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http://www.realmenrealstyle.com/male-attractiveness-aging/ - Click here to read the article on male aging and attractiveness. Are you ready to up your style? Click here for the BEST style course on the planet! https://thestylesystem.com/?utm_source=Youtube Before we get into this topic I have a question: Who was voted the sexiest man of the year in 1989 and sexiest man of the century in 1999? For those who don’t know: Sean Connery Does anyone know how old he was when he was voted most sexy man on Earth? 59 That’s right: A majority of women voted a 59 year old man sexier than any other man on the planet. Not to mention being voted most sexy man of the century at the age of 69. Today we’re going to talk about male sex appeal and how it’s affected by getting older. I’m also going to give you 5 tips to maintain your attractiveness past the age of 40. http://www.realmenrealstyle.com/male-attractiveness-aging/ - Click here to read the article on male aging and attractiveness. https://www.facebook.com/groups/rmrscommunity/ - Click HERE To Join our online Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/RealMenRealStyle/ - Like Us On Facebook! https://www.instagram.com/rmrstyle/ - Follow Us On Instagram https://twitter.com/rmrstyle - Tweet Us! https://www.pinterest.com/rmrstyle/ - Follow Us On Pinterest
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Real Men Real Style (6 months ago)
How do you maintain attractiveness in your 40s? Comment below! https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/male-attractiveness-aging/ - Click here to read the article on male aging and attractiveness. https://www.facebook.com/groups/rmrscommunity/ - Click HERE To Join our online Facebook Community
Linda Lowther (1 month ago)
no matter what, a man past 40 stops being eyecandy for normal 18 - 25 yr olds. you need to be rich and then some girls can overlook appearance. being fit does help some
1topgorgon (1 month ago)
Stay in the gym, get all the stress out your life, eat properly most of the time, DO NOT ABUSE ANY DRUGS OR ALCOHOL, keep reasonably in touch with fashion. Drink lots of water, keep your car, keep your home, KEEP YOUR BODY AND HAIR CLEAN. Keep hair shaved or neatly in order always. Keep a few well recommended colognes close by. Keep in close contact with your dentist. Use quality moisturizers , lip balm, hand lotions and sunscreens. Jog daily. This is just a few things
rxjenny91361 (2 months ago)
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andrea inzaghi (4 months ago)
skin and teeth are the essential, thank you for your video.
William Overly (2 days ago)
First, try to keep your cane from hitting her in the face. Now, if you do fall down, tell her you just got new designer shoes. If she asks about your diapers, tell her they are the latest bathing trunks from Europe. If you can't stop hacking, convince her you're just singing your favorite rap song. For the occasional fart, just say it must be passing automobiles or something on tv.
Iceman WAUGH (2 days ago)
Forget about Moisturisers. Shea Butter and Coconut Oil - Swear by them!!
0090steve (2 days ago)
I'm 54 and recently single. I started working out, lightened my teeth and got new jeans, boots and tighter fitting dress shirts. I now have a beautiful younger gf and others who have shown that they are interested. I was walking in a restaurant and noticed the ladies checking me out. They have eagle eyes and they notice what you are presenting.
Robert Thorn (3 days ago)
What about men pushing 70, ..we're been retired for several years and looking for advice.
Orlando Flores (4 days ago)
Ok so no grey at all.
Chump Change (18 days ago)
Wow, this is really out of touch with what is going on in the social media. MGTOW appears to be the big thing. I don't think most men are as vane as this guy.
Rosalind Beatrice (18 days ago)
I'm 31 and I'm only attracted to men 40 /50 plus. Much more attractive than younger guys in my personal opinion
alonzo calvillo (25 days ago)
I have to disagree on dying your hair. When I think of old guys dying their hair I think of Ronald Reagan with his black hair well into his 80s.He looked ridiculous.If you want to look young , work out. I’m 71 and have been working out most of my life . I get complimented for my age a lot at the gym.Anybody who dyes his hair to look young is trying the easy way to look young and they look like fools. Just embrace the gray.
