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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
 
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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ [Music by Exurb1a]: https://goo.gl/TjP4YN [Animation by Zeino]: https://goo.gl/344LHV We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to. That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation 0:20 Play Reminds Me of 0:54 Ask open-ended questions 1:40 Use revival questions 2:37 Make a complimentary cold read 3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 2376560 Charisma on Command
9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma
 
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9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nVneJx You may be doing some pretty little things that can have a big negative effect on what people think about you so in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. Here we go. First — not proactively introducing yourself. Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile, they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly — this is uncomfortable for everyone involved. So the next time that you find yourself entering or being pulled into a small group, make sure to make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone there with the handshake. 0:14 Not proactively introducing yourself 0:46 Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group 0:55 Talking about things no one cares about 1:16 Not soliciting feedback will not help self improvement 1:41 Trailing off or mumbling may not show self confidence 2:03 Answering questions with single words 2:31 Whining will not help with personal development 2:42 Not remembering names won't help with your social skills 3:08 Lack of principles won't help with your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert MUSIC: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI
Views: 1933975 Charisma on Command
How To Stop Caring What People Think
 
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How To Stop Caring What People Think Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nNVCa0 Have you ever lied about an odd hobby you have? Or maybe your job status? Or your height? Or even just avoided putting yourself in a situation in which you knew you were likely to fail? Why did you do that? Short answer: because you were embarrassed. Embarrassment comes from trying to control how other people perceive you. So instead of just showing the world your nerdy hobby, say you collect Beanie Babies, you go “I don’t want people to think I’m a dweeb.” and you pretend you don’t have one. The same process plays out with hobbies as it does with mistakes we’ve made, areas in which we are weak, and areas where we might get publicly rejected. We hide what we don’t want people to know about us. We conform to what other people would like us to be. But that doesn’t have to be the answer: Because there is another, more empowering mindset: Instead of focusing on other’s perceptions and feeling embarrassed about what they may think… Focus on whether or not you live up to YOUR OWN values. That's what this video is about and that's how you'll learn to stop caring what people think about you. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan
Views: 972172 Charisma on Command
3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF
 
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3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BfF4iS Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos. So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable. In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity. Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice. That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity. Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily 0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet 4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert 6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy Everything is awesome (The LEGO Movie): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTqXEQ2l-Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 715187 Charisma on Command
How To NEVER Be Boring
 
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How To Never Be Boring Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Nobody wants to be boring. But unfortunately no one teaches us how not to. Which is why in this video we are going to cover 5 things that you can do to avoid boring everyone around you and instead attract people to you you like a magnet while enjoying your life much more. Animation by Zeino: YouTube.com/Zeino Music: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI Music: https://youtu.be/3W89LQqk06w 0:14 Improve your energy which will always help personal development and relationships 0:59 Make backup list of topics as second tip on how to never be boring 1:57 Learning to tell a good story as a self help in social will aid in self improvement too 3:35 Spend part of your every day pursuing a dream on the philosophy side Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 548389 Charisma on Command
How To Be Popular Without Trying
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FqI2AM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Also as promised, here is our breakdown on why Chris Pratt is so awesome: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_SmshF2ynw And here is our recent video “How To Create An Attractive Voice”: https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50 If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok. I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”. But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth. A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw". It's really hard not to like him! There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him. Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is. And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts! The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man. And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok). Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised. So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special. 2:33 How To Make Jokes That Elevate The People Around You (and make them love you for it) 4:16 How To Be Funny By Teasing And How To Be Genuine 5:30 How To Touch In A Way People Like And How To Touch Without Being Creepy 10:11 How To Share Embarrassing Stories In A Way That Conveys Confidence And Makes People Respect You 11:41 Sharing Praise And Being Everyone’s Favorite Team Member 13:25 How To Make A Compliment Feel Genuine And Not Fake (i.e., How To Compliment Without Being A Suckup) Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1309293 Charisma on Command
The Introvert's Guide To Networking
 
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The Introvert's Guide To Networking Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FZ27h5 Last week I went to a conference called ClamourCon I saw something that really surprised me. In fact it wasn’t a something, but a someone. This person, a self professed introvert, was one of the best networked people I know, with connections from Holly wood to the venture capital world, to personal development world. Once I found this out about him, I began to ask him how that all came about and that’s what I want to share with you today. His name by the way is Evan Carmichael, he’s a YouTuber who makes inspiring content for entrepreneurs. I’ll put a link to his channel in the description. So here’s what I saw from him. First off, redefine what constitutes a networking event. Most things with “networking” in the title are a complete waste of time. It attracts people who are looking to develop a network instead of a relationship. And it’s especially bad if you’re an introvert, since you’ll be competing with a bunch of other people hungry to share their story and what they are working on. Evan's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/ModelingTheMasters 0:50 Redefine your networking philosophy as per Evan Carmichael 2:15 Be open to people and have confidence and believe in yourself 3:28 Know what people want which is easier for an introvert 5.07 Play matchmaker and help others in their self improvement Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 263907 Charisma on Command
Why Loki Is The Best Villain
 
