got a boyfriend but I feel like boyfriend or not clear women that cheat everyday I'm just so heartbroken that he deleted my pictures should I even feel this way
Mwelwa Mumba (2 months ago)
Watching this in 2019... And turns out I have been the sidechick for 3 years.... Wish I watched this earlier
Pun P (3 months ago)
U can’t hear none u saying👋🏽
ayesha sultana (3 months ago)
Hmm ..I try to avoid now this side chick situation .. -:)
Bree Lovexoxo (4 months ago)
He needs = side chick
Tanya Duffy (4 months ago)
What about if he married but he tells you they sleep in different rooms
TraFra 37 (15 days ago)
You should know better. This trick is as old as time!
Ernest Valdez (5 months ago)
This guy is a pro!!!!
Luciana De Leon (5 months ago)
His gf is the side chick and I'm the main bitch
Lindsey Hebert (5 months ago)
How about if he gives me a hug around the shoulder down to the waist and he says that I am such a sweet girl his hug 🤗 helped me out when I couldn’t see me but he said hi Lindsey Lindsey where are you live on Instagram and keeping an out on me when I could not make it to a show of theirs I popped up then he said thanks Lindsey for your true and loyalty but it had been in 2017 the last time and 2016 wishing for it again
Cris Anne Cano (5 months ago)
Some people says a nerd guy or an introvert guy is not a playboy? Does it true? Or no?
Golden Rich (6 months ago)
bro this lady on younow app .. bullied me about usa better rappers then australia and say then say australia only have iggy azalae .i love usa and hiphop im just saying why ..then i called her ugly only because she hate my country then she called me ugly that i have hair on chin i think she crazy i don.t understand how someone can hate australia so much and then bully me over this ...what you think friend
IamVee (7 months ago)
If a woman is willing to date a man who is already in a relationship, I think she should not sexually engage with him.. because in the end that oxytocin will just get her attached to this loser, feeling all love and all that comes with it. Play it safe, very!
Ishi Gandalf (8 months ago)
Oh yeh? Delicate? Emotional? Looks like he's really innocent? Meet the parents? Turned your world around and feel you're the only fucking one.... Pfffffttt..still found out as a side chick...... you can't tell these days
Debberra Harriman (9 months ago)
heehee
barbara lewis (9 months ago)
Can you tell me why he wanted to be with me and then after 2 years he just ends everything with me and gets with someone else it lasts 1 month then now she is a side hoe and to hangout then in a class we both take he watch’s moves or things I do or who I talk to and even stares and watches me when I am walking and he is just watches so, what does that mean? He is doing the same thing alone when he got with me please help?????
Speak Your TRUTH (9 months ago)
Motherfucker......I just realized I was played!! I knew it. He better not come back now.
Virginia Lacar (11 months ago)
Thanks for the nice advice!! !
starry night (11 months ago)
Thank you
Hershey 4Life (11 months ago)
🤣 You are funny!!!
oya 2u (11 months ago)
Your videos are much needed thankyou
oya 2u (11 months ago)
Are you married Sir?
Traci C (11 months ago)
I totally agree with your statement.
carmen arocho (1 year ago)
I think mine reads my mind and knows when I’m about to dump him and starts being nice, but honestly this time there is no way back I’m done with his bs.
Fruity Ang (1 year ago)
LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!
That Girl (1 year ago)
I have FRIENDS like this too. My life is full of people like this. 😠😠😠😠
toni akinode (1 year ago)
Luv ur advice
Ana Clawd (1 year ago)
lol how he acts, thanks...Instincts tell everything,believe in yourself
naba naba (1 year ago)
o I got a friend from high school he left to another city when we graduated from school we never were close friends but sometimes he texts me normally like friends then he starts to flirt then he stops speaking to me for months then he comes back and does the same i really don't understand why all of that is happening can u please tell me?
TaeTaeee (1 year ago)
I didn't know I was the side chick until I went to his house and knocked on the door... Guess who answered??? The chick he was living with! 🙄 I wished I would've watched this 2 months ago, it would've saved me the heartache. The signs were there I just ignored them and believed the lies.
chicken lips (1 year ago)
TaeTaeee I feel for you. I've been played like a fiddle ... men 😩
Agnes Tikaunifutuna (1 year ago)
I'm in the same situation right now n I feel like killing myself...... I need alot of advice
nicollettenyob (1 year ago)
I like your style...succinct, eloquent, and bang-on with insights! Considering a consult...