TheBigdee0209 (26 days ago)
Money thats all you need
YouTube Troll (27 days ago)
I could buy a nice car and wear expensive clothes but my money is better spent pursuing my own passions in life. Impressing females is not a priority anymore, I’m older now and sex isn’t that important anymore.
YouTube Troll (27 days ago)
I don’t think Sean Connery is a good example. He’s rich and famous, that makes him attractive by default.
acorn sucks (29 days ago)
An old man without money is like a bow without an arrow.
Trevor Standefer (30 days ago)
Eating healthy staying away from alcohol working out cycling jogging running walking and a healthy sex life protected of course
Rupert SS (1 month ago)
A man with bad front teeth gives advice on style...
Mar Sand (1 month ago)
Definitely don't dye the hair guys. As a woman speaking I find it very unappealing. Embrace the grey, embrace the thinning, but DO pay attention to the teeth
Mehari Siyum (1 month ago)
good job
Mehari Siyum (1 month ago)
good job
Trace Rollins (1 month ago)
Was the Russian girl you mentioned a mail order bride? Girls from The Philippines will also marry men decades older than them just to escape the poverty and support their families..Much better to be alone than to go this route!
ian1856 (1 month ago)
Stop dyeing your hair, Antonio. It looks ridiculous.
Tim Webb (1 month ago)
Women are such hypocrites. Re. the smell thing, the mother of my two children always used to ask me to leave her one of my oldest smelliest T shirts if I had to go away for a while. You figure what she wanted it for. As they say, do not listen to what she says, watch what she does.
Sonny Dey (1 month ago)
I haven't trimmed my beard in over 10 years, & l have tattoos all over my body. I always have plenty of women available . What you say here, doesn't apply to me...
Jack Hammer (1 month ago)
#1... Don't OVERDYE your hair... It looks foolish, desperate and fake..
maldives-joshua joseph (1 month ago)
Get to the point quickly please.
John Nash (1 month ago)
Am just pretty amazed how open-minded people are. I mean, really? 20 or 30 years your junior? I have to admit that a man gets attracted to young women but, to me, it is like trying to have a relationship with your offspring or grandchild. Further, even if your are on your 60s/ 70s, you will still be attracted to younger women, right? Further, have you not imagined the life it would be if you are about to pass? Will you be able to witness your child getting married? Taking care of your grandkids?
Carolyne Musolo (1 month ago)
Most men are boring after they reach the age of 30.... I feel sorry how men think women like their old asses. women enjoy sex with young men but take money from men of all ages. Men are he'll bent on age, they will even chase a girl just coz they are so insecure. Basically a man over 35 has to buy a woman's love.
S Rey (1 month ago)
Typical man, I didn't even listen to the rest,,because you started out by describing situation where a man over 40 worrying about his attractiveness because he is seeking out younger women. Do men ever look at older women? You are promoting steriotypical mindlessness. Have you seen who that sexy president of France, Emmanuel Macron is married to? She's 61 years old.
dcosb09 (1 month ago)
macron is an exception. men prefer younger in general. no older women are not really attractive
Craig Athonian (1 month ago)
i was going to respond to another statement on here but this is too long, so here's a few tips from a portrait artist and colorist....Don't dye your hair if you don't know what your doing. What people don't know is, (and i include so called professionals) ...on a simple note, it's all about your skin color. Hate to tell ya, but as your hair changes, so does your skin. A good rule is, as you get older your hair should get softer. That doesn't mean black or what you had in you stud days !... it also doesn't have to be blond, ( although most older guys look good with a "cool" blond). Some men look really bad,{unhealthy} just because of what grey does to their skin tone. So, go get the hair color that is called "temporary" that is several shades lighter. This way as your hair grows the dye washes out and ya won't have the dreaded "roots". Another trick to see what looks good, is to get fabric of the color that you think might work...wrap it around your head and look in the mirror. it doesn't have to be exact ... just close. That should help give ya the confidence to do the right thing.... well... i hope it will :)
alonzo calvillo (1 month ago)
Consider dyeing your hair?Noooooooooo! You were doing okay until I heard you say that . Embrace the gray ! I am 71 workout seven days a week and have been a lifelong fitness buff. One thing that gets me about guys my age is they let their beards grow and wear trucker hats that plus a beer belly makes them look like OLD .
jamppatee (2 months ago)
A facelift will make your face look younger.
theo van staden (2 months ago)
i am 50 years old, my pf photo from a month back, imported for men over 40 and going into 50s too look after your health and stay fit!