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As requested! A breakdown analyzing Loki's charm and appeal :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The Marvel Cinematic Universe is pretty much the only thing guaranteed to get me to the movie theater on opening night. I am literally counting down to Thor: Ragnarok! But even though the Marvel movies are amazing, there is popular criticism that their villains are kind of weak. And yet, from Thor to Avengers to Thor The Dark World, Loki is the one villain that everybody seems to adore and root for. While most Marvel villains get killed off or captured after just one film, Loki has now played a major role in 4 films. Loki won MTV's sexiest Avenger. There’s even been petitions for Tom Hiddleston to star in a Loki standalone movie. I believe there are four major reasons why Loki has literally gotten away with murder and become one of the biggest fan favorites in the Marvel universe. And understanding these four things will help so you too can get away with making mistakes or screwing up, without it being something people hold against you. 0:55 Loki is the best villain as he is charming 3:38 We understand and relate to Loki 7:32 He is a tortured soul as shown in these Loki best scenes 9:50 You can't keep Loki down being the brother of Thor Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 528315 Charisma on Command
Conan O'Brien: How To Be Witty
 
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Conan O'Brien: How To Be Witty Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BNrmF6 Comedy Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07dqsgcxRNQITnahKaSFgp96 Conan O'Brien has an extremely fast sense of humor and wit. When we watch him interact on Conan on TBS or the Team Coco channel, he can seem impossibly conversationally clever, which is why he has had no problem entertaining millions of people for nearly 20 years in interviews and now his Clueless Gamer series. But the truth is that there are principles behind the kind of sharp wit that Conan uses so often. And while his years of comedy training have made him a master, simply understanding the principles and using them in your own life can make people find you much much funnier. So let’s take a look at those principles. 0:48 Out of context analysis with Clueless Gamer as one example 3:39 Be specific like how Conan teases Kevin Hart as one example 4:36 See the doubling down here by Conan O'Brien and on TBS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1161519 Charisma on Command
6 Phrases That Instantly Persuade People
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2xFhSaZ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Persuasion. When someone is persuaded, it's amazing how positive things turn out. Some psychology on how to persuade someone, empathy, and your personal development off of it will be talked about. You probably like to think of yourself as a rational human being like when you have a decision to make, you take all the information you make a pros and cons list and you add that up to make the best decision possible. But you're a human being and the truth of human beings is we are far more irrational than we'd like to admit. Oftentimes, our decisions come down to the smallest irrational things and oftentimes, that can be just a few words which is why in this video, I want to give you 6 phrases that you can use to turn the tide in your favor when you're trying to persuade someone to do something that you might like. Now, this is not going to be a substitute for really developing a true persuasive strategy, it's not a substitute for empathy but start adding these phrases into your vocabulary and I think you will be shocked with how quickly and how effective they are. So, the first one is when you're coming up against a gatekeeper and the phrase is simply going to be — "Have you ever made an exception?" Now, I used to use this all the time when I would try to get into bars and clubs after it was technically at capacity and it worked pretty well. 0:44 First persuasion phrase is to let them think it won't be a big deal 1:38 A person will more likely be persuaded if you bring empathy to the table 2:58 Make them see you in a positive light and work on your psychology prowess 4:19 Call them by their name 5:14 Another persuasion tactic is the use of the Yes Ladder 6:45 Use the power of "because" More on persuasion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMliNd2b2K0 Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 977250 Charisma on Command
How To Text A Girl
 
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How To Text A Girl Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Ec5fcK Have you ever met a girl, hit it off, exchanged numbers, texted her to set up plans and then NEVER seen her again.  Yeah, probably more than once.  And that’s because there are about a dozen other men trying to get her attention at the same time and your texts just don’t stand out.  Even if you hit it off in person, you’re sunk in this day and age if you can’t make her like you over text. So I want to give you 5 things you can do that will separate you from the pack, make her more attracted to you, and get you meeting her in person. 0:32 Save yourself in her phone as something fun 1:00 Send yourself a text as her after you have saved your name 1:35 Do not make things all logistical 2:20 Use callback humor 2:50 Get her excited about the plans you will make Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 681174 Charisma on Command
4 Easy Ways To Make Small Talk With Anyone
 
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Click here to enter your name for free coaching here: https://gleam.io/competitions/5tsJp-charisma-on-command-1-hour-coaching-session-giveaway This video will give you 4 go-to techniques for making small talk with anyone :-) https://goo.gl/KEbUrj Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Dj4QSe What’s the goal of small talk? Think of small talk as a way to A.) learn about each other or learn what’s new with each other, B.) see if you connect on anything and want to form or strengthen a relationship, and C.) enjoy yourself. This video will show you how to do that without asking a bunch of questions and making it feel like an interview, and avoid forced conversation or awkward silences. 0:56 What's the point of small talk? 1:37 How to combine a compliment & a cold read to replace a boring question with interesting, fun conversation 2:59 The kinds of questions that lead to excited conversation that flows naturally vs. the questions that lead to awkward silences 4:36 My favorite conversation game that is easy to work into conversation without it seeing weird, and makes small talk enjoyable for both people 5:44 How to guide the conversation towards things you're interested in, by eliciting their advice/opinion Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 864364 Charisma on Command
3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone
 
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3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qTSVYG Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones. And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world. Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things. We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don't live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone. She has a number of incredibly effective strategies. 00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows 06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize 07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of Thrones Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 889288 Charisma on Command
How Tony Robbins Outsmarts Depression
 
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How Tony Robbins Outsmarts Depression Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EapCaf Tony Robbins is probably the most gifted communicator I have ever seen. One of his most amazing feats is that in his live seminars, he is able to take people from feeling depressed to empowered in just one conversation. So in this video, we’re going to talk about just one of the techniques that Tony Robbins uses to accomplish this. It’s called a state break and that is anything that you do to shift someone from one emotion to another. It sounds simple, but if you can master this skill, your ability to help other people, to persuade, and to live a more fulfilled life goes through the roof. 0:50 Anthony Robbins gives the opposite of what they expect 3:20 Tony Robbins resorts to humor like in I Am Not Your Guru 7:35 Calls for body motion for self help and personal development Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert personal development
Views: 655981 Charisma on Command
How Littlefinger Controls The Game of Thrones
 