Js399 (1 year ago)
Simple. you get put to the side unless he's bored. You're like the Xbox video game controller - when he's finished playing with you and a friend knocks on the door he puts you back on the couch.
oddy (10 days ago)
Lol funny analogy
I find your advices are just to the point , short , clear and true ... I subscribed... keep the great work !
Cosmetics & Comedy (1 year ago)
We need to go back to the old days where women didn't give out sex and the man married you and treated you like a queen. And there was no divorce and easy women so readily available. When women opened their legs freely, they fucked it all up. And this is coming from a woman. WE FUCKED IT UP!!!!
ani (1 year ago)
Thank you. Very useful
Roslyn ros (2 years ago)
Your videos are always short and precise but also educational.No wastage of time. Don't have to sit and listen to long speeches. Thank you
Olivia Kaake (2 years ago)
So me and this guy on my bus we hold hands on the bus but we're not dating, how do I know if he's gonna ask me or if he's just messing around?
TNT Explosive Sounds (2 years ago)
very wise man
Milund M. (2 years ago)
Why do my male manager like to come into my personal space without me realizing he is there in then when i turn he is directly looking at me then i freak out because he scared the shit out of me. Why do my male manager do that to me?
Descendants love (2 years ago)
ok so theirs this boy in my class who I used to sit by and the only time he asked me something was if I could pick up his pencil and now we don't sit next to each other we don't talk anymore but we used to talk all about things and now we don't talk but I ketch him looking at me and then he looks away when I look his way can you tell me what that means
Caroline (2 years ago)
I noticed a coworker being, as you said, delicate with me and acting gentle, being patient, listens carefully when I speak and show a low profile. He also said to me very quiet at an AW together with others he was curious about me. But I also know he has a longtime partner and children. He's probably not looking for something serious, but he really acts like he is. I'm confused and it's hard to forget/ignore someone you meet everyday at work. So my question is — can someone still act like this and still be a player?
Adrienne Samantha (4 months ago)
Exact same situation with me
Hala Almadhi (2 years ago)
I loooovvveeee it ! 💜💜💜
amanda smith (2 years ago)
I'm a side chick.... fuck!
bleu Hea (2 years ago)
He won't care very much about ... you 😩😂😂😂😂 love your videos
Dream Waters (2 years ago)
I was a sidechick.What a loser.And he was so important to me.He still single and I've been in a relationship for so long that's showing something after all!!
Tony Alston (25 days ago)
😂😂 you still want that thug dick thought... I bet you think about it after your simp boyfriend fucks you
Amanda stephanie (2 years ago)
Just discovered your channel and subbed. You make my heart sink babe...can I come over? hahaha!
Dayanna MacKintosh (2 years ago)
How do you talk to your crush for the first time after he finds out?
christin caudle (2 years ago)
what if you talk to this guy you had no idea he had girlfriend we talk for a month and later couple of weeks he kept asking me about relationship problems which I don't know how to respond to I never been into relationship serious one atleast my life been around sex and so he kept bringing her up I told him we can't do anything if your gonna go back to her he knew it and when I kept asking he says I don't know I know I knew he was gonna go back to her how much he missing his ex I don't mind having sex but he has to be single too lately if I were still around what if me and him did something but it was distance long distance I guess he felt lonely after his breakup I was worried I was gonna be side chick he says he's not that type of guy but now I'm not so sure now since he was talking to me
Rain Clouds (2 years ago)
SO TRUE, LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCTS!!!!
Guwop Burr (2 years ago)
I told my boyfriend when I was younger 19 that I was going through a rough time I was homeless living in a shelter & couldn't afford to pay my phone bill at the time so we lost contact he didn't even try to come find me so he pops back up in my life 3 years later with a child I don't know why but I gave him another chance just because I was such in a good place in my life now we're serious & I don't think I can handle what he's telling me happened in those 3 years he told me he was taking care of this girl paying her bills not even staying there getting her hair done etc etc while I was homeless he only broke it off because he found her personal diary & she was saying how she didn't find him attractive she didn't want to be with him etc etc I loved him I was so young going through so much I just could never understand how he could just leave me like that he knew were my dad stayed he damn shoull poped up when he needed sex but my dad told me no one came looking for me it just hurts I see that that situation has changed him made him a better man but I just can't get over the past those were the worst years of my life & if he couldn't stick with me through those times I don't feel like he deserves me at my best but I love him I can't seem to let him go but everyday I feel like I'm his second choice like he settled for me I'm losing my sanity I dont have a mother or friends or money for counseling do I've been trying to find help online any advice will help please
Rain Clouds (2 years ago)
I just read your post and you answered the question yourself. I know that you still have feelings for this guy but like you said 'he left YOU when YOU needed him the most' and now after 3 years he finds his way back to YOU. And while YOU were kind enough to take him back, YOU owe him NOTHING and YOU deserve better! Don’t’ ignore YOUR feelings; YOU have every right to feel this way…good luck!