Bohemian Monk (2 months ago)
Men look for youth and fertility a woman women look for money and resources. Women have no actual love for men, they love money what a man can do for them, his utility. As long as a woman can extract money and resources via the government, she has no reason to spread her legs for for a man. If I were you I'd be careful Antonio, especially if you have kids with your wife. I'd keep an eye on her like crazy because she's probably already cheating on you. Women have no loyalty. But they're really good at playing the victim. If I were you, the second she starts talking about an open marriage, push your thumb into her eye sockets. Then sprinkle crack and plant a knife. Ultra life-like love dolls are only about $2000 and will never cheat on you and give you an STD or accuse you of rape or spend all your money and leave you broke. I can't take your kids to the gynocentric family court, or rip your wallet out of your ass in a divorce. #justgetadoll. Be free, be safe, be a MGTOW Monk: it's the only way to survive in this insane, gynocentric world!
Trev Stavros (2 months ago)
40 is still the age of being a baby. What about us men who are well past 50??...
Mr Scratch (2 months ago)
I’m 19 and I i’m everything opposite to what you say...it’s what the younger girls like 😂😂😂😂😂 Dress in hoody’s look like you give up on life, woman love bad boys, that look gets you pussy in my world 😂😂😂😂
Kay Hawkins (2 months ago)
Very rare for a young woman to be attracted a an old man no matter how dapper they look. It is just that "yuck" feeling. Even in my 30's would not want an old man hit on me. It's what's in your wallet that matters to them. Someone to pay their bills or help care for their kids. Once they hook you the first thing to deal the deal and have a baby. Soon they will find a younger man they can stand to look at and eventually you will divorce not much left in your wallet so you will be an old man starting over still paying child support. You realize you need to find someone near your own age but the older woman won't want you either they are past the drama of raising kids, dealing with that young X and money problems. So, yeah follow this guys advise and end up old and lonely
Charles Teale, Sr. (2 months ago)
Excellent as usual! I’d love to know if you travel and give seminars regarding the things you know.
Iron Fist (2 months ago)
Stay in shape and be responsible..
Mike Shepherd (2 months ago)
Who gives a toss...
Matt legend (2 months ago)
I've always found being a multimillionaire has worked for me. I regularly put away 25 yo women and I'm 52 .
Allan Core (2 months ago)
Rhino Pierre (2 months ago)
1. Be attractive 2. Be handsome 3. Don’t be unattractive Taken from SNL skit call “sexual harassment and you” with Tom Brady...too funny and soooo true 😬
Mike Nadolski (2 months ago)
here what worked for me step 1 have your shit together step 2 walk into a public place step 3 the woman will do the rest I have a rough unconventional look about me .I dress cool.but it's all how you carry yourself .I still don't have grey hair but would never dye.be yourself thank God I've zero body fat .
ron l (2 months ago)
I'm 8 years old and dating a fetus, this video really helped.
escow nagejac (18 days ago)
It only wants u for ur allowance. They are just so shallow...
Jeff Okriya (1 month ago)
Young boys usually like older girls . . but that all changes a bit later ron
Mike Nadolski (2 months ago)
fuck this .I'm 50 I look great .and my gf is hot.this is a joke ..... must be in my blood .
Shaun Tatham (2 months ago)
It's all about the energy you have....once your energy returns then will your confidence😎😎😎then you start climbing trees at 49. If you want tips to get your energy back in your late 40s?? See my page....
sidibill (2 months ago)
Tried the dye thing. Nothing looks as stupid as grey roots. Dying is not the answer. A lot of trouble and you're not going to fool anybody. On a man it NEVER looks natural. Get over it. Look the best you can for your age.
Michael Pondo (2 months ago)
I m 73 yrs old. I m smokin hot or at least my bank acct is. I still like young chicks but my wife of 43 yrs says if i didnt have money she d be gone to.
