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Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed
 
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Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nUgFXJ Game of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed Tyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive. He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out. But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks. And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want. That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones. We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining how Tyrion Lannister survives through Game of Thrones: 1. Cold reading - watch how Tyrion cold reads Bronn . Contrast that with Lommy, who never even attempts to cold read Polliver before he kills him 2. Listening - Tyrion listens very carefully to what people say. When the pirates take him hostage and mention they will sell his "manhood" to the cock merchant, he comes up with a clever reason for them to keep him alive. Cersei provides a foil to this in how she behaves with Joffrey. 3. Asking people for their stories - Tyrion asks the members of the Night's Watch for their stories, learning about Grenn and Pip. Jon Snow, on the other hand, just assumes that they hate him because he is better. If you put those 3 things into place you might not win The Game of Thrones, but you can still display some of Tyrion's genius. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 2498413 Charisma on Command
How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
 
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How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ [Music by Exurb1a]: https://goo.gl/TjP4YN [Animation by Zeino]: https://goo.gl/344LHV We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to. That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation 0:20 Play Reminds Me of 0:54 Ask open-ended questions 1:40 Use revival questions 2:37 Make a complimentary cold read 3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 2489632 Charisma on Command
9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma
 
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9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nVneJx You may be doing some pretty little things that can have a big negative effect on what people think about you so in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. Here we go. First — not proactively introducing yourself. Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile, they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly — this is uncomfortable for everyone involved. So the next time that you find yourself entering or being pulled into a small group, make sure to make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone there with the handshake. 0:14 Not proactively introducing yourself 0:46 Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group 0:55 Talking about things no one cares about 1:16 Not soliciting feedback will not help self improvement 1:41 Trailing off or mumbling may not show self confidence 2:03 Answering questions with single words 2:31 Whining will not help with personal development 2:42 Not remembering names won't help with your social skills 3:08 Lack of principles won't help with your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert MUSIC: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI
Views: 2136176 Charisma on Command
The Core of Self-Confidence
 
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Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/UHklkp The Core of Self-Confidence Self-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it. The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident. But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long. The leave us searching for the next hit. What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem. Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem. Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you. If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem. If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship. Your have low self esteem. This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 435005 Charisma on Command
How To Handle Small Talk As An Introvert
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2RMJdzs How to Handle Small Talk as an Introvert — Kanye and Jimmy Kimmel Breakdown We look at the Kanye-Kimmel interview today and do a break down on how to handle small talk especially if you're an introvert. Small talk can be a pain for some people especially introverts. Now, there is nothing wrong with light and playful banter and we've covered that in other videos but in this video, we are going to discuss how anyone including introverts can become a master of quickly moving through small talk to something more. And for some people, it's going to come as a surprise that I am featuring Kanye West in this video. To be clear, I'm not saying that Kanye West is necessarily an introvert. Kanye may not be an introvert but in his most recent interview with Jimmy Kimmel, I did see a number of behaviors that are typical of an introverted type that doesn't really want to engage in small talk. And I thought that this could make a good jumping-off point for the topic. First off, small talk can be difficult for people because they don't know when to participate. If they aren't asked a question, they feel like they shouldn't speak up and then the dreaded awkward silence ensues before the other person excuses themself. In reality, there are almost always subtle openings and invitations to join in. 1:00 Notice subtle openings for you to share your thoughts 2:15 Respond with an open-ended statement to keep the conversation going 3:00 You don't have to answer questions if you want to talk about something else 4:11 Pause to create opt-in points for others 5:22 Try to get to a conversational topic you both care about Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 1794100 Charisma on Command
How To Stop Caring What People Think
 
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How To Stop Caring What People Think Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nNVCa0 Have you ever lied about an odd hobby you have? Or maybe your job status? Or your height? Or even just avoided putting yourself in a situation in which you knew you were likely to fail? Why did you do that? Short answer: because you were embarrassed. Embarrassment comes from trying to control how other people perceive you. So instead of just showing the world your nerdy hobby, say you collect Beanie Babies, you go “I don’t want people to think I’m a dweeb.” and you pretend you don’t have one. The same process plays out with hobbies as it does with mistakes we’ve made, areas in which we are weak, and areas where we might get publicly rejected. We hide what we don’t want people to know about us. We conform to what other people would like us to be. But that doesn’t have to be the answer: Because there is another, more empowering mindset: Instead of focusing on other’s perceptions and feeling embarrassed about what they may think… Focus on whether or not you live up to YOUR OWN values. That's what this video is about and that's how you'll learn to stop caring what people think about you. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan
Views: 1062847 Charisma on Command
3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF
 
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3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BfF4iS Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos. So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable. In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity. Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice. That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity. Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily 0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet 4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert 6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy Everything is awesome (The LEGO Movie): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTqXEQ2l-Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 777758 Charisma on Command
How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument  - Jordan Peterson
 