Nube Chacho (2 years ago)
If your crush as a gf and he show u more attention instead of her he give me more attention
Brandie T. Fields (2 years ago)
men aint 💩 at the end of the day just stay single & travel! all these games..nobody has time for that,life is too short
lucia nguyen (4 months ago)
I feel the same way. Shit, I am 39. Just do not have time to chase male kids.
Stitches 577 (7 months ago)
Well don't u cry yourself too sleep it might be sad butt people need other people on some time or thee other it's just a human thing
Tara LS (2 years ago)
haha ain't that the truth
May Beni (2 years ago)
Brandie Fields life is too short, exactly!
Lyndsey N (2 years ago)
its all accurate completely like textbook. I mean wow. this has helped me so much...all these videos.
jimin chim (2 years ago)
How to approach some one u love but u can't express it cuz u r so timid
Brittney Silver (2 years ago)
You are speaking truth...even when women know that a guy is no good, we give in to the madness.
mimi elisabeth (2 years ago)
why guys disappear after making plans with them and they don't respond , haven't had sex with them why do they do that
Vanessa Linares (1 year ago)
mimi elisabeth He met someone else or has a girlfriend that's why they ghost.Happened to me.
Roxana Guerrero (2 years ago)
I get nervous seeing these videos 😂
Delisha Envy (3 months ago)
😂😂
amanda smith (2 years ago)
Roxana Guerrero lol me too but it's very educational
aysha C (2 years ago)
Roxana Guerrero thought I was the only one lol 🙈
Nartha Laki (2 years ago)
i like all ur video!! you are excellent about advising us on relationship!! Good job😉😉
miracle_ artz (2 years ago)
hahaa .. the moment of 4:57-5:00 soo funny sir ! i agreed totally
URBAN DANCERS (2 years ago)
im a side check...damn
Marvina Parker (2 years ago)
Absolutely correct wow
Christina Lovely World (2 years ago)
smh 100
Mia M (2 years ago)
I really like all your videos, you are fantastic at explaining even your short messages. I need your advice/ help. How can I contact you? I'm in a really bad situation dealing with a guy who has a girlfriend :/ it truly sucks
Nita Anderson (2 years ago)
This was good.
Bre Klein (2 years ago)
Even if a guy is really into you----and has a side chick that you figure out from this video IS NOT you. WHy the hell would you want to be with a douche like that? Anyone who has a side boy or side chick is a selfish jerk
Sarah Beth (2 years ago)
What does it mean when he says he doesn't want a relationship but he wants to be friends and do stuff with affectio but doesn't want a relationship
LaShonda Rochell (7 months ago)
He wants to use you for sex i.e. friends with benefits, You are Worthy to be with someone who loves and respect you.
AussieGirl (2 years ago)
Great vid
s skub (2 years ago)
Your exactly right .. Had a player trying to place me as a side chick - I was stupid and ignored my instincts until it was totally clear I was being played - busted him on social media w another chick when he was always making excuses why he was to busy to see me w his 2 jobs and being relationship leery .. Kicked his ass to the curb - Was so glad I never slept w him ! DONT ignore your instincts !!
tropical girl (2 years ago)
u r the best in analyzing ....u r funny
Tamika Iyalla (2 years ago)
how do you know or interpret a guy that is obviously interested, he talks to you on the phone and via text, but when in public...little to no communication...i'm very lost at this point.
Tamara Johnson (2 years ago)
Should a women with kids date a single father ?
Atid Mata BenIsrael (2 years ago)
+Tamara Damn stay back then don't even get involved if that's the case don't because you'll be in a fight with her sooner or later
Tamara Johnson (2 years ago)
+Atid Mata BenIsrael Yea I was thinking the same thing because his baby mother knows me personally from high school.
Atid Mata BenIsrael (2 years ago)
i wouldn't say date but be friends first prove your friendship with him and he has to prove his friendship with u then when the time is right u can marry him just wait
M JP (2 years ago)
How to know whether or not a guy friend is getting out of the friend zone? And how to make him want me more than a friend?
Rain Clouds (2 years ago)
Great advice!