Joe Bland (2 months ago)
A number of men past 40 approach you? Yeah, you kinda look gay, now that you mention it. So what are you doing after this video, sweet cheeks? By the way I'm past 40.
John Maggie (2 months ago)
Last but not least, quit sniffing heroin... it makes your eyes droopy.
Terry Zimmerman (2 months ago)
Odds of chances with women are 2 women to 1 male. It's a numbers game so you have better odds with women than going to a casino to place your bets. Here is truth reveled for free and proven to work without changing a single thing; ask 10 different women (any woman) if she would like to go on a date with you. After learning how to do that over and over you'll have more dates than you can afford. Online dating sites are junk. Be bold and step up and play like you're 20 points behind and two minutes left on the clock. She'll notice that you are VERY interested in her and that is the one thing that will be your winning edge. No tricks, no fakes, no gimmick, just you being yourself and she will know it is sincere. Buzzer!!! He shoots, he scores!!! What a comeback!!! The crowd goes wild!!! (Bonus points if you remember 3 things about her and always know them every time you see her will make her smile and that is worth the effort) Quote; a friend knows the words to the song in your heart and can sing them back to you when you have forgotten them. End quote online. Quote; a real friend walks in when the whole world walks out. End quote online.
Mike Oxgoode (2 months ago)
What the fuck . What's the topic ? Is it older men wanting to he attractive or Is for all ages . Your talking out of both sides of your mouth . This video 8s for men that ate retards . Dye my hair. Your an idiot
ס.ג. (2 months ago)
There is a hair dying product that I use called Touch of Gray that comes in different shades. It is excellent because it does not leave your hair as if you were in your twenties, which is awkward, but lets you keep some of that gray that comes with experience
Dan Nelson (2 months ago)
Most these men still have thick hair on their head,damn I have to wear a hat,I like a 'Fromberg Hat' when I GO OUT, Ladies do I look okay?
Nick S (2 months ago)
Do not dye your hair, it just looks sad.
Just buy a sexy sports car and you will have more women interested in you than you care to count.
Antony Hudson (2 months ago)
This idiot just wasted 8 mins of my life ..... brush your teeth guy! No way?? Dress nicely guys! No way?? Watch what you eat guys! No way?? Groom yourself guys! No way?? ..... but where he really annoyed me, go ahead guys dye your hair! NOTHING SCREAMS DESPERATE INSECURITY THAN DYING YOUR HAIR GUYS😂
Aarmon Lunggeen (3 months ago)
I.m 77 & single,I have all the points in his video .Plus. 180 cm tall .87 kgs Muscular body weight I swim 400 mts a week (backstroke only) i do full body workouts @ gym 3 x week, free weights..Bench 120 kg, Squat 150 kgs, Dips & chins 4x12 reps Shoulders get special attention always. Y ? women look @ men's shoulders, they love the width .I dance Salsa ,Tues ,Wed, Fri ,Sun 3+ hours @ a time.I have changed my hair style to very Short college boy & that has made a lot of difference ,The women I date Range from 36 y to 62. the 1s i dance with range from 18 > 60+ I get asked to dance & often & over for coffee as well .I just wish i could have put up some recent pics for you to see What i have achieved physically . If i can do this & succeed any guy can do it .(i m a widower) & i wont marry again. Top marks for your video
Hugh Reilly (3 months ago)
The first 5 are genius. If men did this during their marriage there wouldn’t be such an epidemic of women leaving their men.
Michael Kuntz (3 months ago)
Hi. Thank you very much for your advice. I'm 45 years old. Throughout my adult life most of it I have had numerous girlfriends. I'm kind of down because I'm a bald guy now and I was thinking should I just keep my head shaved or buy a hairpiece! I lost most of my hair. There are some women who have dated me because they said that I looked like a Bad Ass. However I don't want to look like that doesn't fit my personality. Hair piece or bald completely bald? Thank you very much.
Michael Kuntz (3 months ago)
I don't want to sound stupid but I'm just really down about this. It's messing up my confidence. Just interested to see what you would do. Thank you
Proud American Man (3 months ago)
And go study Pick Up / Seduction ... critical influence and persuasion skills that are critical to your new dating life
Proud American Man (3 months ago)
You lost me at Alec Baldwin ... that guy is a MAJOR DOUCHE ...