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Tyrion Video on Frames: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NQiHtbpa8s& Previous JP video on earning respect: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsQLksbfDSo& Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate https://goo.gl/jP3ZYs How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Have you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate? See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments! We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in. So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them. 1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap 2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale" 5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique 7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though 7:47 And visual imagery can also help 8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 6163835 Charisma on Command
7 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence
 
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Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/charisma [Animation by Zeino]: https://www.youtube.com/zeino Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qsWl1w 5 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence: https://youtu.be/4R-3PPsM8HQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes we all say things, unfortunately, that can make other people judge us negatively. This can really impact our social, business, and familial life. It can truly be puzzling, especially when we’re unaware of what we’re doing wrong. Today we’re going to shine some light on how we communicate, so we can clear the clutter that’s blocking our confidence! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:15 - Phrase #1: “Just” 0:51 - Phrase #2: “I was wondering” 1:13 - Phrase #3: “Is this guy bothering you?” 1:44 - Phrase #4: “Uh… Um… Like…” 2:09 - Phrase #5: “I’m sorry (but)” 2:40 - Phrase #6: “You probably don’t care (but)” 3:02 - Phrase #7: “My (...) is making me” ------------------------------------------------------------------ #BeConfident #CharismaOnCommand #Animation ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 588427 Charisma on Command
How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower
 
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How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through. This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be. When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-) Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je Join the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 298527 Charisma on Command
Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works
 
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Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/y2CvdQ Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works Game of Thrones is all about power games. What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world. There are clashes of frames. The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark). There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life. We'll look at three in this video Note: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch 1) Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga) 2) Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister) 3) Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn) Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns! I have never done one in the past and would love your feedback. Especially let me know if you like Game of Thrones related breakdowns, because there is a lot more I could potentially cover (like Tyrion's charisma and persuasive abilities) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1491408 Charisma on Command
5 Easy Ways To Show Extreme Confidence
 
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Join CU: https://bit.ly/2Fxhy2S 3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF: https://youtu.be/G_SmshF2ynw Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden): https://youtu.be/MceYE8zxk3Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Jack Black posted 2 videos the past week and he’s literally taking over YouTube With nearly 3 million subs in such a short period of time I felt obligated to explain why Jack is so entertaining and loveable Today we’re going to explain Jack’s charisma! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:29 - Point #1: Comfortable With Himself 1:25 - Point #2: Displays and Accepts Weaknesses 3:07 - Point #3: Committed With His Actions 5:21 - Point #4: Very Comfortable Giving Compliments 6:38 - Point #5: Burns People As A Character 8:07 - Charisma University ----------------------------------------------------------------------- #JackBlack #CharismaUniversity #SelfDevelopment ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 773405 Charisma on Command
How To Develop Genuine Charisma - PewDiePie Breakdown
 
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Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Ly0j2j Why PewDiePie Is Unstoppable: https://youtu.be/-31CYrfMMTY Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I know, we’ve finally reached the inevitable tragedy... PewDiePie has lost the sub wars with T series. Regardless, we all know who’s number one in our hearts! Aside from the hot pursuit, today we’re going to take a look at how Felix’s charisma has grown, his use of clickbait, and how he’s trumped the big media scandals of the past. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:45 - Point #1: PewDiePie Is A Master Of Capturing Attention 1:54 - Point #2: PewDiePie Is Self Aware 4:31 - Point #3: PewDiePie Makes Content He Actually Likes 5:34 - Point #4: PewDiePie Seems Happier ------------------------------------------------------------------- #PewDiePie #CharismaOnCommand #SubWars ------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 756361 Charisma on Command
How To Permanently STOP Self Sabotage
 
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Free week of premium, Simple Habit:- on your mobile browser, go to http://www.simplehabit.com/charisma Search "Charisma on Command" inside the Simple Habit app to find the exercise for social confidence :-) Thank you to Zeino for the amazing animation! www.youtube.com/zeino Video on using financial stakes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz0dNt6GpRQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 209194 Charisma on Command
How To Shut Down Haters
 
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How to Shut Down Haters Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C44Mne One of the unfortunate downsides of making positive changes is that people around you sometimes get negative. It doesn't matter what it is. It happens with people beginning new fitness regimens. . It happens with people starting new businesses, And it certainly happens with people who follow tips on this channel to become more charismatic. As they say, haters gonna hate. In this video, you’re going to discover 5 tips to put haters in their place when they start chirping.. 0:22 Ignore the hating, ignore the haters 0:50 Play along with passive-aggression 1:07 Special tip when haters say, "I could never do that..." 1:39 Share your values and concerns for people close to you 2:31 Find a community without haters Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Fadhila Arimurti, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan
Views: 257997 Charisma on Command
Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk
 