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How Littlefinger Controls The Game of Thrones https://goo.gl/uNmVQH Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FGX6uj Littlefinger Is probably the single best player in the Game of Thrones. He’s indirectly led to the downfall of at least 3 major houses and has advanced his station at every opportunity. In this video we’re going to do an analysis on what it is that he does that makes him win and how deviating from his strategy may lead him to the end of his winning streak. 2 caveats. First spoilers through season 6 and some speculation into season 7. And two, don’t do the things little finger does. It’s fun to analyze Littlefinger manipulations and learn how you can avoid them in your own life - Sansa Stark would benefit for certain - just don’t be a liar and backstabber. It’s not cool. Let’s begin - Game of Thrones is all about power. Some people, like Cersei, use their position to command others. Or people like the Mountain who literally just dominate through brute force. But in the long run, it’s those who wield power more subtly who excel at the game. And perhaps no one is more subtle the Petyr Baelish. He is the ultimate power player in the game because he gets other people to do what he wants, without them even knowing he’s influenced them 01:10 Littlefinger got the power subtly and not by force in Game of Thrones 07:53 Cersei Lannister is opposite of Petyr Baelish in terms of subtlety 08:14 Petyr Baelish in HBO Game of Thrones lets other think they control him 09:46 Marriage scene with Peter Dinklage as Tyrion Lannister 13:15 Littlefinger talks to Sophie Turner as Sansa Stark Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1255130 Charisma on Command
How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover
 
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James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EdT6Qs Push Pull In Flirting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k Self Deprecating Humor: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07cE9uFJ-SqUHQvmuNbhdRmz James Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show. And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video. 01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct 02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing 02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke 06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out 07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did here Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 914364 Charisma on Command
Rick and Morty: Why Everyone Loves Rick Sanchez!
 
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Rick and Morty: why everyone loves Rick Sanchez. For more Rick and Morty videos, subscribe here: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today let’s talk about Rick & Morty! Rick and Morty is one of the smartest, funniest, most entertaining shows in recent memory. One super interesting aspect of Rick and Morty is that its title character, Rick Sanchez, is beloved by fans despite being an apathetic horribly flawed criminal. In fact, the majority of Rick and Morty viewers root for Rick more than any other character. Today we’re going to go over why exactly that is, using some of my favorite Rick and Morty clips, and also a few things you can apply to your own life to be as magnetic and well respected as Rick, without all the terrible traits mixed in :-) 0:58 A quick rundown of flaws of Rick Sanchez of Rick and Morty 1:50 People admire excellence as also mentioned on Emergency Awesome 2:20 Humor affects the impact of what is said on Rick and Morty Adult Swim 3:00 The power of speaking unpopular opinions out loud 4:30 The dark side of human emotion which is also shown on Rick and Morty season 3 6:13 The film theorists even agrees wisecrack Rick taking risks to protect Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 580256 Charisma on Command
James Bond: 5 Charisma Tips From The “Perfect Man"
 
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James Bond: 5 Charisma Tips From The “Perfect Man" Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2DlS8lU I was rematching James Bond: Casino Royale and this scene really struck me.... I realized that in many ways Vesper is speaking for the audience because James Bond represents our cultures masculine ideal. Whatever he is, is what so many young men are kinda wishing they could become. So in this video I want to investigate who exactly that aspirational man is. Because there is definitely something to be learned, some positive traits we can add to our lives. But there’s also some ideas of “masculinity” that we’d probably be better off discarding. So let's break down Bond in Casino Royale. 0:41 Eva Green as Vesper loves Bond as he is insanely capable 2:43 James Bond or 007 is mostly unreactive and emits confidence 4:40 Daniel Craig as James Bond is loved by women and flirting 6:56 He's willing to die for his ideals as in Casino Royale or in Skyfall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1068611 Charisma on Command
How Tywin Lannister Commands Respect
 
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Thanks to our sponsor Blue Apron the first 100 people to sign up will get three meals off their Blue Apron order free! Click here: http://cook.ba/2upczfv Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Thanks to Blue Apron for sponsoring this video Tywin theories I mentioned (watch the whole 5 part series on 2x speed, it's worth it): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdxWJxwOx-k How Tywin Lannister Commands Respect in Game of Thrones Tywin Lannister is a beast. He effectively served as king for many years under Aerys and wielded massive influence over Robert and Joffrey. He would have continued to be the power behind the thrones had he not been so horrible to Tyrion - more on that later - but that’s not the point. In this video I want to explore why Tywin was able to command so much respect, breaking down everything from his body language to his strategy. 00:28 Game of Thrones of HBO shows this Tywin Lannister epic king outlook 04:40 One of the analyses of GOT Tywin Lannister dominance 10:20 Towering Tywin Lannister over Cersei and Tyrion Lannister Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1809703 Charisma on Command
Why Daenerys Loves Jon Snow
 