Heather Swift (3 months ago)
Just a little attention to these areas will VASTLY improve your attractiveness to all women. Men over 40 are still VERY attractive (however style and hygiene are important) and it's best, f possible, to ignore the negative talk that you've endured from nagging criticizing spouses-they want to keep you feeling insecure because they know that there are STILL plenty of women even 10 or 20 years younger who will like you.
Daniel Shephard (3 months ago)
Looks matter until you open your mouth and the real you leaks out. You gotta learn the secrets of the ages, Find Sorcerer's Secrets by don Jesus Ramirez at Amazon. com There are so many other important things, yep get back on the market, but be real, think before you speak.
Andy Roo (3 months ago)
Suits are no substitute for character, humour, or intelligence? An empty chocolate Box is all you look like if you don't have those.
TheLance3185 (3 months ago)
Exercise is the key. Fit is sexy.
Ron M (3 months ago)
Do you recommend dying your pubic hair?
Wolfsky9 (3 months ago)
Guys! ------NEVER ----EVER, DYE YOUR HAIR! -------And, if you're losing it. take out a loan---whatever you need to do, & get hair transplants. These days, it's done so there is no way to show that it's been done. Avoid big " factory" type places, & be very careful, but get it done.;-----and: take care of your GROOMING!! look in the mirror & take care of hair that shouldn't be there! -----------keep yourself healthy, & take care of your body weight. -------Eat right, & you'll feel better & be healthier. ----------------WolfSky9, 72 y/o
Jungleman savetheforest (3 months ago)
thanks bro just i think you look a bit too casual with a a tie shaved completely, need to loosen up a bit, especially for this part!!
Mark Duncan-Brown (3 months ago)
Thanks for this. Very informative.
Steve20127 (3 months ago)
Vanity, vanity, vanity.
David Kennedy (3 months ago)
To me this guys jet black shoe polish hair and his "professional" costume just make him look like a schmuck selling snake oil. How do you get 2000 suckers? Tell them what they want to hear.
Vincent Cieluch (3 months ago)
Who cares what you think! Loss the suit man.
Patrick S (4 months ago)
To be honest, after the age of 50 you probably don't give a [email protected]; it's a young man's game. And if you don't know how to make a woman happy sexually after the age of 50, I'd give up; become a priest or something.
Lloyd Dailey (4 months ago)
it takes money to do all the stuff he mentioned !
Lisa Lida (1 month ago)
Just do what you can afford, I look smashing, and I buy a lot of resale. I got my pearly whites done, that is really the best thing for your health, get teeth cared for. Scrimp elsewhere.
thatwilldonicely (2 months ago)
veneers cost a fortune in UK
Lloyd Dailey (4 months ago)
what about 70 and bald ? that's what I am !
Lloyd Dailey (4 months ago)
38 ? I wish I was 38 !
Steve20127 (3 months ago)
I don't.
Don Diego Vega (4 months ago)
I like your video. Good job.
Don Diego Vega (4 months ago)
The older men I’ve known who have younger women are rich. The women want the material possessions.
thatwilldonicely (2 months ago)
true gals late 20's early 30's possibly divorced. child or children are looking for a provider, ok they may occasionally have a one night stand, women 40's on wards if they are financially stable may be looking for a companion, of course money will help with those as well!
Don Diego Vega (4 months ago)
Alec Baldwin? A man? He is very obviously a man who doesn’t possess self control. He’s always battling alcoholism. The only reason why he has a job is because in Hollywood you get work if you are a total leftist and already have a bit of fame.m
acorn sucks (23 days ago)
He is the last person anyone would want to emulate.
Jeff (1 month ago)
Agree Don! Baldwin is a hot-headed bully, an oversized spoiled brat, a disgrace.
Thor Hamm (3 months ago)
Douche bag he is.
Zzyzx Zee (4 months ago)
Im 64 and have a 43 yo wife smokin hot...im not rich...