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Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbwIYh How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk, Robert Downey Junior Style We all have had those situations in life where we KNOW someone is trying to get to us. Maybe they keep asking embarrassing questions. Maybe they put us down with backhandedly. We know they are attacking us passive aggressively, but it feels like there is nothing we can do about it. Many of us don't know how to handle this kind of conflict. In this interview with Robert Downey Junior, Krishnan Guru-Murthy continually asks about his history with drugs and jail. In the context of the interview, the questions are out of line, yet Guru-Murthy continues to probe. This video will show you how Robert Downey Junior handled the situation and the exact steps that you can take to deal with these kinds of passive aggressive attacks. The good news is that you don't have to be a jerk, nor do you have to be a total door mat. You can politely be assertive and then exit the conversation by following the 5 steps. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 2741195 Charisma on Command
How To NEVER Be Boring
 
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How To Never Be Boring Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Nobody wants to be boring. But unfortunately no one teaches us how not to. Which is why in this video we are going to cover 5 things that you can do to avoid boring everyone around you and instead attract people to you you like a magnet while enjoying your life much more. Animation by Zeino: YouTube.com/Zeino Music: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI Music: https://youtu.be/3W89LQqk06w 0:14 Improve your energy which will always help personal development and relationships 0:59 Make backup list of topics as second tip on how to never be boring 1:57 Learning to tell a good story as a self help in social will aid in self improvement too 3:35 Spend part of your every day pursuing a dream on the philosophy side Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 596173 Charisma on Command
How To Make Someone Remember You For A Lifetime
 
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Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Consider online counseling by visiting http://betterhelp.com/charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2LJPPfx Oprah Winfrey has a superpower. For over 30 years, people who speak to her have not been able to help but to open up, sometimes crying, expressing joy, or just showing the most vulnerable parts of themselves. That ability propelled Oprah to a net worth of four billion dollars not to mention launching books to the top of the bestsellers list and Dr. Phil's television career. So in this video, we are going to explore how and why Oprah is the best connector that I have ever covered on this channel. And you're gonna learn how to live so that people will naturally find themselves opening up and connecting with you. First off, Oprah sets the stage to connect literally. Unlike many other TV show hosts, she is famous for walking the aisles of her studio audience and for sitting on the same couch as her guests. Later on, she would actually go into their homes for intimate interviews. Now, the lack of physical barriers such as a desk tends to make two people feel more connected and that's why you are more likely to find a spark on a first date if you sit adjacent to your date rather than being separated by a table. 0:33 Set the situation so connecting is easy 1:17 Connect physically and emotionally 2:58 It's easier to open up if there's eye contact 3:29 Actively listen and paraphrase accordingly 4:38 Call out whenever there are commonalities Oprah makes James Corden cry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GZlUextcAA Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 1032981 Charisma on Command
3 Traits That Instantly Make You More Attractive
 
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Thank you BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Sign up here: https://www.betterhelp.com/charisma Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Q0ujod Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we’re going to talk about 3 traits that make you attractive in social circles, business and the dating world. There has always been a clash of thoughts on these topics. When I say “attractive man” and “dating” you commonly think “arrogant jerk no one likes”. Even the word “attraction” has a lot of superficial connotations like material possessions. No need to worry about buying a Lamborghini to fit into a business clique or buying 10 drinks for the lady at the bar. What we’re talking about today is 100% free :) ⏰TIMESTAMPS ⏰ 00:17 - Trait #1: Enthusiasm 02:50 - Trait #2: Decisiveness 04:50 - Trait #3 - Gesticulations ------------------------------------------------------------------ #3AttractiveTraits #HowToBeAttractive #CharismaOnCommand ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 314082 Charisma on Command
How To Crush Any Interview
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2RqfK1U How To Crush Any Interview These are great tips on how to crush any interview to get the job! One of the moments in your life where you are absolutely going to want your confidence and your charisma to be on point is when you are sitting in an interview chair because when you've arrived there, they've decided that you have what it takes to get this job but you still have to show the person across from you that you're someone that they like, that they could work with, and that you can communicate the skills that make you a good fit which is why in this video I want to show you exactly how to prep for and crush any interview and that includes answering specific questions like, "Tell me about yourself? What's your greatest weakness and tell me about a time when..." so we're going to jump right into it; I got a lot to say. The first piece is on mindsets. The number one thing that screws people up when they get in interviews besides having not prepped, and you're here so congratulations for that, is that they just get tongue-tied — their confidence is gone — because they're putting so much pressure on the situation. And in order to alleviate this, what I recommend you do and that they do is to zoom out. Imagine yourself at 90 years old. You're looking back at your life. You see the successes, the failures, the happy moments, the sad ones, and I promise you, as you do that and you scan for the most pivotal moments in your life that we're hyper critical, you will not see the interview that you have coming up; there's no chance. It's just not going to crack something that absolutely changes the inevitable course of your life 00:37 Your mindset during an interview will get you the job 01:51 Preparation before an interview is another key to get that job Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 160437 Charisma on Command
3 Mistakes That Butcher First Impressions
 
