James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover
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James Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show.
And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video.
01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct
02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing
02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke
06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out
07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did here
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I wouldn’t necessarily joke about someone’s strengths, because they themselves might feel like they aren’t that strong at that. There’s been times where I thought I was weak at something and make a joke about me being weak but it turns out they think I’m strong at it
8:45 i'd like to say that the key to joking is understanding your mark. I'm fat, but do not get offended by fat jokes. I simply don't allow myself to be hurt by comedy. I've seen others get offended by jokes made about me as i laugh. Of course you also need to understand when a joke is for comedy and when it is clearly aggresion. His funhouse mirror joke was funny, but when he continues beyond the simple statement it is clearly meant as an insult.
Sorry but this is fucking ridiculous. James Corden's biggest criticism is that he is a completely different person off the camera. He has grown because of the network. His managers and producers are doing all the work and pulling all the strings so his latenight surges. Please do research on something else than this stupid git.
Matt Damon and Fat Damon is a quality joke. The next joke was meh and just served to make the first one sound more insulting than funny.
Though that's from a humor perspective, not a charisma perspective.
I don't necessarily agree with James Cordens views on certain subjects but singing in a car with him would be awesome. Also i agree with how nice he actually is and for that I respect him as a person and a tv personality he really is a warm person
Except, the push/pull method becomes seriously telegraphed when used consistently by the same person. You become a 1 trick pony, like James Borden, and the respect is still lost. Hence, his spot in the ratings.
Your "methods" are incomplete and inconsistent.
Like your vids .... but I think you got it wrong here. Corden wins with women but most of the men I know HATE HIM. He always seems like he is trying to hard, he over does the compliments and appears like he is sucking up. Most men dislike this. The feeling I get from Corden is that he lacks real confidence, it looks like he's acting. I find him slimey and disingenuous and think he is a product of the man bashing that hollywood seems to promoting lately .
Oh my goodness I lose so much respect for MEN that tease me about being slim saying stuff like "You're not a man."
Thanks for the video!! I don't get closer to people by teasing them. That means there's something bothering me about the person if I'm teasing them. I'm glad you shared this because I've been wondering what I could do against these people. I'm not trying to be offended because freedom of speech, but I also don't want to respond as if I'm losing myself. I'll ignore the first time, and if a human can't understand, then I'ma get under their skin and let them know that I'm the one driving this conversation. They ain't gonna be able to speak again. And then we'll laugh.
And then it'll all be done and I won't have to speak to that human again. I just hope they don't do that bullshit azz handshake talking about "You such a cool person". Like human you insulted me!! That shit annoys me!!
bra your mind is different, i've done Dmt and molly but i never saw this coming, you predict things and sometimes that is not a good idea, at least thats how i like to put it., also if you the person who is reading this wondering how old i am, i'm 16 but I'm pretty sure you thought i was older, that right there shows you I'm one step ahead of you the person who is reading this.
I wouldn't rule out his no sense of shame and his ease of working with women. Not many hit sitcoms are written solely by a man and a woman with no romantic entanglement. He's very non threatening to women
People are far too complicated. Be nice to them and they don't respect you, don't be nice and they'll destroy you for disrespecting them. Fuck that. Live alone, stay alone and fuck dealing with people.
i talk the same way with the whole push pull thing but it's deffinately because im so paranoid that im sounding stupid that after most general statements I try to crack a laugh to distract from my not very well thought out conversation out of paranoia. lol