Cleopaehua (2 years ago)
I'm so happy you're back ♡ you've helped me out in so many times of pain. Thank you, thank you, thank you :-)
Eve Heart (2 years ago)
Idk why some women tolerate that ?! Lmao there is no hope in that " is emotional abuse and madness ".
Badman8ful (2 years ago)
Is there different rules for men and women when it comes to dating like who should make the first move or spend the first text ?
hugo morel (2 years ago)
how do i show her how much i love her? i keep hurting without meaning to. it hurts me so bad when im the reason for her tears. im afaird of losing her. she means so much to mean but i keep messing up..im loyal as they come. the problem is miscommunication. we live 12 hours apart. she means the world to me. i wish she could see that
Miguel & Ena (2 years ago)
Is it good if you date your best friend
MegaGiants89 (2 years ago)
Whats the best way to ask a girl to be your girlfriend & when should you ask?
Amby Chester (2 years ago)
How do you know if your crush is into you if they're always busy
Shakti Shakti (2 years ago)
Brandie Fields Bam! Simple truth.
1Cor.13 Love (2 years ago)
s skub WELL SAID!!! TRUTH!!!!!!!
Brandie T. Fields (2 years ago)
if they too busy they not interested! remember ppl make time for the things they want
s skub (2 years ago)
Just kicked ones ass to the curb for this ... Was a player ! If a man wants to see you -he WILL .. Your not a priority - so stop making him one !
M. Chelle (2 years ago)
they won't be busy when it comes to you.
Kaela Cline (2 years ago)
This was much needed
Pipi (2 years ago)
U GIVE THE BEST ADVICE
oddy (10 days ago)
@SabbieVlogs love ur profile pic lol
ify Sugarlabrown (2 years ago)
rcrck yes he does👏🏾👏🏾iv learned sooooo much since 2years gone watching him❤️
bawain (2 years ago)
he does, not crap like 99% of ppl on utube
SabbieVlogs (2 years ago)
ikr
ashresearcher (2 years ago)
Thanks for your videos. I watched your channel 2 years ago when I started dating this girl. I learned a lot and our relationship is going well (we live together and have a dog). I'm 24 and she's 25 BTW. My question is: since she's the first girl I've ever been with, I'm not sure I can judge how good our relationship is. I'm also curious to explore and have turned down girls in the past... Do you think I should satisfy my urge to explore or that I should stay in my relationship? There are so many hot girls around me and I feel like I missed on an important part of university life. I'm much more confident and successful now than I used to be.
ashresearcher (2 years ago)
We're having a tough time though. We're both super busy and aren't spending enough quality time together. Just housekeeping, dinner, and groceries...
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
@ashresearcher that means you don't like your girlfriend. Do what you gotta do
ashresearcher (2 years ago)
I feel like I'm missing out on a large part of my life... Also, the main reason we moved together is because we both needed a roommate.
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
stay in relationship dude. u are living together so im guessing u both really like each other. why would u leave her just to explore? unless u are saying u want to break up with her
Isavick (2 years ago)
Should I continue pursuing this girl, if we get along really easily and have so much in common, but shes making everything so confusing and difficult and mixed signals about being in a relationship?
Isavick (2 years ago)
+can can she would call me cute, put heart eyes and be weird and talk about a bunch cute stuff if we were in a relationship. I ask her most times who she wants me to be and never give me a straight up answer. But i recently saw her flirting with this other guy on instagram. Today i told her straight up i cant keep feeling confused and hurt anymore, if she really wants me to be in her life. Shes gotta show me the effort. Because i think ive done if not more than enough to show i her i want her in my life.
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
also in my opinion you should stop pursuing her because the best way to pursue a girl is to let her chase you. it might not make sense to you but I learned it the hard way.
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
In my opinion I think she is just sending u a signal that she is not interested OR she could be mind fcuking you to make you chase her more. Still not enough information to answer your question, did she show any Sign of interest like touching you, complimenting you, looking at you?
Isavick (2 years ago)
She hides things from me, people shes texting people who call her, how I look like on her contacts, and how she calls me in front of people.
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
u didn't provide enough information for us to answer your question. what do you mean by confusing ?
Frederick Tolchard (2 years ago)
Should you tell a girl you like her if you don't think she sees you as more than a friend?
T Gage (2 years ago)
How can a woman know that a man is being honest when he says he finds her pretty, sexy, or beautiful?
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
if he says u are pretty and always touch u and try to rush to get in your pants, then they don't mean it. if he takes it slow and always trying to get to know you, he could mean it
Camille Bou (2 years ago)
Thank you DatingLogic ! x
GIGApuddi (2 years ago)
What do when you just met a guy online and he ready says that the loves you, want to marry you and thinks you are his other ' half '. On top of that he is also being clingy.