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Get The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FU1zsL 3 Mistakes That Butcher First Impressions You might be butchering your first impressions without even realizing it. Not cause you’re a self-absorbed jerk, but because a lot of the most well-intentioned advice you’ve received is incomplete. And if you don’t understand the fine points of when that advice applies and when it doesn’t you might miss out on hitting it off with your next close friend, business partner, or even boyfriend or girlfriend. So I want to shed some light on 3 common first impressions mistakes I see that all stem from good advice gone wrong. 1) Thinking that harmony “getting along” and not causing waves is the most important thing 2) Avoiding disagreements and focusing only on commonalities 3) Thinking "fake it til you make it" applies beyond non-verbal communication Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1110671 Charisma on Command
The Introvert's Guide To Networking
 
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The Introvert's Guide To Networking Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FZ27h5 Last week I went to a conference called ClamourCon I saw something that really surprised me. In fact it wasn’t a something, but a someone. This person, a self professed introvert, was one of the best networked people I know, with connections from Holly wood to the venture capital world, to personal development world. Once I found this out about him, I began to ask him how that all came about and that’s what I want to share with you today. His name by the way is Evan Carmichael, he’s a YouTuber who makes inspiring content for entrepreneurs. I’ll put a link to his channel in the description. So here’s what I saw from him. First off, redefine what constitutes a networking event. Most things with “networking” in the title are a complete waste of time. It attracts people who are looking to develop a network instead of a relationship. And it’s especially bad if you’re an introvert, since you’ll be competing with a bunch of other people hungry to share their story and what they are working on. Evan's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/ModelingTheMasters 0:50 Redefine your networking philosophy as per Evan Carmichael 2:15 Be open to people and have confidence and believe in yourself 3:28 Know what people want which is easier for an introvert 5.07 Play matchmaker and help others in their self improvement Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 300423 Charisma on Command
How To Stop Procrastination (3 Simple Tricks)
 
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How To Stop Procrastination What do you want to do that you keep procrastinating? https://goo.gl/X1QoIA Maybe you’re even putting it off right now by watching this video. Keep it in mind, because by the end of this video - my goal is to get you doing that thing. Because if you’re like me, you’ve found it comparatively hard to hit the gym, write a thesis, make a sales call, and most recently making these YouTube videos. And comparatively easy to playing video games, browsing reddit, and watching old episodes of Supernanny. But if you understand why procrastination happens, you’ll realize there are three levers you can use to trick yourself and train your brain to stop procrastinating. So let’s do it. 0:26 Three psychological triggers for procrastination 0:35 Lack of clarity is the first trigger for procrastination, overcome by setting daily deadlines 1:48 Overwhelm is the second trigger for procrastination, overcome by creating Tiny Habits 2:58 Delayed gratification is the third trigger for procrastination, overcome by rewarding yourself immediately after the fact 4:14 An extra procrastination tip to make everything work better Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 278467 Charisma on Command
Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word Choice
 
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Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2C4Crx5 Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word Choice Donald Trump and Russell Brand are two very influential people with devoted followings. Yet they have nearly opposite styles of speaking. Trump uses simple words. His announcement speech for his presidential bid came in at a 4th grade reading level according to the Flesch - Kincaid readability test. Russell Brand, on the other hand, speaks using words that you're unlikely to ever hear in normal conversation and may need a thesaurus just to understand. So after watching how effective Trump has been in his campaign I began to ask myself: which is better? Big words or small ones? Short words or long words? Have I been mistaken in trying to expand my vocabulary? In this video, I explore the different speaking styles of Trump and Brand and try to answer those questions. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 564539 Charisma on Command
Elon Musk: How To Achieve 10x More Than Your Peers
 
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Elon Musk: How To Achieve 10x More Than Your Peers How To Give An Amazing Presentation Playlist: http://bit.ly/2poTHJX Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2IBKpCr In this video we have three tips to achieve success and improvement as shown by Elon Musk! In five hundred years, we may look back and say, "Elon Musk was the single most influential person of our entire century." He has been able to do more in his 46 years than most of us could hope to do in ten lifetimes and yes, part of that is because Elon is incredibly smart and he works incredibly hard. ...and we're so hot up; we had just one computer so the website was up during the day and I was coding at night. ...work hard like it mean every waking hour; that's the thing I would say if your particular if you're starting a company. But working 100 hours a week still only puts you at two-and-a-half times as much as the average employee. And most geniuses do not make the international impact that Elon has. In fact, the man with the highest IQ in the world, Chris Langan is a bouncer. So while smarts and work ethic are critical to Elon's success, in order to impact the world, you simply have to be able to influence other people; there's no way around it. That includes employees investors and the public at large and Elon Musk is unique here because on this channel, we can normally point to a leader's ability to nail a public speech. 02:15 Elon perseveres despite a lot of failures 05:05 Elon has a vision that inspires Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 2625941 Charisma on Command
How To Be Popular Without Trying
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FqI2AM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Also as promised, here is our breakdown on why Chris Pratt is so awesome: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_SmshF2ynw And here is our recent video “How To Create An Attractive Voice”: https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50 If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok. I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”. But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth. A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw". It's really hard not to like him! There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him. Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is. And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts! The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man. And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok). Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised. So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special. 2:33 How To Make Jokes That Elevate The People Around You (and make them love you for it) 4:16 How To Be Funny By Teasing And How To Be Genuine 5:30 How To Touch In A Way People Like And How To Touch Without Being Creepy 10:11 How To Share Embarrassing Stories In A Way That Conveys Confidence And Makes People Respect You 11:41 Sharing Praise And Being Everyone’s Favorite Team Member 13:25 How To Make A Compliment Feel Genuine And Not Fake (i.e., How To Compliment Without Being A Suckup) Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1643097 Charisma on Command
3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone
 