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Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma Why Daenerys Loves Jon Snow Why does Daenerys Targaryen fall for Jon Snow? I mean he’s a powerful handsome guy, but Daenerys has had plenty of offers from powerful handsome men, like Jorah and Daario, and none truly interested her. Something is different about Jon Snow though. The show gives us some clues that actually can teach you a lot about attraction and love in the real world, which is why I wanted to explore exactly what it was that created that spark of love - because you also you might learn something for your own life. 3:00 Jon Snow by Kit Harrington showed confidence to Khaleesi by Emilia Clarke 6:30 Jon Snow of House Stark can be honest to Daenerys Targaryen 9:30 Winter is here and in Game of Thrones GOT everyone can count on Jon Snow Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 2272196 Charisma on Command
5 Common Phrases That Kill Your Charisma
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2APRHgD 5 Common Phrases That Kill Your Charisma How To Win Any Argument: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smhta1x_OfA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Welcome to another Charisma on Command video where we talk about phrases that kill your charisma. In the past, I've spoken a lot about phrases that you're gonna want to add to your vocabulary in order to become more charismatic and persuasive. But the truth is far more common are phrases that you currently have in your vocabulary that are killing your charisma, that are making you far less persuasive, and that are getting people to fight with you. So in last video, I discussed some of the things you definitely want to say in order to persuade people, but far more common are the things you definitely DON’T want to say. So in this video I want to share 5 things I hear all the time that make people much less likable and less likely to be able to persuade anyone. 0:25 Charisma tip one is to tweak, "No problem" 1:33 Charisma tip number two is to not say, "You messed up" 3:19 Charisma tip three is the Preemptive disqualification 4:36 Don't say, "You always/never" followed with a negative comment 6:15 Being specific can also help with charisma and show confidence Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 1146426 Charisma on Command
4 Steps To Escape The "Friend Zone"
 
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4 Steps To Escape The "Friend Zone" Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression (join our email list with this link): http://bit.ly/2ExoklE The dreaded friend zone. Like it or not, it's a common experience amongst many people and escaping the friend zone can be a confusing prospect. That's why in this video I want to show you 4 steps to get out of the friend zone and maybe wind up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend 1:11 Take responsibility so as not to be in the friend zone 2:00 Focus on bettering yourself 3:23 Steady your nerves and work on that charisma 8:00 Reveal your feelings and see how to escape the friend zone Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 568862 Charisma on Command
How Louis CK Makes Everything Funny
 
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How Louis CK Makes Everything Funny Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BOd1In The humor breakdown I mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjRgT8QQ3c Louis CK is one of the most respected comedians in the world. And part of it is because he seems so effortlessly funny. There’s no big action like Jim Carrey or Robin Williams, no elaborately clever set ups, just simple truths that make audiences crack up But it’s not that simple. Because while the truth makes for good art, it isn’t always funny. Louis CK has devised a way of delivering his stories and jokes in packages that are different from what most of us do. And because of that he’s able to create hilarious moments from everyday commentary. Today we’re going to explore 3 of Louis techniques that will make you make just about anything funnier 1:00 Louis CK times it where this Stephen Colbert clip shows 4:24 Louis CK repeats the punchline like in this Jimmy Fallon clip 7:27 Louis CK acts his jokes out like in The Tonight Show and more Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 671019 Charisma on Command
4 Steps To Make People Instantly Like You
 
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Thanks to our sponsor Dollar Shave Club! http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/charisma New members get their 1st month of the ‘Sh*t, Shower, Shave’ Starter Set including the Executive Razor and trial-sized versions of their Shave Butter, Body Cleanser and One Wipe Charlies’ Buttock Wipes for ONLY $5 (and free shipping). After that razors are just a few bucks a month. Exclusively at: http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/charisma Graham Norton has what many people would consider their ideal charisma - for two reasons. One, Graham Norton doesn’t need to hog the spotlight in order to shine. And two, Graham Norton seems to have the ability to make ANYONE like him. From rockstars to movie stars to professional athletes, people from all walks of life seem to love being around him. So today we’re going to talk about a 4 step formula that Graham Norton uses to make people love him even while he teases them, and how you can use it to make yourself both funnier and more well liked. 0:34 Graham Norton creates a warm and positive connection 1:26 Graham Norton compliments especially on Graham Norton Show 2:55 How to be funnier and how to make people like you 5:33 How to use banter and teasing to get everyone on the same level 9:00 Graham Norton does the art of self deprecation Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 588792 Charisma on Command
The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s Charisma
 
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The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s Charisma Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Here, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood. When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.” As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside. And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force. And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic. 0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon 2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities 2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview 3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well 4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talking Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 967700 Charisma on Command
The Nice Guy Paradox
 
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The Nice Guy Paradox: How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships And How To Get More Of What You Want In Life. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The "Nice Guy" gets harpooned in today's society. We're told that nice guys finish last, that nice guys can't get the girl. And this is true of nice women as well. I completely disagree. I think that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence or people skills. A "nice guy" can be an incredibly charismatic, strong leading, attractive person. Now that being said, there IS a habit that I see from "nice" people that is sabotaging your relationships. And there's a better way of doing things that can help you get more of what you want while conveying extreme levels of confidence and will make people respect you more. * I'm appreciative to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and to Landmark Forum. Both contributed to my learning this about myself and starting to observe it in others * 1:12 Build confidence and stop scorekeeping as Dr. Robert Glover say 2:08 As Dr. Robert Glover said about the nice guy syndrome where guilt is instilled 3:58 Nice guys finish last because of the reply no and present being a nice guy 4:42 Not necessarily how to stop being nice or how to ask for love but a tip for common case Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 216164 Charisma on Command
3 Reasons The Jedi Mindset Sucks
 