Nthabi Ngomane (8 months ago)
He's either stringing you along or just plain crazy. Run!
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
delete him or only stay as internet friend.
Christina P. (2 years ago)
Meet him? How can someone want to marry someone they haven't met yet?
Sophia Yanez (2 years ago)
what does it mean when a guy asks u out but avoids you? or is "shy"?
IamVee (7 months ago)
Maybe he is in a relationship?
Atid Mata BenIsrael (2 years ago)
he's shy so take it easy on him and go slow but talk to him as friends nothing more or nothing less so be friends
August (2 years ago)
What does it mean when a married ex calls you "just to see how you're doing"?
Daughter oftheKing (2 years ago)
Girl run
Indi Genius (2 years ago)
It means he either: a) missed you, and thought of you BRIEFLY. It will pass, doesn't mean he wants you back, or b) wanted something, but definitely NOT TO CHECK ON YOu, guys aren't that thoughtful he wanted something.
Christina P. (2 years ago)
I believe he really just wants to see how you are doing or such, nothing with a deep meaning
Miranda Kelbach (2 years ago)
I have a few questions. So my dads girlfriends son is a year older than me and he doesn't really talk to me but he is smiling at me and stares at me.. My friend thinks he likes me.. Does he? Also today his friend came to our house and his friend wouldn't take his eyes off me. But he just met me today... Why waswas staring at me? Plz respond I need the answer lol
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
can't answer your question. not enough information is provided and we don't know your situation.
miss le (2 years ago)
The things that you mentioned towards the end about the way a man, who is truly interested behaves is true. However, what I have learned from dealing with the player type is that they talk the most, while showing the least substantial things. Men, who are authentic show and prove. By the way, great video.
summer sun (5 months ago)
The last part 😂
6980MulhollandDrive (2 years ago)
miss le Agreed! The more they talk, the less they *actually* show and prove you they really care about you. Because of course they don't. Not 100%, at least. They're just users and players.
vvelvettearss (2 years ago)
O my gosh this is so true ! I noticed that with a dirty lying cheating (married) guy I was with for a time and the current one. They both seem to have this in common, the need to just talk at you, tell you things or demand stuff, it's like they have no chill..it's stressful :/ I'm glad you said that cuz I was just beginning to notice it with the intense talking, very serious and direct about sex based topics like it's the most important thing. Ladies watch out if he acts like he has something to prove he's probably not genuine x Now I know I'm a side chick or bootie call from this vid The exact same thing happened as here, 2 weeks after he told me to never speak again because I turned down sex I got back in touch cautiously and RING RING hey how are you? What the heck!?
Fashionista 030 (2 years ago)
how do you know a guys intentions on a first date when you met online?
Carney Tam (2 years ago)
90% of guys intention when they meet girl online is to meet in person and hook up. tinder would be a great example
Ruchie34 (2 years ago)
You ask them to be frank with you && tell them you wont be upset about whatever they have to say && if they say the 'truth',but their actions dont align with that truth then you know they are lieing?
Fashionista 030 (2 years ago)
but he can always tell you whatever he thinks you wanna hear...
Ruchie34 (2 years ago)
You ask him about his intentions?
hayl.k (2 years ago)
How do you end the cycle with a player?
6980MulhollandDrive (2 years ago)
Indi Genius Agreed. It works, trust me. And it will hurt him sooo bad. Better, play along at first and *then* proceed to treating him like dirt. Sorry, but some people really deserved this.
May Beni (2 years ago)
Indi Genius did it and I broke up
Indi Genius (2 years ago)
Let him know your onto him, stop sleeping with him, point out all his negative attributes verbally, treat him like shit.
IchibanOjousama (2 years ago)
Let him know the benefits of fidelity
TheBeautyRoom99 (2 years ago)
Once a player always a player ? Can a guy change for a girl ?
Sheffield vloggers (1 month ago)
Noooo they never change so move on
Atid Mata BenIsrael (2 years ago)
+Taylar lol then u get him to talk to her and be friends that's it and tell him also to leave u alone lolz :D
TayTay Meredith (2 years ago)
Atid Mata BenIsrael i agree. my cousin was a player, he didn't care who he talked to. Then my friend came along and he dropped every girl he use to talk to. He is 100% into her. It gets to the point where he annoys me
Atid Mata BenIsrael (2 years ago)
+Urban just be friends and prove your friendship with him time will tell okay u just got to wait

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