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3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qTSVYG Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones. And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world. Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things. We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don't live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone. She has a number of incredibly effective strategies. 00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows 06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize 07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of Thrones Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1093188 Charisma on Command
The Secret Of Bill Clinton's Charisma
 
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Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nWDgDg The Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye Contact Bill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive. On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room. Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with." It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot. A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact. And that is the main focus of this video. We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze. Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes. You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George Bush Sr. who lost the 1992 debate and maybe the election because of the way he handled this question. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 301315 Charisma on Command
3 Signs You Are People Pleasing (And How To Stop)
 
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Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Upsu7k 5 Habits That Guarantee You Become Charismatic: https://youtu.be/Takobi8jsEI Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe This video seems quite hypocritical, especially on this channel. Mainly because we talk a lot about impressing others, how to seem cool, confident and general tips to increase your charisma. However, there is a fine line between genuine charisma and people pleasing, and the latter is exactly what we DON’T want. So today, let’s dive into the subtle signs of people pleasing that you are likely doing so we can solve them and crush them for good! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:34 - Sign #1: Mismatch Between What You’re Saying And What You’re Thinking 1:43 - Sign #2: Setting Up “Covert Contracts” 2:53 - Sign #3: Difference In Behaviour Between Groups 4:18 - Solution #1: Listen To Your Internal Voice 5:12 - Solution #2: Be Creative In Expressing Your Real Self 6:05 - Solution #3: Pay Attention To Consistent Personality Traits 7:25 - How To Make An Amazing First Impression -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeoplePleasing #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 156716 Charisma on Command
Why You Aren’t Getting A Second Date
 
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Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date. There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 128644 Charisma on Command
4 Easy Ways To Make Small Talk With Anyone
 
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Click here to enter your name for free coaching here: https://gleam.io/competitions/5tsJp-charisma-on-command-1-hour-coaching-session-giveaway This video will give you 4 go-to techniques for making small talk with anyone :-) https://goo.gl/KEbUrj Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Dj4QSe What’s the goal of small talk? Think of small talk as a way to A.) learn about each other or learn what’s new with each other, B.) see if you connect on anything and want to form or strengthen a relationship, and C.) enjoy yourself. This video will show you how to do that without asking a bunch of questions and making it feel like an interview, and avoid forced conversation or awkward silences. 0:56 What's the point of small talk? 1:37 How to combine a compliment & a cold read to replace a boring question with interesting, fun conversation 2:59 The kinds of questions that lead to excited conversation that flows naturally vs. the questions that lead to awkward silences 4:36 My favorite conversation game that is easy to work into conversation without it seeing weird, and makes small talk enjoyable for both people 5:44 How to guide the conversation towards things you're interested in, by eliciting their advice/opinion Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 1061371 Charisma on Command
6 Phrases That Instantly Persuade People
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2xFhSaZ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Persuasion. When someone is persuaded, it's amazing how positive things turn out. Some psychology on how to persuade someone, empathy, and your personal development off of it will be talked about. You probably like to think of yourself as a rational human being like when you have a decision to make, you take all the information you make a pros and cons list and you add that up to make the best decision possible. But you're a human being and the truth of human beings is we are far more irrational than we'd like to admit. Oftentimes, our decisions come down to the smallest irrational things and oftentimes, that can be just a few words which is why in this video, I want to give you 6 phrases that you can use to turn the tide in your favor when you're trying to persuade someone to do something that you might like. Now, this is not going to be a substitute for really developing a true persuasive strategy, it's not a substitute for empathy but start adding these phrases into your vocabulary and I think you will be shocked with how quickly and how effective they are. So, the first one is when you're coming up against a gatekeeper and the phrase is simply going to be — "Have you ever made an exception?" Now, I used to use this all the time when I would try to get into bars and clubs after it was technically at capacity and it worked pretty well. 0:44 First persuasion phrase is to let them think it won't be a big deal 1:38 A person will more likely be persuaded if you bring empathy to the table 2:58 Make them see you in a positive light and work on your psychology prowess 4:19 Call them by their name 5:14 Another persuasion tactic is the use of the Yes Ladder 6:45 Use the power of "because" More on persuasion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMliNd2b2K0 Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 1149042 Charisma on Command
Conan O'Brien: How To Be Witty
 