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3 Reasons The Jedi Mindset Sucks https://goo.gl/YTJrQY Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Link to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/interested-emotional-mastery/ Video on overcoming social anxiety: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yRVP9PHnEE Star Wars is often referred to as a classic good vs evil story. And it’s easy to see why when you have “bad Sith characters." Opposing the Sith are the Jedi who seem like the obvious good guys. But if you dig into their belief system, there are serious problems in the mindsets they promote. In fact, you could say that it is THEIR teachings that ultimately lead to people like Anakin Skywalker breaking and turning totally evil. That’;s why in this video I want to break down the biggest flaw in their teachings. Because you may have unthinkingly adopted these “good guy” teachings that can actually wind up destroying your life. 0:40 Jedi Order expects emotional neutrality from their disciples 1:31 Jedi presents negative emotions as permanent emotions 2:45 Jedi principle is to not feel Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 92454 Charisma on Command
3 Easy Ways to Start A Conversation With Anyone
 
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3 Easy Ways to Start A Conversation With Anyone Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eytv4T How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation: https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=QXiAPiw7vfc One of the most common questions I get is how do I start a conversation in this situation or that situation. And so what I thought would be helpful is to give you 3 simple ways to start a conversation (aka conversation starters) that you can use anywhere. You don't need to be a genius, they’re super versatile and I use them pretty much every day. 0:44 Being a human Google is one of the conversation starters and openers 3:27 Being a human Twitter to develop how to start a conversation Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1051274 Charisma on Command
6 Ways To Massively Increase Productivity
 
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Thanks to our sponsor Blue Apron the first 100 people to sign up will get three meals off their Blue Apron order free! Click here: http://cook.ba/2upczfv Everyone in the world is given the same amount of time. Yet some people are able to run multiple startups simultaneously, some people are able to learn amazing skills, and some people don’t seem to be doing much besides treading water. What's the difference between these people? PRODUCTIVITY. So in this video, Ben goes through 6 ways to massively increase your productivity so that you can get twice as much done every day. Or get the same stuff done in half the time, so that you have more time to do what you love doing :-) The goal of productivity is not to get as much random stuff done as possible. These productivity tips are geared towards completing your highest leverage, highest impact tasks. 0:54 Killing Bob and getting things done to avoid procrastination 2:11 Make work an escape room and improve productivity 3:17 Say no to time vampires as one of productivity hacks 5:25 Avoid brain-draining activities to help with productivity 6:06 Wake up your body to wake up your mind 6:50 Time arbitrage is another of many productivity hacks Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 108907 Charisma on Command
How To Stop People From Talking Over You
 
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Have you ever been out with a group of people, you start to say something or tell a story, and then somebody cuts you off? It can sap your confidence and leave you in your own head unsure how to get back into the conversation... So today we're going to cover how to captivate a group without getting interrupted! With 6 strategies you can use to engage a group of people so that instead of cutting you off, they're hanging on what you have to say. These strategies touch on both WHAT you say and HOW you say it. 0:45 Put pregnant pauses mid-sentence NOT at the end 1:17 Express excitement with your voice to activate listener mirror neurons 1:48 Be loud enough with your voice and your body so as not to get interrupted 2:13 Speak like you deserve to be heard which is also good in group dynamics 3:06 Tell tight stories to captivate and develop those social skills 3:47 Make yourself enjoyable to listen to 4:28 Wrap complaints in story arcs 4:50 Relate back to the listener Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 375140 Charisma on Command
3 Posture Killing Habits (And How To Fix Them)
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qTzFub Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Posture is probably the easiest and healthiest way to improve your appearance. Your posture impacts your thin slice, determining how attractive you appear and how confident you appear. Posture also has a major impact on airflow and blood flow, meaning it has a MAJOR impact on performance. Posture impacts how well you speak, how athletic you can be, even bedroom performance. And lastly, posture has a fairly meaningful impact on your health, ESPECIALLY as you get older. Your posture today is dramatically going to impact if you’re the kind of person that’s living a full life when you’re older. If you don’t fix the minor issues you have today, they will compound over time. I’m going to go piece by piece through the most common postural issues, the common causes and how to minimize that negative impact, and then how to proactively fix your posture so it’s perfect. 0:50 Fix posture for the forward head and present a better posture and avoid neck pain 2:48 You won't show a more confident body language with this so do improve posture 6:17 How to have a better posture if not a perfect posture is to do these posture exercises Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 318043 Charisma on Command
4 Surprising Things That Sabotage Friendships
 
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4 Surprising Things That Sabotage Friendships Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EQVPAG Friendships are some of the most important things in life. Yet sometimes it can seem difficult to start friendships - other times friendships you have simply dissolve. And that may be because you are doing something to sabotage them. Either having an idea of how to make friends or keep a friendship and relationships, you will surely realize something new in this video that maybe you haven't. 00:42 Lack of integrity in a friendship or relationship 03:43 Manipulating your friend with guilt 06:57 Being inconsiderate of your friend 08:40 Your values have diverged from your friend's Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 370500 Charisma on Command
3 Principles To Master Storytelling
 