Zeek M (4 months ago)
They don't give two spits about you. They want you dead. You don't need to be attractive. You need an escape pod because she's the property of deep state and her lord Lucifer. They plan to kill you. They got it all worked out.
Floyd Truskot (4 months ago)
I got the right act from my dermatologist at a young age to stay out of the sun. Cover ever part of your skin as much as possible while out in the sun if you have to go out. I am getting near six zero and I have no spots on my skin what so ever. I never got my skin tanned while being out, never. Also eat protein. Does wonder to build your skin and keep it young looking. I also lived a clean life too, no drugs, no smoking, no alcohol and I can pass for forty eight year old too.
ProudKiwi NZ (4 months ago)
One thing you forgot ,look after your voice. YOU run your words together,there are no high and lows, you tend to shorten your vowels.your grammar is somewhat lacking, .plus you have a slight case of vocal fry. The best advice is to be well informed,develop the art of listening. . I have to say your hands are a trifle delicate, a bit Trumpish. As for colouring hair,thats the worst advice ever!! Its all about a good cut,a great barber or stylist
Francisco Delgado (4 months ago)
100% true! I got divorced at 38. I decided to get back into shape and start dressing better. 1 year later at 39 I’m now dating girls in their 20s.
Gee Speller (4 months ago)
Dying your hair won't do it All you have to do is have something going
K.V. Surdas (4 months ago)
The best tip is to get used to that singledom.. !!!! 😁😂😀😂😄😅😃😁
T A (4 months ago)
This guy has a self esteem problem.
FSO Leather (4 months ago)
I look very available. I'm an 8 in body and face. The stupid younger females now days are socially handicap and don't even show real indicators of interest, even though they look . It's not enough to approach them, unless they show indicators of interest. Almost all do not, even if you look great.
FSO Leather (4 months ago)
Why do you got that creepy rapist look in your eyes? Smile MOFO
lonestargun (4 months ago)
Def looking to upgrade my style & wardrobe.
SEMPER FIDELIS (4 months ago)
Some men dye their hair and it looks Rediculous. You can tell right away,I truly believe that doesn't look nice at all, no offense....I rather age graciously, than look ridiculous.
nedar giordano (4 months ago)
Nationality and culture play a big role as well.
Leonard Wong (4 months ago)
I'll only dress if I need to..... most of the time, I'm not trying to attract anyone, in fact, I'm trying to repulse the crazies in my place so I deliberately dress down. Don't let my appearance fool you, though..... I'm supremely confident. heh... Stay away from rice.... it's horrible.
Linda Lowther (4 months ago)
I have been reading the comments and seeing men talk about skin care is funny ... it is as if you are stuck in the 80s. Women are WAY ahead so ask them how to look younger. Moisturizer wont help in your 50s! If you really want to look younger, you will need fillers, facial fat grafting, laser treatments, etc. And DO NOT overtreat or you will look ridiculous. Its complicated for men though....if the girl finds out you are doing this, you might be seen as un-masculine/insecure. If I was in my 20s and found my older bf here talking about skin serums, it would be a big turn off. I am tempted to tell you to do nothing...men age a lot better as it is
bamkablam (4 months ago)
Men with dyed hair look like phonies. it’s also ridiculous for any man over 40 to drive a car that is too sporty. It makes them look insecure.
smart water (4 days ago)
you just jealous you can't afford sporty card
Jeff Okriya (1 month ago)
sport cars are not just for conquering women . . its the pleasure of driving as well.
no debt (2 months ago)
Why? He worked hard to get his sporty car.
Steve20127 (3 months ago)
Yes; nothing worse than an older, balding man with a pony tail, driving a little, sporty car. Very sad.
Double Dawg (4 months ago)
Guys: do away with the khakis especially pleated khakis. It’s a terrible look no matter who you are. In a professional environment wear either dress pants or a nice pair of jeans. Also, wear clothes that fit you and error on the side of tightness rather looseness.
David Kennedy (4 months ago)
Men who dye their hair just look foolish, you are not fooling anyone. Ask a WOMAN, it screams you are insecure about your age. It is just like a combover.
Alex Eisenberg (5 months ago)
you cool man
vener nacs (5 months ago)
Show your money,simple

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