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Conan O'Brien: How To Be Witty Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BNrmF6 Comedy Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07dqsgcxRNQITnahKaSFgp96 Conan O'Brien has an extremely fast sense of humor and wit. When we watch him interact on Conan on TBS or the Team Coco channel, he can seem impossibly conversationally clever, which is why he has had no problem entertaining millions of people for nearly 20 years in interviews and now his Clueless Gamer series. But the truth is that there are principles behind the kind of sharp wit that Conan uses so often. And while his years of comedy training have made him a master, simply understanding the principles and using them in your own life can make people find you much much funnier. So let’s take a look at those principles. 0:48 Out of context analysis with Clueless Gamer as one example 3:39 Be specific like how Conan teases Kevin Hart as one example 4:36 See the doubling down here by Conan O'Brien and on TBS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1309991 Charisma on Command
Why Loki Is The Best Villain
 
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As requested! A breakdown analyzing Loki's charm and appeal :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The Marvel Cinematic Universe is pretty much the only thing guaranteed to get me to the movie theater on opening night. I am literally counting down to Thor: Ragnarok! But even though the Marvel movies are amazing, there is popular criticism that their villains are kind of weak. And yet, from Thor to Avengers to Thor The Dark World, Loki is the one villain that everybody seems to adore and root for. While most Marvel villains get killed off or captured after just one film, Loki has now played a major role in 4 films. Loki won MTV's sexiest Avenger. There’s even been petitions for Tom Hiddleston to star in a Loki standalone movie. I believe there are four major reasons why Loki has literally gotten away with murder and become one of the biggest fan favorites in the Marvel universe. And understanding these four things will help so you too can get away with making mistakes or screwing up, without it being something people hold against you. 0:55 Loki is the best villain as he is charming 3:38 We understand and relate to Loki 7:32 He is a tortured soul as shown in these Loki best scenes 9:50 You can't keep Loki down being the brother of Thor Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 559936 Charisma on Command
7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20's
 
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Interested in managing a foreign language channel? We are especially interested in Arabic, Mandarin, Hindi, and Japanese, but we’re open to just about any other (we already have Russian, Spanish, Portuguese, and Italian) If so, email me at [email protected] with: 1) The subject line in this layout, with the language first and "language channel" after (ex: German Language Channel) 2) A sample of you dubbing any of our videos in the particular language. One minute is enough. This is to make sure you have the basic ability to translate and dub and to give you an idea of what would be involved. 3) A short note explaining why this interests you Best of luck! :) Also if you want to see the other language channels, here they are Russian (courtesy of Erik and his team):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnXppDx0xzfKqOafJunzcEw Spanish (courtesy of Lucho): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_p2pDMqZ5bjNpQTL3K4r1g Portuguese (courtesy of Yan): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxTTuAGVXR-xz9z5A-6BlEQ Italian (courtesy of Samuele): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChVKViVsVzeI-9BxB0ZM-Nw Be More Self Aware: https://youtu.be/R3kkqOzjrM4 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I sometimes think back like “I wish I knew that at 20…” or “Imagine where I would be now if I took more action…” and “If only I bought bitcoin when it was $1…” I’m sure you’ve all been there This fueled the idea of today’s video 7 tips that I wish I knew when I was 20, now in your hands to implement! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:34 - Point #1: Constant Criticism About You Is Probably True 1:09 - Point #2: 90% Of Negotiation Success Is In Starting It 2:13 - Point #3: Scarcity Is Often A Sales Tactic 3:26 - Point #4: Arguing Over Life Philosophies Is A Waste Of Time 4:27 - Point #5: Value Experience Over Theory 5:37 - Point #6: Remove Lies Of Omission 6:36 - Point #7: Growth Comes When You Do The Opposite 7:59 - Foreign Channel Announcement ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #LifeAdvice #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 817232 Charisma on Command
How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover
 
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James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EdT6Qs Push Pull In Flirting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k Self Deprecating Humor: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07cE9uFJ-SqUHQvmuNbhdRmz James Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show. And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video. 01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct 02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing 02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke 06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out 07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did here Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1112444 Charisma on Command
6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic
 
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Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/7G2Go2 6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally. In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you. Those charismatic beliefs are 1. No matter what, I will be okay 2. I care more about my character than my reputation 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity 4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything 5. I share my purpose proactively 6. I go there first in humanizing interaction If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert
Views: 1748647 Charisma on Command
Adele: How to Be Authentic
 
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Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgX Adele: How to Be Authentic Adele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion. Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better. James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B... The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are: 1) Smiling Genuinely 2) Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings 3) Praising Others Openly And Freely Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 275312 Charisma on Command
How To Short-Circuit The Fear Of Rejection
 