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Click here to donate to Charlie & Ben's birthday fundraiser: http://bit.ly/2yDrPnv Click here to donate your own birthday: http://bit.ly/2x9sAU1 Thank you guys so much! This decade is going to be the best yet :-) The ability to tell a story can literally transform your life. It can land you a job in a crowded applicant pool, make you stand out on a first date, or be the difference between your business succeeding or failing. Today I have a very special breakdown on storytelling. Not just because storytelling is so important to charisma and life, but because I am actually in this breakdown as the interviewer. And the person I’m interviewing is without exaggeration one of the people I most admire on the planet. His name is Scott Harrison and as the founder of charity:water he has helped raise over 100 million dollars by telling stories for a good cause. So in this video you’re going to learn the 3 high level principles that will help you to tell more engaging stories in any environment. And I should warn you, these stories are heavy and contain really sad, but important messages, which is necessary when you’re talking about the truth of why charity water exists. I’m also going to let the clips run longer so you can hear a bigger part of the story uninterrupted and comment later. 2:30 Take the listener to the same emotional journey you had when storytelling 4:18 Have a mystery to keep listener engaged like Charity Water story 5:47 Have a lesson at the end for personal development as the Scott Harrison interview Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 331316 Charisma on Command
The Most Powerful Psychological Force
 
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Join Emotional Mastery with the launch discount here: https://emotionalmaster.samcart.com/products/emotional-mastery-1/ Video on motivation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz0dNt6GpRQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The Most Powerful Psychological Force In Game Of Thrones What would be the most powerful psychological force in Game of Thrones? In this video I want to talk about why his identity as Stark or Greyjoy is so psychologically important for Theon. We’ll discuss how a sense of identity helps Theon recover from his devastation at the hands of Ramsay after he becomes Reek and how we can all think about our own identities so that they serve us in the best and worst times in our lives. First off, in the context of Game of Thrones being a Stark and being a Greyjoy mean two very different things. Starks are honor bound to a fault, morose, and completely without guile. Greyjoys are pillagers who take advantage of the weak, enjoy the hedonistic pleasures in life, and are constantly looking to improve their position. Theons choice to identify as a Greyjoy over a stark changes the entire course of the story. 6:43 Names matter as shown before Game of Thrones season 8 8:32 Environment and peers affect Theon in HBO Game of Thrones 9:36 Habitual environment trumps labels like with Reek Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 316335 Charisma on Command
5 Steps To Win Any Argument
 
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5 Steps To Win Any Argument Join our online training course Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ In this video I’m going to tell you how to win any argument. And I have years of training as a logician as a philosopher here, I can mangle people in debates and we are not going to use ANY of that here. I wasted so much time and damaged relationships with the "right” logical correct argument that SHOULD win. And I can make a video on that if you want, but the truth it would be next to useless when it comes to getting what you truly want. Because we are dealing with people. And throwing the right facts at people without catering to the psychology required to open them up, is destructive to your relationship and to getting what you want. Plus it destroys your ability to be compassionate and truly see things from someone else’s point of view. 0:54 How to win any argument is to edefine what winning means 1:54 How to win any argument is to know what they want 2:47 Empathizing via statements can help build social skills and mindsets 4:01 Aim for self improvement and recognize their positive intent 5:21 Build your confidence and make your case Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 350489 Charisma on Command
HOW TO MAKE ANYONE LIKE YOU IN 6 SECONDS
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2mpoTr6 Liza Koshy has quickly become one of YouTube’s fastest growing stars, hitting 10 million subscribers within two years of starting! Liza Koshy started on Vine as Lizzza, where she cut her teeth making videos that had to be 6 seconds or less. Because of this, Liza Koshy is very very good at quickly getting people to like her, relate to her, and laugh with her. So today we’re going to talk about 3 things that Liza Koshy does consistently that make people love her and how you can incorporate them into your own life. I picked these three things specifically because they are easy to do, they get great reactions quickly, and if you use all three you will be the type of person that people gravitate towards and want to be around. 1:17 Lizza Koshy purposely misinterprets things to create humor 3:20 How to use comedy to cheer up your friends and avoid social anxiety 3:53 Liza Koshy jokes with confidence like with Liza David cute moments 5:34 Lizzza does honest comedy so see how to be funnier with her sketch 7:08 David Dobrik and Lizakoshy can also show how to make friends Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 807188 Charisma on Command
How To Stop Negative Self Talk
 
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BEST FRIEND BRAIN Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EaYfJo So this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on. In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week. I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself” And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself. I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself. I'll be trying the same thing :-) 2:49 Feel isolated mentally 3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented 5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love 6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 150324 Charisma on Command
Why Self-Esteem Is Overrated
 
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Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Join our email list to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course (we'll be launching it next week): http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD It’s obvious that confidence and self-esteem are the defining traits of happiness and success. And for a long time I thought that high self esteem was the end all be all. If you had that - you were set, but I actually think there is another internal mindset that’s even more important. That concept is self love - unconditional self love - and that's what I want to share in this video. 0:00 Self Esteem and self love and self improvement and personal development and more! Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 152788 Charisma on Command
How The Rock Went From Flop To Superstar
 
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How The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) Transformed His Charisma https://goo.gl/uMxcFZ Plus Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2CQkPWS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Jumanji 2 is coming out and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson is everywhere. I’m always amazed by how charismatic he is. Fans literally burst into tears when they see him. I started watching videos of him and discovered something that I thought was really, really interesting. The Rock has not always carried himself the way he does today! In his earliest interviews, The Rock is soft spoken, a little monotone, and rarely flashes his trademark smile. To me that makes how charismatic he is now even more amazing! After digging into it a bit I learned that even Dwayne Johnson's first stint in the WWF was a flop. He was promoted as a good guy that fans were supposed to get behind, but he did not make a good first impression and the crowd booed him relentlessly. And Dwayne Johnson has said he attributes it completely to how he played the character. This is awesome because it means that Dwayne Johnson made a conscious decision to present himself differently, and it led to him becoming insanely popular and beloved by fans. And by looking at clips across time, we can actually break it down and see some of the secret sauce that has gone into his charisma and how to make a good first impression. 1:55 3 ways to build anticipation to captivate listeners 4:43 How to make a good first impression by answering basic questions in an interesting way (most people don't do this) 8:15 How to tell stories that impact people and have them hanging on your words 13:36 How to be a loveable leader Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 201377 Charisma on Command
Facts Beat Feelings
 
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Facts Beat Feelings - The Trump Prediction Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BOeluP So in the in February 2016, 9 months before the election I started making videos about Donald Trumps impressive powers of persuasion and in May, I made this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LibRNYJmZ-I The video talks about the specific things I saw and I recommend watching all of those, I’ll link to them for the specific things I wound up seeing, but I want to talk about the higher level thinking which led me there. And it’s one of the lessons that I got in 2016. Facts Come Before Beliefs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 326668 Charisma on Command
How To Master Your Mind
 
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How To Master Your Mind If you want updates on the Belief System course I mention, leave your email here (didn't have time to make a separate sign up page, but I'll make sure you get the survey!): https://goo.gl/AiIEjJ If you’re like me, your mind has sabotaged you in the past. You want to feel confident, but it makes you shake You want to eat healthy, but junk food wins Today I’m going to give you some high level strategy for dealing with all those things and more. Let’s start with the operating principles What makes one person walk into a room confident, head held high excited to meet people on the top of their game and another slink in? What makes one person work on their business like crazy When you think about what people are willing to do for religion, give their lives, hurt other people, help other people, it should become clear that your beliefs drive action. The problem is most of us do not know how to choose what we believe. It might sound crazy, but imagine if you could simply choose to believe that everyone was excited to talk to you. Or you could choose to believe that putting long hours into building a business was fun. Or that eating junk food was worse than being hungry. Imagine how easy it’d be to achieve your goals if you could just pick the beliefs that supported them. Well, that’s where I’m going, so I want to introduce you to the principle that drives what we believe. 3:58 Recognizing the positive intent for the self confidence 5:00 Associate a painful consequence if you do not change 7:59 Determine the pleasure you get when you change Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 199908 Charisma on Command
Philip DeFranco: How To Make People Trust You
 
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Philip DeFranco: How To Make People Trust You Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eu4uLB Philip DeFranco is probably the most trusted newsperson on YouTube. And in an era where mainstream news is suspect and allegations of fake news fly even from the President’s mouth, that might make Philip DeFranco the most trust newsperson in America. In this video I want to talk about what you can learn from Philly D in terms of generating that kind of trust and respect, even when you’re talking about really controversial topics. And let me warn you, this isn’t always going to be easy As Phil says, let’s just jump into it. 0:31 Philip DeFranco delineates between facts and his opinions 1:25 No hiding of biased opinions in Philip DeFranco Show 4:52 Philly D knows his principles and in DeFranco Elite Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
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6 Small Things That Dramatically Boost Your Charisma
 
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I collaborated with Paramount Pictures and Downsizing to bring you this video: Downsizing URL: http://tickets.downsizingmovie.com/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe 6 Small Things That Dramatically Boost Your Charisma https://goo.gl/aKRQgB Oftentimes the little things make the big differences and that’s true when it comes to charisma as well which is why we’re going to be covering 5 small things that dramatically boost your charisma. These are kind of basic in some cases, but they get overlooked too often. Thanks again to Paramount Pictures and Downsizing for sponsoring this video. If you want to see the Downsizing movie with Matt Damon, Kriten Wiig, Cristoph Waltz, Alexander Payne and Hong Chau, click the link in the description above for tickets. 0:48 Downsize your gift 1:53 Donate the things you're not using anymore 3:07 Ask the shyest what they're excited about 4:03 Show engaged body language when talking to someone 5:41 Support other people's passion 8:07 Remember the names of the service people Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
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How To Overcome Your Childhood
 
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Join The Email List By Submitting Your Email Below http://bit.ly/2EakkYs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
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How To Create An Attractive Voice
 
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Click here to donate to Charlie & Ben's birthday fundraiser: http://bit.ly/2yDrPnv Click here to donate your own birthday: http://bit.ly/2x9sAU1 Thank you guys so much! This decade is going to be the best yet :-) - - - - - - An attractive, confident voice can totally change your life, making you more appealing to whoever you're dating, impacting how much people respect your ideas and follow your leadership, even determining how funny people think you are. It completely shapes how people respond to you. And there are a LOT of ways to do it wrong. I absolutely trashed my vocal chords by following some bad advice, which I’ll touch on during this video. It actually got so bad that I needed surgery. I was completely mute for a month recovering, it was a bad time. For the last 8 months I’ve spent many many hours and thousands of dollars working with multiple speech therapists, singing coaches, and Alexander Technique trainers. And I want to share some of the biggest takeaways that can help you have an attractive, confident, healthy voice. 1:01 How to have an attractive voice pitch and timbre and the wrong way of doing it 1:49 How to have a deeper voice and how to get a deeper voice 2:45 How to have a strong, resonant voice that projects and carries 3:25 A common misconception about how to breath into your diaphragm 3:57 Tips to have confidence for public speaking and be more attractive 6:00 Some exercises in how to sound confident and how to speak confidently 7:36 How to have a better voice and how to have a confident voice that's more expressive 8:55 A special announcement for Charlie's birthday. Happy 30th big guy! And here's the Elliot Hulse video How To Create A DEEPER Voice that I referenced! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
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How To Not Give A Fuck
 