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Do you ever feel like the fear of rejection is holding you back?... Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C43VD8 Like maybe there's someone that you would have really liked to ask out, someone that you've had your eye on for a long time, but when you think about asking them out you think about them maybe saying no. Rejecting you. So you don't even want to try. Or maybe you're an artist of some kind and you'd like to share your art, you'd like to publish it, you'd like to maybe even pursue it as a career... for me, this was writing. But, when you think about being criticized or rejected for that art, you don't even want to throw your hat in the ring. If that's something that you can relate to, the good news is that you don't have to continue to relate to it because there's people in the world that are basically immune to rejection! They don't feel it in the same way that you might, and they don't fear it. And the only difference between them and someone who has issues with rejection that were kind of fears it is the way that they perceive it in their mind and that's what we're covering today. How can you make those quick little rejection tweaks? They're gonna make rejection kind of feel like something that just rolls off your back like nothing at all! Rejection Mindsets and Strategies: 0:57 Think of a time that you have been rejected exercise. 1:15 Disassociate yourself from the rejection. 2:44 Broaden your perspective and goals of being rejected. 4:20 Success is a numbers game (roll the dice). 5:50 STOP using the word "Rejection" Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 434089 Charisma on Command
5 Subtle Signs Someone Feels Attracted To You
 
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Using this link, new members can get 3 months of Audible for just $6.95 a month. Go to https://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500 Flirting Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVYuMhjk58o&list=PLefV978fp07dLgZhVLE8J5dSlQX7z-iKH Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Have you ever been confused on whether someone likes you? Maybe you’ve been indirectly flirting, at least verbally, but have been blowing your cover with your body language What are the signs? Fear not, Charisma on Command is back again to slay the confusion dragon Today we’re talking about 5 common indicators of interest! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:30 - Point #1: How The Person Breaks Eye Contact 1:13 - Point #2: How They Touch You 1:59 - Point #3: How They Touch Themselves 3:04 - Point #4: Where Their Body Points 4:26 - Point #5: How They Talk About Potential Admirers --------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dating #CharismaOnCommand #BodyLanguage --------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 604552 Charisma on Command
How To Text A Girl
 
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How To Text A Girl Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Ec5fcK Have you ever met a girl, hit it off, exchanged numbers, texted her to set up plans and then NEVER seen her again.  Yeah, probably more than once.  And that’s because there are about a dozen other men trying to get her attention at the same time and your texts just don’t stand out.  Even if you hit it off in person, you’re sunk in this day and age if you can’t make her like you over text. So I want to give you 5 things you can do that will separate you from the pack, make her more attracted to you, and get you meeting her in person. 0:32 Save yourself in her phone as something fun 1:00 Send yourself a text as her after you have saved your name 1:35 Do not make things all logistical 2:20 Use callback humor 2:50 Get her excited about the plans you will make Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 702330 Charisma on Command
How To Flirt With Women: Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown
 
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Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjE Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone. The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out. So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 2136636 Charisma on Command
How To Spot Dangerous Advice
 
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I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern. First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice. In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years. Here's what I've learned 1. Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire - you'll know because of what they've achieved, what the people who have followed their advice have achieved and what testing their recommendations proves. 2. When you have aspirations that no one around you has lived up to, you need to find a digital mentor. Get online, read a book, just find the person who has done it and study their path. 3. Develop a circle of friends who are supportive of your happiness, even if that means change. Cut the ones that only want you in status quo 4. Pick teachers that have strong morals. You can't learn a skill set without also picking up a life philosophy, so be careful who you let in Hope that helps you filter out the bad advice and move closer towards the kind of life you dream of :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 191761 Charisma on Command
How To Flirt As An Introvert
 
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Drop a comment on our latest IG post for a chance to win Powerful U Tickets: https://www.instagram.com/charliehoupert/ https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/ Learn more about the event: https://powerful-u.com/ You can save $25 on tickets with the code "charisma" Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2LyBbZw Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe When I was studying abroad, I literally didn’t date for an entire year. I wasn’t really that confident and found some parts of dating awkward. Over time I’ve certainly grown out of my old introverted self, you can tell by all the extroverted dating advice that’s on the channel. But I know you introverts out there still have this pain point, so let’s dive into it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:17 - Tip #1: Logistics - Where To Meet Women 01:47 - Tip #2: Wear Your Interest On Your Chest 03:02 - Tip #3: Open-Ended Questions 03:24 - Tip #4: Elaborate Then Relate 05:08 - Tip #5: How To Land The Date ------------------------------------------------------------------ #HowToFlirt #IntrovertFlirting #CharismaOnCommand ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 395116 Charisma on Command
How To Be Sarcastic WITHOUT Being A Jerk
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2k2QHzH Join The FB Q&A: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand How To Be Sarcastic Without Being A Jerk - Deadpool/Ryan Reynolds Breakdown Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We often see the sarcastic moments of Ryan Reynolds, the actor of Deadpool, and in this video, we talk about how to use sarcasm without looking like a jerk. Sarcasm is one of the toughest types of humor to pull off. When executed improperly, it can leave people angry at you as often as it leaves them laughing. So in this video, we are going to take a look at the king of sarcasm, Ryan Reynolds, a.k.a. Deadpool. So how do you use sarcasm without leaving people angry or hurt? Well, if you're going to do it it cannot be a one-off potshot; otherwise, it feels like a pointed attack. So getting in the habit of joking all the time even in semi serious moments helps signal to others that your statements are usually to be taken in jest. We also talked about this at length in our video on Chris Pratt so check it out as well! 0:34 Get into the habit of joking even in serious moments 3:17 Lessen filtering words to blurt out and experiment 5:16 Making yourself the buttt of your sarcastic comments helps 6:09 Still utilize compliments so as to not look like a total jerk Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 437455 Charisma on Command
Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling
 