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Click on this link to donate: https://my.charitywater.org/charisma_on_command/give-a-fuck “How can you stop giving a fuck?” It’s a question I get fairly often and many times, the person asking it has Tyler Durden in mind (played by Brad Pitt), the cool bad boy from Fight Club that is the not giving a fuck ideal I think it’s because when we watch Fight Club, so many of us feel like the Narrator, played by Edward Norton. Sometimes we’re afraid to ask for what we want. Sometimes we avoid confrontation. And then we see Tyler Durden. Tyler can’t be controlled by ads. He can’t be threatened, because he’s not afraid of anything. Men follow his lead and Marla continues to hang around even when he treats her terribly. Tyler Durden is a shining example of someone who has everything we want without seeming to even struggle. 05:57 Care intensely about just a few things 07:30 Have a life philosophy with conviction 09:15 Distinguish the things that really matter 10:54 Care about other people to balance it Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1068686 Charisma on Command
Why Wonder Woman Is So Insanely Inspiring
 
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Why Wonder Woman Is So Insanely Inspiring Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ARlGoo I felt like Wonder Woman was the first female character in a long time who would say something like this. Now I am not saying that there are no admirable women in cinema. There definitely are (Mulan) I’m saying that when it comes to recent blockbusters (Fifty Shades, Twilight) and superhero movies, women are usually either supporting cast (Black widow) or not exactly role models. Wonder Woman isn’t perfect, but she gets a lot right which is why I want to talk about what her character does differently from the common female tropes that men and women alike can learn from. 0:39 Wonder Woman played by Gal Gadot is enthusiastic like with Chris Pine 2:24 2017 movie Wonder Woman directed by Patty Jenkins shows idealism 5:24 DC comics character Wonder Woman questions the rules 6:33 With a movieclip of No Man's Land scene Wonder Woman VS Ares Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 109024 Charisma on Command
How To Make Yourself Immune To Social Pressure
 
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Upgrade Your Social Skills With Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Check out my favorite books: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/best-personal-development-books/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe How To Make Yourself Immune To Social Pressure https://goo.gl/yTfcKJ We have another video up that touches on how to deal with social pressure and will help with the improvement of your social skills. One of the unfortunate things about living in the world is that when you have goals, there will be obstacles and those obstacles can often come in the form of other human beings — the doubters, the haters, and sometimes the friends and the family that just don't want you to get hurt or don't want you to change which is why in this video, I want to help immunize you against that peer and social pressure. The holidays are coming up so you’re going to get a healthy dose of social pressure when you go home (about your job, your dating status, whatever), so I want to help you to handle it, especially when that social pressure and doubt is coming from people you love. 0:55 Write down your values 2:30 Build a core group of positive influences 4:56 Find a way to build conviction in yourself Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 103211 Charisma on Command
How To Have Tough Conversations
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Frs8WX And for more on Dealing With Conflict, check out Charisma University: www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university _ _ _ _ _ **Hello! Adding this in because some people missed the video on How To Stop People From Talking Over You. This is Ben! I'm the guy in this video. I founded Charisma On Command with Charlie four years ago. You can catch a bit of my story towards the end of this video when I introduce myself. Charlie is still creating videos! He's going to release his next one on Monday. Hope that clears things up a bit :-) _ _ _ _ _ Have you ever had a tough conversation in front of you and not known exactly how to handle it? Maybe it was with your boyfriend or girlfriend, amongst friends or roommates, with your family, or at work. Difficult conversations are stressful because if you handle them poorly, it can do irreparable damage to your relationship or your career. And we never get taught how to do it correctly! So in this video I go over the principles you can apply to make almost any difficult conversation go well for you. You don’t need to use all of these in all situations. What I want to do is arm you with options so you can choose the right tool for whatever situation you're in. 00:36 3 things to consider BEFORE tough conversations and difficult conversations 00:42 Draw your line. Define what's acceptable and what's unacceptable. 02:20 Thinking things through as if you're the other person 03:38 Set the tone that YOU want the conversation to have 04:10 Things to consider DURING a tough conversation 04:30 State facts and feelings to prevent someone from being defensive 05:30 What to do when someone is making jokes at your expense that you don't like 06:48 Go on the record early so that a tough conversation isn't a surprise 08:11 Have mutual understanding and don't assume about what the other person is thinking 08:50 What to do when you're the one who made a mistake or how to receive feedback 12:05 How to handle emotionally charged conversations and have confidence 13:50 How to calm down a tough conversation that is getting heated 15:40 A more formal introduction! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman and @CharlieHoupert
Views: 174771 Charisma on Command
The Real Life Superpower Of The Vlogbrothers
 
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The Easiest Way To Make The Best Friends (Vlogbrothers) Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eshgu0 Hank and John Green of the vlogbrothers are some of the most influential people on YouTube. Collectively, they’re responsible multiple huge channels (including vlogbrothers and Crash Course, which just came out with Sociology) bestselling books and movies like the Fault in our Stars, Harry Potter inspired music and the YouTube conference - Vidcon. In his video we'll cover the Vlogbrothers' (Hank and John Green) unique style of education as well as the genius way they build communities. Link to John's video on depression: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ooCeoh6608&t=5s 1:49 Attention first when you communicate as CrashCourse sample 4:58 Hank and John Green built a community they are part of 5:27 The vlogbrothers talk about what they believe 5:57 Nerdfighters share the same beliefs as Hank and John Green 9:39 The vlogbrothers keep their focus on other people Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 126945 Charisma on Command

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