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Get the exercise to build enthusiasm and commitment in under 1 minute: https://goo.gl/Hg42Mi Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling Kevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes. It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces. While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft. These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny stories So if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert
Views: 1600414 Charisma on Command
Rick and Morty: Why Everyone Loves Rick Sanchez!
 
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Rick and Morty: why everyone loves Rick Sanchez. For more Rick and Morty videos, subscribe here: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today let’s talk about Rick & Morty! Rick and Morty is one of the smartest, funniest, most entertaining shows in recent memory. One super interesting aspect of Rick and Morty is that its title character, Rick Sanchez, is beloved by fans despite being an apathetic horribly flawed criminal. In fact, the majority of Rick and Morty viewers root for Rick more than any other character. Today we’re going to go over why exactly that is, using some of my favorite Rick and Morty clips, and also a few things you can apply to your own life to be as magnetic and well respected as Rick, without all the terrible traits mixed in :-) 0:58 A quick rundown of flaws of Rick Sanchez of Rick and Morty 1:50 People admire excellence as also mentioned on Emergency Awesome 2:20 Humor affects the impact of what is said on Rick and Morty Adult Swim 3:00 The power of speaking unpopular opinions out loud 4:30 The dark side of human emotion which is also shown on Rick and Morty season 3 6:13 The film theorists even agrees wisecrack Rick taking risks to protect Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 642834 Charisma on Command
LeBron James: How To Become Exceptional
 
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Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2GgL0fH Elon Musk, Defining Your Own Vision: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liJbB_0eCTo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Lebron James is a legend and he never fails to impress the world with his next level plays However, there’s so much more to Lebron than how he dunks and dribbles on court Today we’re going to talk about Lebron’s charisma and mindsets and how we can learn from him as a leader ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:22 - Point #1: Turning Challenges Into Motivation 2:12 - Point #2: Focus On Your Locus Of Control 3:06 - Point #3: Don’t Obsess Over Vanity Metrics 4:40 - Point #4: A Philosophy That Is System Oriented 5:34 - Point #5: Leaders Make It About Other People 6:44 - How To Make Amazing First Impressions ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LebronJames #CharismaOnCommand #Leadership ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 174623 Charisma on Command
How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson
 
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Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2mHvxck Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson https://goo.gl/DLouoh Jordan Peterson recently expertly handled a debate during an interview with BBC's Channel 4 news (The video was called: Jordan Peterson debate on the gender pay gap, campus protests and postmodernism). And JBP did it without being a bull or being aggressive. So how do we get respect without being a bully? Well, we often think that getting respect and being aggressive go hand in hand. Because unfortunately, it’s often the bully that gets the most respect in the schoolyard and even in the workplace. But Jordan Peterson is an exemplar of a different way to generate massive amount of respect. So in this video we’re going to explore 3 main things he does that force people to respect you WITHOUT being a bully. Now, we focused a lot on respect in this video but that's actually just one out of four emotions that are going to create an amazing first impression on anyone cross-culturally. Now, if you're curious with the other three emotions that you want to create in that person are to make an amazing first impression, I made a video on that that breaks down what those four emotions are so that you can start using them today to consistently make killer first impressions. 0:30 Jordan Peterson calls it "pacing your reality" 4:50 Jordan Peterson tells stories effectively 6:54 Jordan Peterson uses archetypal stories Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman
Views: 2635273 Charisma on Command
How Tony Robbins Outsmarts Depression
 
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How Tony Robbins Outsmarts Depression Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EapCaf Tony Robbins is probably the most gifted communicator I have ever seen. One of his most amazing feats is that in his live seminars, he is able to take people from feeling depressed to empowered in just one conversation. So in this video, we’re going to talk about just one of the techniques that Tony Robbins uses to accomplish this. It’s called a state break and that is anything that you do to shift someone from one emotion to another. It sounds simple, but if you can master this skill, your ability to help other people, to persuade, and to live a more fulfilled life goes through the roof. 0:50 Anthony Robbins gives the opposite of what they expect 3:20 Tony Robbins resorts to humor like in I Am Not Your Guru 7:35 Calls for body motion for self help and personal development Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert personal development
Views: 688059 Charisma on Command